Call me Nana.
The first question my daughter asked when she and her husband announced the pending arrival of our first grandchild was “What do you want the baby to call you?”
They loved my husband’s tongue-in-cheek suggestion for his grandfather name. “Boss” stuck immediately. But every equally cool grandmother name suggestion from me got shot down.
Oh well, any name will be music to my ears when it comes from Micah’s mouth.
Being “Nana” is both a great joy and a weighty responsibility. My God-given job of teaching a new generation about Him did not end when my own children left home. Instead it’s a generational partnership of parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and beyond.
Sincere Faith
Timothy is a great example of this generational faith partnership in action. In his second letter to the young pastor, the apostle Paul describes Timothy’s faith this way:
I have been reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.
2 Timothy 1:5, NIV
Timothy’s faith was not cultural or casual. No hint of hypocrisy or pretense. His faith in Christ defined him. And this “sincere faith” began in his grandmother and continued in his mother. That’s what this Nana wants for her grandchildren.
Lois’ faith wasn’t just talk. Her character and behavior matched what she said she believed. Consistently. Every day. Even when she was stressed. Even when another car cut her off with Timothy in the back seat.
Lois’ life proved to Timothy the truth of what she taught him.
Purposeful Teaching
Timothy learned the Scripture from both his mother and grandmother from his beginning. The word Paul uses in 2 Timothy 3:15 to describe Timothy’s age can refer to an unborn child, a newborn child, or an infant. These two faithful women did not waste any time teaching Timothy about God.
But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it, and how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. 2 Timothy 3:14-15, NIV
Lois and Eunice intentionally taught Timothy in the ways of God. They helped him form a habit of faith through constant use and practice. Their teaching encouraged Timothy’s salvation, spiritual growth, and equipping for ministry (2 Timothy 3:15-17).
4 Characteristics of Nana Lois’ Passed-Down Faith
Lois, the New Testament Nana, is a great example for us. If we want to pass a vibrant legacy of faith to our children and grandchildren, here are a few things we can do:
- Insure our own faith is “sincere.”
- Accept and embrace this God-given responsibility.
- Start at day one. It’s never too early.
- Have a plan. Be purposeful and intentional in teaching them the things of God.
Micah hasn’t quite got the hang of “Nana.” Maybe I should change my name to “Lois.”
What else do you see from Lois’ example we can implement in our own lives?
Caroline says
Being a mother has absolutely made me more intentional about nearly every action I take and word I speak! Great tips here, Nana Kathy. :-) They’re useful for parents and grandparents!
Kathy Howard says
Caroline, intentionality is so necessary. We just don’t have to worry about ourselves anymore and they see everything we do!
joanneviola says
Beautiful post! I think what has also stood out to me about Lois is that she was convinced of Who her God was & His activity. The only way we will be able to pass it on to our little ones is if we KNOW & are convinced of Him for ourselves. Thank you for sharing this. I am a grateful Mimi :)
Kathy Howard says
Hi Joanne! I love the grandmother name “Mimi!” Thanks for sharing that insight about being convinced of who God is. You are so right! That’s where our own faith is founded!
Christa Sterken (@Csterken) says
A grandmother holds a powerful sway on our faith. My own lived in a very difficult marriage. She still clung to her faith through abuse, the loss of a daughter to breast cancer, losing her hearing and every other storm. Her faith laid a foundation for my own. Never hypocrisy, just action and trust.
Kathy Howard says
Christa, what a wonderful legacy of faith! And I love this statement: “Never hypocrisy, just action and trust!” “Sincere” is the opposite of “hypocrisy!”
Cynthia says
My grandchild calls me Honey! I chose it, and people tell me they want to be “honey” too. You definitely hear it in a crowded store! I want to be that kind of grandmother, too, while helping to raise our grandson.
Kathy Howard says
Cynthia I love your grandma name! So sweet! Pun intended!