I know she’ll be here soon. I purposely set one chocolate kiss in the glass candy dish in my kitchen. She’ll look there.
I want to be a good grandmother. When my 2-year-old granddaughter comes to my house, I want to give her treats and make her happy. For her, that includes chocolate. (Chocolate makes me happy too.)
But I also don’t want to ruin her appetite for real food or make her sick from too much junk food.
What is actually good?
When Things Look Bad
2020 has good things in it, to be sure. God is still here, still with us.
But by most measures, 2020 is one of our craziest years. It’s been easy to lose hope from week to week.
- We can’t feel totally safe from the coronavirus even in our previously good activities.
- We can’t talk sanely about sensitive issues with some of the good people we once talked with.
- We can’t even trust ourselves to not occasionally lash out in frustration or to not give up in hopelessness.
None of us can live up to always being “good” (Psalm 14:3).
What about God? Is God angry at us this year? Is He holding out?
We once knew the right answer to this call-and-response:
“God is good all the time. And all the time __________.”
But what about now? Is God still good?
3 Ways to Hope in God’s Goodness Again
1. LOOK TO THE PAST
When we get confused in the present, one way to reorient ourselves is to look back to the past. Who has God been to you in the past? God is not an unknown factor.
God reveals Himself to us again and again in good ways. And His character never changes.
If we’ve ever had anything good happen in our lives, we can be assured of its source: God.
“Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.”
James 1:17
If you’ve ever found forgiveness, received grace, been blessed, you’ve seen God.
Remember God’s goodness in your past.
2. RELAX IN THE PRESENT
When we remember that God is goodness itself, it changes our narrative about the present. Regardless of what is happening to us right now, while maybe not always pleasant, we are still safe in the hands of the Good Shepherd (John 10:11).
It doesn’t mean there won’t be problems. It doesn’t mean there won’t be pain.
But God gives the needed sunshine and replenishing rain to all of us; He doesn’t play favorites (Matthew 5:45).
“The LORD is good to all, and his mercy is over all that he has made.”
Psalm 145:9
When we believe God is always good, never bad, we can more easily relax in the present. We can depend on God’s goodness, not our circumstances, other people, or ourselves, to give us what we need. We can trust God will always provide the best for us (Matthew 6:33-34).
“If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!”
Matthew 7:11
It’s who He is.
3. HOPE FOR THE FUTURE
Maybe we can’t see the path yet for a bright future or a successful ending to a saga we’re in. But God can.
And because God is good, we can safely get our hopes up.
“Surely there is a future, and your hope will not be cut off.”
Proverbs 23:18
One verse never to forget is the final verse of Psalm 23. Perhaps you memorized it as a child or an adult. If not, memorize it now to cling to in hard times:
“Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the LORD forever.”
Psalm 23:6
It was true in King David’s lifetime; it is true in our lifetime.
We will eventually move past the hard time we’re in, even if it takes awhile. God’s goodness assures it.
God’s goodness has been with us in the past, is with us now, and will be with us forever.
Good Things Always Come
After my granddaughter ate her chocolate kiss after lunch (okay, technically it was after breakfast), I had to leave the bowl empty for awhile. It was for her own good. She checked back periodically. Still empty.
But the next day? I had added another chocolate kiss to the bowl. I want her to trust that good things will always come, just maybe not as quickly as she may want them. I also want her to count on my goodness both for her well-being (not TOO much chocolate) as well as for her delight.
“Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good! Blessed is the man who takes refuge in him!”
Psalm 34:8
We too can keep looking for God’s goodness around us. We will find it. God wants and has planned good things for us (Jeremiah 29:11). God is good all the time.
And all the time, God is good.
Don’t lose hope.
How has God been good to you even in 2020? Please share your thoughts in the comments.
For more hope in God’s goodness:
• 3 Ways to Find the Good in God [Article]
Has God been good to you? Here are 3 things you can do to find out.
• God’s Promises [Infographic]
Sometimes we forget to hope because we forget God’s promises. God’s promises for us are good. Here’s an infographic to remind you of His goodness.