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Empathy and Compassion {Guest Post}

October 27, 2011 by Do Not Depart 6 Comments

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What feelings or connotations do the words “empathy” and “compassion” evoke for you?

Empathy and compassion are both good and used with intentions of goodness and aid. Some people may even use these words interchangeably.

But, are they the same?

Empathy is identification with a feeling someone else is experiencing. When a friend experiences grief, we can understand perhaps because of our own experiences with loss. We hear of a child suffering from poverty, and we empathize with him or her, the family, and others impacted because we can imagine our own children hurting or have a strong desire to see all children cared for.

Compassion involves sympathy and empathy. Compassion and empathy both create feelings of identification and evoke a desire to treat another well.

The biggest difference? Compassion acts.

Empathy may lead to compassion (so empathy is no less important). Compassion takes empathy further by acting on those deep feelings of sorrow for another, for compassion is “accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate [that person’s] suffering” (paraphrased from Dictionary.com).

That desire to ease another person’s suffering causes action. Action out of love, action with the purpose of helping another, rather than self-satisfying purposes of boosted ego for “doing good.”

Is it any wonder God calls us to act with compassion?

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” – Ephesians 4:32

“Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble.” – 1 Peter 3:8

Compassionate feeling and action do not just fall into place, though. Where can we obtain compassion to abundantly spread it to others? How does it look as a follower of Christ?

Compassion comes from God (of course):

  • Psalm 86:15
  • Psalm 103:8
  • Psalm 145:9

God commands acting compassionately towards others only after first loving Him:

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.’” – Mark 12:30-31

It is through God that we can fully love with compassion. We can ask for compassion from Him (Psalm 51:1 and Psalm 90:13).

Christ, always our Ultimate Example, models compassion:

  • Matthew 9:36
  • Matthew 14:14
  • Luke 15:20 (the father feels empathy, acts with compassion, and welcomes the prodigal son)

How can we compassionately serve others? We can bake, cook, clean, comfort, encourage, care for, teach. We all have different God-given strengths to shower love on friends and strangers alike!

This others-focused action leads to unity among believers and God’s beloved people (Philippians 2:1-4). Loved people who clothe ourselves with compassion and kindness because we – you and me – are so loved.

Is there ever a situation when we cannot act? Sometimes we aren’t able to cook a meal, help with childcare, or halt a disease. But, we can always pray. We can lift each other up, focusing on God’s heart and His will, while requesting and praising for His help, His mercy, and His goodness.

 

How do you act with the compassion God gifts to us?


Caroline is a wife, mother of a beautiful and charming toddler son, avid reader, and writer. She writes about family, books, and living this grace-given faith authentically at her personal blog (Under God’s Mighty Hand) and can be found on Twitter.

 

 

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  1. Lisa notes says

    October 29, 2011 at 8:31 pm

    This is beautiful, Caroline. Sometimes I’m so slow to act. But if I truly want to be a conduit of God’s love for others, I need to get out of myself and act more out of God.

    I love this too:

    “Is there ever a situation when we cannot act?… But, we can always pray.”
    Amen!

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    • Caroline says

      November 2, 2011 at 9:29 pm

      Oh, Lisa, I am so slow to act, too. I wish I wasn’t. I ponder and study, but I need to implement even more! Praising God for teaching me that active compassion.

      Thank you for your kind comments!

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  2. Patti says

    October 31, 2011 at 3:51 pm

    Ah, this is succinctly stated… the difference between empathy and compassion is that compassion ACTS! Yes, thank you for such clarity. I don’t want to be just a hearer of the Word but also a do-er!

    How grateful I am that He has had compassion on me! How can I not go forth and live a life of compassion? We love because He first loved us.

    Thank you Caroline!

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    • Caroline says

      November 2, 2011 at 9:30 pm

      “I don’t want to be just a hearer of the Word but also a do-er!” Exactly, Patti! Praying this with you.

      Thank you for your supportive comments!

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  3. Caroline says

    November 2, 2011 at 9:31 pm

    Katie (and the other lovely Do Not Depart ladies), thank you again for hosting my words here. I don’t deserve the gift of doing so, but I am thankful! And even more thankful for this ministry and all you all do to build up intentional, God-focused community.

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    […] Spread knowledge and awareness. Some people don’t help simply because they don’t know how to help or what needs exist. The more we share each other’s stories (and our own stories), the more we can all increase compassion towards others’ needs. Compassion leads to action. […]

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