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Love Like Him – Love is Patient Because Jesus Suffered Long for Me

June 18, 2012 by Caroline 10 Comments

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Jesus suffered long for us. Hebrews 12:1-3 shows us such.

“…let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted.” – Hebrews 12:1b-3 (emphasis added)

He endured during His life, with trials and temptations of every kind (Hebrews 4:15). He endured during His death – for us. For our salvation, for our hearts, for our inclusion as God’s children.

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He asks us to suffer long for others.

What does Suffering Long Look Like?

First Thessalonians 5:14 says:

“And we urge you, brothers, admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with them all.”

That additional use of “brothers” (or “brothers and sisters,” if you read the NIV translation) indicates Paul was including all believers within the Thessalonian church, not just the leaders he referenced in the previous two verses.

We are all called to be patient and long-suffering, as Christ was and is.

What does patience look like towards others?

  • “Admonish the idle” – Patience includes redirection. Sometimes we need direction. And we need patience during that time of redirection. Or patience and long-suffering includes faithfully readdressing an issue to help someone’s heart.
  • “Encourage the fainthearted” – When someone experiences sadness for an extended period of time, reacting patiently can be difficult, but we are called to encourage and love.
  • “Help the weak” – Suffer along side someone who has endured trials and affliction.
  • “Be patient with [everyone]” – Christ showed patience with all types of people. As can we, through His strength.

In all of this patient living, we seek to serve. Serving, by nature, calls for patience, endurance, and selfless action. Christ served regardless of if He was served in return.

“See that no one repays anyone evil for evil, but always seek to do good to one another and to everyone.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:15

Remembering the Goal

We do grow weary. But, when we do, we can remember His life, His heart, His strength, His patience, and endure longer. Let us run this race together with patience and love for each other – all for and because of Him.

“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

 

What truths, promises, and commands did you discover during this week’s #LoveLikeHim reading? What patient love captured your heart this week?

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About Caroline

A wife, mother, avid reader, homeschooling momma, and writer, Caroline is imperfect at all of those but thankful for every bit. Eager to grow with believers in deeper, more grace-focused faith, Caroline loves to study His Word, share it with others, and learn more and more how to fully lean on Him to live it out. You can also find Caroline at Under God’s Mighty Hand and on Twitter.

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  1. Robin says

    June 18, 2012 at 5:08 am

    In these verses I believe God is telling us that others are watching us to be an example. We are to separate ourselves from anything that hinders us from our walk with Jesus. And that while we will endure trials, stay stedfast, be patient, help others that are not as spiritually strong as us, and live as the Bible commands us in faith and with prayer.

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    • Caroline says

      June 18, 2012 at 9:19 am

      Great point to bring up about being examples for others, Robin! Just as Christ is the Ultimate Example for us, we can share His example with those around us. Thanks for your thoughts!

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  2. Jessica W says

    June 18, 2012 at 11:28 am

    Thank you for these words. They really ministered to my weary mother heart this morning!

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    • Caroline says

      June 18, 2012 at 3:35 pm

      Thank you for stopping by today! I love when God uses words to bless others. I’ve just said a prayer right now for your mother heart, too. (I can understand!)

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  3. Julie Reynolds says

    June 18, 2012 at 11:43 am

    Caroline – I loved “what does patience look like to others.” Thank you so much for sharing – these were my thoughts but I couldn’t put them into words or on to paper. Thanks, this was beautiful.

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    • Caroline says

      June 18, 2012 at 3:37 pm

      Thank you for your kindness, Julie. When I studied these verses for this post, I realized I hadn’t ever looked at that verse in 1 Thessalonians so closely before. It was interesting (and good) to see those distinct commands describing patience towards others.

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  4. Joyce says

    June 18, 2012 at 6:48 pm

    Thanks for the reminder to “remember His life, His heart, His strength, His patience, and endure longer.” I think a lot of moms need to remember this too. :)

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    • Caroline says

      June 19, 2012 at 12:25 am

      I agree; don’t we all need that reminder sometimes? I figure God knows that, too. :-) Thanks for your comments, Joyce!

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  5. Lisa notes says

    June 19, 2012 at 8:08 am

    I love the Hebrews passage because it reminds me that it IS possible to run my race with minimal hindrances if I’ll lay them aside (I’m not very good at that yet)—and stay focused on Jesus. Only as I focus more on him can I be strong enough to help others focus on him. I want to be more helpful to the broken and tired and discouraged in this way.

    Thanks for your encouraging words here, Caroline.

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    • Caroline says

      June 20, 2012 at 12:32 pm

      “Only as I focus more on him can I be strong enough to help others focus on him.” <— Yes!

      These Hebrews verses and Hebrews 4:15 are some of my favorites as verses to gain perspective about my situation and my purpose in Christ.

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