We got ready to leave for church last Sunday and my five year old asked, “Mommy, why do we have to go watch the babies? It’s no fun.” It would be easy to say, “Because I said so.” That may work with my five year old. But I need to be able to communicate why we serve in the church to a fifteen year old, and a twenty-five year old, and a fifty year old. “Because I said so” doesn’t cut it for long.
God says to each one of us, “You need to serve. This is how you serve. This is where you serve. This is why you serve.” You find these instructions in 1 Corinthians chapter 12 in the discussion on spiritual gifts:
• There is a variety of gifts, but the Spirit is the gift giver (v. 4)
• They are for the edification of the church (v. 7)
• No gift is superior to another (v. 12)
• We depend on one another (v. 26)
• All gifts are necessary for the health of the church (v. 28)
I love sports, but I’m not athletic. Back when I had to take PE classes, I was always picked when the team captains were running out of options. Eventually, I learned just to stick to the sidelines. But on God’s team, I’m not picked last and I can’t just watch the game from the stands. He has a way for me to serve His body the church. He gifted me specifically for my service. Ken Hemphill says, “First, there are no spectators in the Body of Christ. You were saved and gifted by God to serve for the advancement of the Kingdom. Second, all members of the body must work cooperatively for the church to operate with full effectiveness. You are important to the work of your church.”
Making the body of Christ work effectively takes all of us (and all of our gifts). If you feel like you’ve been standing on the sidelines, pray and ask God how He would have you serve. You may feel His nudge to respond to a request for more nursery workers. Or, you may sign-up to welcome visitors and help them feel comfortable entering your church. However God has gifted you, please don’t let that gift waste away. Remember these convicting words from Ken Hemphill, “Any Christian who fails to discover and utilize his or her gift in service to or through the church sins against the King and weakens His body, the church.”
For more:
- Gifted for Service by Ken Hemphill
- Spiritual Gift Survey from LifeWay
- If you feel like you are over worked in the church, please read my post on “Avoiding Discouragement in Service.”

“When is it okay to leave one church to go to another?” Although there are not any passages in the Bible that specifically say “You should change churches when…” there are plenty of truth principles in Scripture to guide us in this matter. So that’s where we’ll start to find some answers!





