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Do Not Depart

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Empty into full

March 29, 2011 by ScriptureDig 9 Comments

She arrived empty handed, shuffling into Bethlehem, far from her homeland, away from her relatives, without possessions, bringing only memories of the pain that sent her there and the hope that got her there. Naomi made it clear the likelihood of rescue was nil. All knew she was a foreigner from the land of idol worshipers. Who could redeem the widowed, barren, pagan Ruth? And if one could, would he?


Boaz was able to change Ruth’s empty to full. The humble kinsman became obedient  and willingly acted on his love for the unprotected outcast stooping in his field. Knowing her journey was a choice to embrace His God, Boaz knew she was taking shelter under the refuge of Jehovah’s wings. Boaz was able and willing to give her refuge under the shelter of his “wings,” (2:12,3:9) purchasing her as his own through marriage and redemption. Drawing Ruth into his world, he protected her purity, restored more than she lost, and insured her future reward. Boaz willingly changed her empty to full.


As a kinsman, Boaz was able to provide rescue to the helpless woman, but he was also willing to do his duty of redemption as “Kinsman-Redeemer.” He took an empty foreigner with no hope, calling her “accepted,” and lifting her to be his bride with secure blessings and a glorious future.

In the same way, Christ was able and willing to act on behalf of the lost in need of redemption. “But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those where under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons” (Gal. 4:4-5).  Our rescue required His humanity, and he “humbled himself by becoming obedient to death — even death on a cross!” (Phil. 2:8) The Son of God, our Kinsman, acted to rescue us from our desperate condition, making us pure, restoring more than what was lost, insuring future reward.


In his book Twelve Extraordinary Women, John MacArthur says, “Ruth is a fitting symbol of every believer, and even of the church itself – redeemed, brought into a position of great favor, endowed with riches and privilege, exalted to be the Redeemer’s own bride, and loved by Him with the profoundest affection” (p. 85).

Our pain sends us searching for Jesus, and hope gets us to Him. When the helpless stoop before Him, we cannot fathom the love extending His wings of refuge, joyfully taking us from wretch to bride. In heaven a song is sung to the Lamb of God, Jesus, because “with <his> blood <he> purchased for God  persons from every tribe and language and people and nation” (Rev. 5:9b). Our Redeemer changes our empty to full.


We thought we faced a future of scraping for refuse in the fields, but our loving Lord has given us the inheritance reserved for His beloved. Just like Boaz purchased the unclaimed and destitute woman of Moab as his bride, so Christ purchased us to make us His own and restore to us a glorious future.


Without the love of our able and willing Redeemer, we would still be suffering in the field. Gwen Smith shares the story of Christ’s rescue in her song Broken into Beautiful. Reflect on what Boaz did for Ruth and rejoice in what Christ does for the broken as you listen to Gwen’s testimony in song. When Jesus takes us from empty to full, we must never cease to be gratefully amazed.

A Grateful Glance Back = Recap

November 30, 2010 by ScriptureDig 4 Comments

When the six of us sat around on couches months ago, praying over and planning the coming Scripture Dig themes, we did not know what would transpire in this month of November.  Long before we knew our own hearts and homes would be visited with heaviness, the Lord steered us to a focus on thanks. We really do hope it has blessed and encouraged you, but we know it has blessed and encouraged US!

Before we hurry on to December, let’s take a grateful glance back at where we have been in our digging into the topic of Biblical gratitude. We began by considering a study of what the word “thanks” really means.  Entering into November from our focus on the Church, we took time to reflect on why we, as members of the Body of believers, have so much to be thankful for historically.

Sprinkled throughout this month of thanks have been examples from the pages of scripture showing us the beauty and the beast of gratitude and ingratitude. The one grateful Samaritan leper who was healed stands in stark contrast to the nine who failed to stop and demonstrate Gratitude from the Dust. We looked at expressions of thanks from Job, Hannah, Noah, Mary, and Jesus Himself.  We were cautioned not to lose the joy of our grateful hearts as we saw Sarah fall into the trap of idolizing perfection. It was a timely reminder on “Black Friday” following celebrations of Thanksgiving.

As we shared stories of men and women who tutored us in thanks, we took time to share about how God has used events to work out this quality in our hearts and lives. While our own team members were living out “Even when life is not, He is good,” Kristi shared her words from 2008 as her mother-in-law began a battle with cancer. The message was perfectly timed in the life of our team. Teri Lynne shared a very personal testimony of how God etched the lessons of the Difficult Thanks on her own heart.  Kathy gave us a glimpse into a humbling opportunity to be overwhelmingly “Thankful to be used.”

This month we took a look at practical ways to apply Biblical thanks & make it more a part of our home life:

  • Being thankful in hard times
  • Ways to express thankfulness to God
  • Ideas and examples of expressing thanks together at home
  • How to express thanks to others in your life

God knew that in this month of November, the lives of our team would be full, so He filled us with His truth and comfort. He knew it was the perfect time for a fresh overflow of Thanksgiving from our hearts. We pray that in the sharing, your hearts have been encouraged along the way.  We are thankful for God’s Word to give us comfort and direction, and we are so thankful you’ve come on the journey with us.

 

Song of a Grateful Heart

November 28, 2010 by ScriptureDig 8 Comments

Praise is the song of a grateful heart. As we step from a weekend of Thanksgiving into the season of remembering Christ’s birth, let’s listen to a song of grateful praise from a woman’s heart.

When she’s introduced we know that she’s living in the excitement of her engagement, anticipating her wedding. We find out she is “highly favored” and the Lord is with her. The next adjective is where I really start to relate:  she was “greatly troubled,” from the same root word that gives us “perturbed.” After all, AN ANGEL WAS TALKING TO HER!!! Truly divine.

Following the girl’s confusion came a question (v.34) and then action (vv. 39-40). She wanted to know, “How will this be, since I am a virgin?” After her question she acted on her belief and trust.

Through the angel, God first made a declaration (vv.30-33) of what He planned to do and how Mary was involved. When she asked for understanding, He provided an explanation (vv.35-37) of how the miracle would happen. Then He gave confirmation (vv.41-45) of her blessing and conception, when her relative Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit and her own baby jumped with joy in her womb.

It was after she poured out her confusion and her question and followed with obedient action that her song pours out of her mouth. She had just been answered with God’s declaration of His plan for her, His explanation of the miracle, and His confirmation of what would’ve scared the socks off of any young unwed, engaged, pregnant virgin teenager.  But Mary was clearly already a lover of God, and her heart overflowed with thanksgiving.  Because she KNEW Him, she TRUSTED Him, and she could respond to the extraordinary turn of events with confident gratitude. After all, the angel assured her that “no word from God will ever fail,” (v. 37) and she believed it!

Mary’s Song (Luke 1:46-55)

And Mary said: “My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has been mindful  of the humble state of his servant. From now on all generations will call me blessed, for the Mighty One has done great things for me— holy is his name. His mercy extends to those who fear him, from generation to generation.  He has performed mighty deeds with his arm; he has scattered those who are proud in their inmost thoughts.  He has brought down rulers from their thrones but has lifted up the humble.  He has filled the hungry with good things but has sent the rich away empty.  He has helped his servant Israel, remembering to be merciful to Abraham and his descendants forever, just as he promised our ancestors.”

Mary gave thanks for Who God is, for what He has done, and even for what He called her to do. Her soul magnified Him, acknowledging Him as the source of blessing, worshiping Him, and affirming her reverence for Him. Her humility resounds, as she recognized her own need for a Savior and her service to the holy, mighty, strong, merciful God. While others may’ve been in the fetal position in the corner, we see a Mary whose heart is bursting with awe and joyful praise in a her song of gratitude. We may want to shout, “You go, girl!”  But Mary is shouting, “You go, God!”

Praise is the song of a grateful heart. Obedience is the action of a grateful heart. Read the whole story  from confusion to confirmation to grateful song here.  I would encourage you to open your own Bible to Luke 1:26-56, stand up, and read it aloud “Mary style.”  We can relate to the young woman of this chapter in many ways, starting with the song of her grateful heart. Does a song of praise fill your heart today?

What would you say about God in your own song of thanksgiving?

Planning to Demonstrate Thanks

November 18, 2010 by ScriptureDig 6 Comments

Since the writers on the Scripture Dig currently call the United States home, we’re all preparing for the American holiday of Thanksgiving next week. We’ve looked at how Biblical characters such as Noah, Hannah, Job, and the Grateful Samaritan expressed thanksgiving. Since we’ve been considering gratitude, we want to give you some practical ideas of what “Thanks” may look like in our own homes. We’re giving these to you now, so you might weave gratitude into your celebrations. If we want to have a true attitude of gratitude present in our holiday homes, we do well to plan ahead. Here are some ideas for how thankfulness looks in some of our homes:

Stephanie ~ One of the things I tried to implement was to have a “Blessings Jar” all year. Every time God answered a prayer or we saw Him do something so “obviously God,” we would write it down and put it in the jar throughout the year. At Thanksgiving, we would take turns taking one out of the jar and reflecting on God’s hand in our lives. That caused us to be thankful for all He had done for us!

Kathy ~ Throughout the Old Testament, at turning points and key celebrations, Israel often recounted where God had brought them over the years. They would remember how He choose Abraham, made them a people, and brought them out of slavery in Egypt. They would reflect on God bringing them into the Promised Land, how He conquered their enemies, and the way His loving hand settled them into their new home. Like Israel, our family has seen many travels and changes over the years. Since Wayne and I married, we’ve moved five times. Almost three decades later, our oldest daughter is married, our second daughter is engaged, and our son will graduate from high school this year. Our little nuclear family is now grown up and spread out. When the family gathers at Thanksgiving we usually talk about those years, the “growing up” of our family. It’s obvious God has used Wayne’s job to put us where He wants us to be. He has granted us many experiences with Him and given us many things to be thankful for. This year, our Thanksgiving meal will feature a “Turdukin.” This Cajun creation of turkey, duck, and chicken – which is all generously stuffed with crawfish dressing – is a tasty reminder of our Louisiana roots, the place where our journey with God all began.

Teri Lynne ~ I think the one idea that we have best incorporated into our Thanksgiving celebrations is including widows and others who might be alone for the holidays.  It’s no work to set an extra place or two at the table, but the joy of sharing our day with someone who would otherwise be alone magnifies the best parts of the thanks.  We’ve shared our meal with many over the past few years and always found that the blessing received was ours.

For us, living out “whatever you have done for the least of these, you have done for Me” (Matthew 25:40) is an intentional part of all our holiday celebrations.

Julie ~ I love to put excerpts of God’s Word on the table. I guess you could call it “decorating with a purpose.”  I’ve use picture put excerpts of God’s Word on the table. I guess you could call it “decorating with a purpose.”  I’ve use picture frames with scripture inside, paper napkin holders with verses, ribbons of scripture woven through the centerpiece, and verses on namecards, to name a few.  I like to make a card with a verse for the season and incorporate it in doorway decorations (wreath, basket, chair, vines, etc); it declares the reason for our joy before people even step inside our doorway. We have often placed short passages of scripture at each place, so that we can go around the table and read God’s words aloud, before we share specific reasons for gratitude or hold hands to pray. When people look around our home during the holidays, I want them to see God’s words in our house and see God’s work in our lives.

Kristi ~ Kristi also loves “decorating with purpose” and shared an excellent example of how to be resourceful & create meaningful symbols of gratitude for your home. Check out this post for tips on how to make your own.

 

Sandra ~ Flexibility is a key to letting gratitude wash over our celebrations. Sandra says that sometimes they end up celebrating “Thanksmas” ;) as they combine holidays in extended family visits. It’s a great reminder not to become attached to the “things” or the “traditions.” They are just a means of helping us incorporate what means the most. Use a variety of ideas and expressions to draw out your family’s attitude of gratitude all throughout the season of celebration.

Did these ideas get your mental wheels turning? Sometimes it feels awkward for families to share thanks together, but when we do a little planning, we help those around our tables to consider & respond to the goodness of our God. God’s Word is living and active in our lives and homes, and we want it to influence the way we give thanks.

Tomorrow we’ll share a few “new” ideas for expressing thanks at home. We hope you’ll share something you do to make gratitude personal for your family.

The Difficult Thanks, part 2

November 17, 2010 by ScriptureDig 10 Comments

Machines beeping, blinking, and buzzing all around me … it all blurred together … the days, the minutes, the hours became a haze of sitting, standing, sleeping, sobbing.

Hour after hour I sat there, holding my husband’s hand and praying that God would spare his life.  I was spent. I could no longer put words together, could no longer form thoughts.  The lump in my throat felt permanent, the heaviness in my heart seemed crushing.  We’d been in and out of the hospital for three weeks and had ended up here … in this cold, gray room with more tubes and monitors than I could count, machines pushing oxygen through his lifeless body.

Daily I came to that room and I wept.  Never had I felt more alone, more afraid.  Never had the possibility of loss been greater … never.

In those dark, gray days in that dark, gray room I came face-to-face with a decision … Did I believe God is in control, even in times like this?  Was I going to be the one who praised Him for the abundance and rejected Him in the loss?

To be honest, I struggled …. I was terrified.   Here was this man, the man,  who had loved me in all my brokenness and given me the life-stability I had always craved, lying in a coma, fighting for his life.

Day after day I walked into that room, carrying with me my fears, my grief, and my Bible.  For though I felt alone, I was not … and though I was fearful, I was never beyond His care.  I read the words of the Psalmist and cried them out for myself,

Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from him.  He alone is my rock and my salvation; He is my fortress, I will not be shaken.  My salvation and my honor depend on God; He is my mighty rock, my refuge.  Trust in Him at all times, O people; pour out your hearts to Him, for God is our refuge. ~ Psalm 62:5-8 NIV

And so, I prayed …

Lord, You alone know all the emotions and thoughts I have.  God, I believe in You – in Your plan – I trust You – but, O Lord, help me.  You have carried me every step so far – I know you will continue to do so.

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Lord, use me – let me be light in the darkness for You.  Help me lift You up – to point to You.   Thank You for protecting us and providing for us.

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Lord, thank You for the blessings You have given us – for the healing You are doing in Scott’s body; for the wonderful nurses and staff we deal with; for the great doctors; for our families who are here to help.  Keep me mindful of all of this – and use me to bless them in return.

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Lord, thank You for sustaining me – for giving me the strength to face each day and for healing my husband.  Help me be filled with praise and thanksgiving for all You have done for me.   And thank You for using Scott to touch the lives of others, even in these circumstances – for giving him a heart the desires to minister.

Friends, I don’t know what the difficult situation is in your life right now … but I know this, some of you reading are feeling very alone and very afraid.  May I encourage you with this – I have been there! I know what it is to feel forsaken and forgotten … but know this – God has not lost sight of you!  Giving the difficult thanks doesn’t come naturally … and it requires a relinquishing of self.   But, may I also encourage you with this – He is faithful! Always, in all things, in all ways, at all times.

May you learn, as I have, to “Find rest, O my soul, in God alone.”

What Scriptures has God used to teach you the difficult thanks?

{Edited to add after a sweet comment below:  Yes, my husband is home with us now and doing very well.  He still has a serious blood disorder (ITP) which requires continued monitoring … but at his last appointment, his platelet count was much-improved.  Glory to God!!}

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Hannah’s Gratitude

November 9, 2010 by ScriptureDig 4 Comments

We meet Hannah in the first chapter of 1 Samuel. She was married to Elkanah, who was also married to Peninnah. Verse two tells us, “Peninnah had children, but Hannah had no children.” Scripture says that Elkanah loved Hannah and gave her an extra portion of food. But Peninnah teased her about not having any children.

Hannah longed for a child! She prayed, wept, and would not eat because her desire for a child was so great. Eli was the priest at this time and he noticed Hannah praying at the temple one day. Eli thought she was drunk (1:13)! She explained to Eli that she had been praying. When Hannah had a burden, she prayed. EM Bounds wrote, “…trouble, no matter from what source it comes, becomes in God’s hand his own agent to accomplish his gracious work concerning those who submit patiently to him, who recognize him in prayer, and who work together with God.”

Eli told Hannah that her prayers would be answered. Hannah got up, ate, and was happy. Her gratitude began immediately. She didn’t wait for her prayer to be answered; she was grateful that God heard her request. She trusted in the promise of a son. Verse twenty says, “And in due time Hannah conceived and bore a son, and she called his name Samuel, for she said, ‘I have asked for him from the Lord.’” 

Hannah continued to praise the Lord and made a vow to Him, that she would give her son to His service. She kept her son until he was weaned (probably about three years old), then turned him over to Eli the priest. She said to Eli, “Oh, my lord! As you live, my lord, I am the woman who was standing here in your presence, praying to the Lord. For this child I prayed, and the Lord has granted me my petition that I made to him. Therefore I have lent him to the Lord. As long as he lives, he is lent to the Lord” (1:26-28).

Her gratitude flows from her lips as an offering of praise to God for the gift of Samuel. She is faithful to give him to God’s service.

Like Hannah, we can also show gratitude to God for His promises and His provision. Take time today to thank Him. Even if you are in the midst of suffering, praise Him!

The Difficult Thanks

November 8, 2010 by ScriptureDig 12 Comments

Perhaps the most moving moment of the Relevant conference I recently attended was on Friday night as Angie Smith asked all the women in the room who had lost a child to miscarriage, still birth, or early infant death to stand.   Silence except for the sliding of chairs against the carpet and women throughout the room stood, heads bowed, hearts heavy.  Not one table I saw was left untouched … few eyes were dry, no heart unmoved.

Looking around my church recently I was aware of how many of those present have faced profound loss due to the economy … many who have lost jobs, lost their homes.  Friends who have had to move in with family because they have no other choices.  Men who have taken jobs they hate simply to be able to provide, even meagerly, for their families.  Women who have gone back to work to make it possible for their families to barely survive.

We’ll be traveling this week with our senior adults … many are widows, finishing out their days on earth without the one to whom they pledged their lives.  Some who have been traveling with us for eight years will not be with us this year … their health rendering them unable to go.

Loss … we will all experience loss – in many forms and various intensities – throughout our lives. As we consider biblical thanksgiving, true gratitude, this month on Scripture Dig, it is imperative that we realize the necessity of thanksgiving in times of sorrow and loss.

And so, we look at Job.   He had it all … family, wealth, position, influence.  And in one afternoon, all was lost.  All that he had loved, all he had held dear … gone.  Left with a wife who was bitter and cynical and friends who were skeptical and harsh.

In those moments immediately following the devastating news of his profound loss, we see this:

Then Job rose and tore his robe and shaved his head and fell on the ground and worshiped.

And he said, “Naked I cam from my mother’s womb and naked I shall return.  The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.”

In all this Job did not sin or charge God with wrong.

~ Job 1:20-22, ESV

In these verses I find three keys to giving  the difficult thanks:

  1. Don’t diminish the loss. (v. 20)  Job grieved!  He was visibly devastated … he acknowledged his hurt.  He didn’t try to pretend away the pain.  There is nothing spiritual about denying loss … in fact, doing so can result in a greater bitterness in our own hearts and create harm to our testimony of God’s faithfulness.
  2. Do desire to worship. (v. 21)   Job recognized his need to connect with God!  Immediately after acknowledging his grief, he turned to the One who could comfort him.  And in his worship, he was clear in his awareness that God is in control of all things … and that He can be trusted.  “The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.”
  3. Don’t disregard faith. (v. 22)   Job chose to respond to his loss in faith … “Job did not sin or charge God with wrong.”  Living out our faith can be difficult in the best of circumstances, but even more so when we are pressed on all sides and faced with grief, loss, sorrow, and pain.  But Job’s example is one of continuing to walk in obedience and trusting that the God who had provided all good gifts before would continue to provide for him even in the dark times.

Job’s story continues with his wife’s admonition to, “Curse God and die” (Job 2:9) and his friend’s disparaging words about his need for confession … but at the the end of his story, even when he has questioned God and listened to his friends’ condemnation, though he had heard God’s thundering voice answering his own plea for understanding,  Job’s confession is one of humility:

Then Job answered the Lord and said, “I know that you can do all things, and that no purpose of yours can be thwarted … I have uttered what I did not understand … I had heard of you by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees you; therefore I despise myself, and repent in dust and ashes.”  {from Job 42:1-6, ESV, emphasis added}

How do we give the difficult thanks?  Recognize the goodness of God. When life doesn’t make sense, God is good.  When life is hard, God is good.  When life hurts, God is good.  When thanksgiving seems impossible, God is good.  In all things, at all times, in all ways … God is good.

When have you been challenged to give the difficult thanks?

Recommended Listening:

Blessed Be Your Name, Matt Redmon … My favorite part of this song is, “Every blessing You pour out I’ll turn back to praise.  And when the darkness closes in still I will say, Blessed be the name of the Lord.”

Praise You in This Storm, Casting Crowns … Beautiful, poignant reminder that we are never removed from His loving care.  “As your mercy falls, I raise my hands and praise the God who gives and takes away.”

Recommended Reading:

Our own Kristi Stephens has written a beautiful series on Job.  I highly encourage you to take some time to read her posts and she examines, “How Could a Good God …”

History reminds us to be thankful

November 1, 2010 by ScriptureDig 2 Comments

For the past month we’ve reflected on life in the Body of Christ and what it’s like to be a member of it. How fitting it is that the month ends with observances of significant moments in the church’s story.

While many people celebrate Halloween on October 31st, that day in 1517 is remembered as a pivotal day in church history. A young professor was concerned that people were trying to buy their way into relationship with God, so he went to the town bulletin board (the door of Castle Church in Wittenberg, Germany) and posted a notice written in Latin, announcing a discussion, along with 95 items to consider. Martin Luther didn’t know his “Ninety-five Thesis” would be translated into German and spread across Europe like leaves on a blustery day. It was used to stir hearts of common men to know the truth of God’s Word and experience salvation by grace alone.  Luther paid a high price for declaring his convictions and was labeled an outlaw.

We can be thankful for those who stood firm through past centuries, so that the church has endured and thrived. As this new month begins, it reminds us of another  significant day in church history. More than 1500 years ago lies were circulating about the person of Jesus Christ (sound familiar?), so a council was called in Chalcedon (across from Constantinople) to unite in the truth. This was first millennium Scripture Digging!

In 325 the Council of Nicea had affirmed that Christ is fully God, but the Council of Chalcedon took on the question about Christ’s humanity. Peter (the one on whom Jesus said He would build His church) warned in 2 Peter 2:1 that people would come to try and confuse the truth. They did, and they still do. On November 1, 451 the church leaders in Chalcedon declared a unified agreement that Jesus Christ is fully God, fully human, one person, with two distinct natures.  It wouldn’t be for another thousand years that Martin Luther would hammer his list of concerns onto the Wittenberg door to clarify that Jesus Christ is sufficient to save men by His grace.

Followers of Christ continue to suffer today for their faithfulness.  The history of the Church, of the individual PEOPLE of the Church, has passed on a great heritage to those of us today who still follow Christ, who still love His truth, who still want to dig into His Word. What other response can we give, but to be full of gratitude?

This month join us as we look at Thanks Giving. We’ll explore what the word means, examples of gratitude and ingratitude, how to be thankful in hard times, ways to express gratitude to God, and our own personal stories of growing in gratefulness. After considering our salvation and the growth of the church, our hearts are full.

In Jeremiah 33:11 our Heavenly Father invites us,  “Give thanks to the LORD Almighty, for the LORD is good; his love endures forever.” We invite you to dig in with us this month to discover the beauty of giving thanks.

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