How can you, as one person, respond to the massive trouble in the world?
One person at a time.
Keep your relationships strong for the other side. Isolation will end. Relationships don’t have to.
Just One?
This middle phase of our global pandemic can feel overwhelming. The numbers are staggering; the loneliness is great; the needs are many.
We often feel disconnected because we’re missing our normal hangouts of work, church, social activities, etc. We miss the people who were a regular part of our lives. Even if we Zoom, FaceTime, and Skype, it’s impossible to stay in touch with everyone. We’re concerned that relationships may be damaged after the virus goes into hiding.
What can you do to make a difference now when the problem is so large?
This is God’s specialty. He knows how to turn hopeless scenarios into extraordinary miracles.
And as God did in the past, He can also do today, using one person at a time.
Go Broad
Early on in the shelter-at-home phase, my husband Jeff decided to do a remote check-in with a different person each day. One day it was a text to a college buddy from years ago. Another day it was a phone call to his brother in the next town. Another day it was a message to a family that we no longer see at church.
Jeff’s strategy is to go broad.
We saw Jesus go broad, too.
In Jesus’s ministry in the New Testament, we often saw Him pop into a person’s life at their moment of great need.
- He raised a dead boy at a city gate.
- He healed a bleeding woman while He was going elsewhere.
- He did a remote healing for the son of a royal official.
Which one person needs you in this crisis?
Ask the Spirit to guide you. Then listen for His voice.
- Who do you miss that you normally talk to?
- Who have you not talked to in a long while?
- Who do you know that is lonely?
- Who makes you laugh?
- Who says you cheer them up?
- Who is afraid right now?
- Who calms you when you are afraid?
Connect with that one person.
Write a handwritten note and mail it. Take pictures of things you love and text it. Create video messages. Keep up with important dates in other people’s lives. Call and listen to each other’s voices.
Go Deep
But you also can approach one-person-at-a-time by going deep.
Is there one person who needs your attention again and again? Maybe a lonely widow. A friend with depression. A single mother with young kids.
Give attention to this person’s needs by checking in frequently.
Even if you can’t help face-to-face, your remote spiritual and emotional support can be a lifeline to get them through.
We know Jesus went deep with specific people.
He had a devoted collection of friends, both men and women. He had His crew of twelve apostles. And His intimate circle of Peter, James, and John. He stayed closer with them.
No one has the exact set of relationships that you do. God placed you where you are for a reason. Let Him use you in this time, one person at a time.
Isolation Will End
The more we connect with our community now, the stronger are relationships will be when we come out of quarantine.
Concentrate on what you want to outlast the coronavirus.
I don’t know who Jeff will contact today. Except for one. In addition to his one-person-a-day, he also checks in with me everyday. I need it, too.
Who can you check on today?
Do you have someone you’re consistently checking on? Who is checking in on you?