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When Your Old Clothes Don’t Fit: Colossians 3:8-10

November 12, 2020 by Lisa Burgess 20 Comments

“What Old Women Need to Stop Wearing”

I try not to be enticed by clickbait. But the title of this internet article lured me in.

Keeping up with the latest fashions isn’t important to me. But I also don’t want to dress terribly outdated.

What if I’m wearing something that is all wrong?

I clicked to see.

Outdated Wadrobes

We’re looking this month at Colossians 3, to see what it really means to live “renewed” lives.

Here’s Colossians 3:8-10.

  • But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth. (v8)
  • Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices (v9)
  • and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator. (v10)

We often see ourselves still dressed in our outdated wardrobe of verses 8-9.

We have clothes in our closet, and behaviors in our lifestyles, that:

  • Are uncomfortable (anybody else feeling the extra 5 pounds since ‘Rona?)
  • Are unflattering
  • Are holey (and not the good kind of holy)

We don’t have to dress out of this closet. These clothes are ugly to ourselves and to others: bad tempers, irritability, meanness, profanity, dirty talk, lying to one another.

They no longer fit us. We have permission to bag them up and get them out of the house.

Wardrobe Makeover

Instead, we can receive our wardrobe makeover.

We’ve been given a new closet to dress from. And the clothes fit our new selves perfectly, right now (Colossians 3:10).

  • We don’t have to lose a few pounds before they’ll fit.
  • We don’t have to wait for a special occasion to put them on.
  • We don’t have to be good enough or skinny enough or perfect enough in our OWN abilities to wear them.

This wardrobe works because these new clothes are Christ Himself. And He’s already perfect.

We are renewed because of who Jesus is, not because of who we are.

In our new closet, we look in the mirror and see Jesus. We’re made over in His image (Colossians 3:10). Our new outfits spark joy (Marie Kondo would be proud).

Clothed in Christ

The internet article turned out to be unhelpful  about telling me what not to wear. (No surprise there.) When I clicked through, the real title showed up as “Fashion and Beauty Trends that We Hope Never Come Back in Style.” It said to lose the beehive hairdo (never had one). Stop wearing tube tops (never did). Don’t keep an orange fake tan (no problem).

We don’t need the internet to tell us how to dress anyway.

We’ve been clothed in Christ and our inner self is being renewed day by day (2 Corinthians 4:16).

We’ve been given a wardrobe update. Let’s put it on and wear it well. It fits us perfectly.

Are you still wearing clothes that don’t fit? Put on a new self instead. #Renewed #Colossians 3

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How’s your closet these days? Share in the comments.

Jesus’s Advice About the Road Well Traveled {Matthew 7:13}

November 9, 2020 by Lisa Burgess 1 Comment

I know the roads by heart. Although it’s a 3-hour drive to see my grandkids, there are only a handful of turns.

So two weeks ago when GPS was advising me to take an unusual exit off the interstate, I wasn’t sure whether or not to follow it. I already knew the best route, the easiest path, the quickest roads.

And this unusual exit wasn’t it.

The Road Well Traveled

The 6-lane interstate is wide and quick. We naturally want to take the proven path, the one everyone else advises, the one that’s worked for us in the past.

But in our memory verse this week, Jesus was advising us again the road well traveled.

Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many.
Matthew 7:13

Read how The Message puts it:

Don’t look for shortcuts to God. The market is flooded with surefire, easygoing formulas for a successful life that can be practiced in your spare time. Don’t fall for that stuff, even though crowds of people do.
Matthew 7:13

We’ve been learning already in Matthew 7 about that narrow gate and the roads it has us travel:

  • Don’t be judgmental
  • Deal with your flaws first
  • Ask for what you need
  • Trust God’s gifts
  • Do to others as you’d want done to you

Those can be some backwoods country roads. God sometimes takes us off-roading on dirt paths and up gravel driveways. He’s less concerned about the quickest route and more concerned about growing us along the journey and getting us to the proper destination.

Following our spiritual GPS may seem mysterious at times. And sometimes harder. And maybe even lonely now and again.

The way of faith is often a narrow way.

But the rewards? They’re always worth it! (We’ll see that in next week’s memory verse, Matthew 7:14, and the last memory verse of our Fall memory challenge).

God’s Direction

On my trip to see my granddaughters, I decided to follow the GPS instructions and get off I-65 earlier than I normally do.

And it paid off. I learned later that a bridge had gone out on I-65. Traffic had backed up for miles. If I had stayed on my regular path of following the crowd, my delay could have been hours.

Entering by the narrow gate may not always feel comfortable, but if God is the one pointing us to it, let’s take it.

Does your spiritual GPS take you on some country backroads instead of the road well traveled? That’s good. #Matthew7

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Do you use GPS or are you an old-school paper map driver? How is your spiritual GPS? Share your thoughts in the comments.

Ask for Grace to Do to Others {Matthew 7:12}

November 2, 2020 by Lisa Burgess Leave a Comment

How Do You Want to Be Treated?

When I’m sick, I don’t want people hovering over me. I don’t want to answer phone calls about how I’m doing. I don’t want to report my pain levels every hour to update my condition.

So when others are sick, I assume that’s how they want to be treated too.

But that’s a risky assumption.

In our memory verse for this week, Jesus is telling His followers to treat others like they would want to be treated.

“So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.”
Matthew 7:12

We’ve labeled it the Golden Rule. But what exactly does it mean? Was Jesus telling them to do the exact things they’d prefer themselves?

Therefore Is There For…?

Matthew 7:12 begins with “So,” or as other translations put it, “Therefore.”

So let’s take a few steps backwards to see what “therefore” is there for.

In the previous eleven verses we’ve been memorizing, Jesus is explaining how love behaves.

Dallas Willard lays it out like this in his book Divine Conspiracy.

“In the previous verses (1-11) agape love has been concretely illustrated in three ways:

1. Not condemning of blaming those around us (vv. 1-5).
2. Not forcing ‘wonderful things’ upon them (v. 6).
3. Just asking for what we want from them—and from God (vv. 7-11).”

At times, it may feel like a risk to treat others this well.

  • Maybe they’ll take advantage of our goodness.
  • Maybe we don’t know what they really need.
  • Maybe we don’t want to put ourselves in their shoes to find out.

But the more we learn to trust God for what WE need, the more we can learn to give others what THEY need. We’re in the sweet spot. We get our own needs met from God as we meet the needs of others.

Treat Others Well

As we want our own needs to be met, let’s meet the needs of others. It might not look exactly the same from person to person. While I prefer a hands-off approach to caring for me when I’m sick, someone else might prefer the exact opposite. If I’m to fulfill the Golden Rule, I give them what THEY need, because I would want them to give me what I need when it’s my turn.

Lean on grace to do it. It’s the only way we can succeed. Without the love of God operating in us, this summation of God’s law is too hard for us.

When we ask God for grace and love for others, He won’t give us the equivalent of stones or serpents (Matthew 7:9-10). He’ll give us what we need so we can pass grace along to the next person.

Let’s continue asking God for courage and compassion to live out the Golden Rule to treat others as well as we would want to be treated, however that looks.

As we trust God to give us what we need, we can give to others what they need. #Matthew7

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Don’t Mess With My Kid—God {Matthew 7:11}

October 26, 2020 by Lisa Burgess Leave a Comment

The Bad Dad

You’ve see him. Maybe at the checkout line at Walmart. He is ignoring his toddler’s pleas for candy. Until he’s not. He comes to life and yells at the child, jerks her up, yells at her.

It’s the bad dad.

Yet . . . even with him, if YOU were to turn around and make an ugly comment about the child, this dad would likely be the first to defend her.

Don’t mess with his kid.

Jesus understood this. He knows how we work (we’re all the bad dad sometimes). That even on our best days, we’re not very good.

But even on our worst days, we inherently want to protect our child from outside threats.

The Good Dad

“If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!”
Matthew 7:11

As we study and memorize Matthew 7:11 this week, let’s remember this truth about God: God’s gifts are ALWAYS good (James 1:17).

His gifts may not always seem good at the moment (discipline doesn’t usually “feel” good, even though it is good for us, Hebrews 12:9-11).

But we can trust that God will always be good.

God is the perfect parent.

His Perfect Gifts

So go to God for what you need. Ask. Seek. Knock. He’s a door, not a wall (Matthew 7:7-8).

How many ways did Jesus have to say it? Over and over He drove home this message: Go to the Father when you are in trouble. He’s a safe Dad (Matthew 7:9-10). He’s got your back.

When we ask, we receive. We get God’s protection. We get His lavish gift of grace. We even get His very Spirit placed inside us (read the parallel passage, Luke 11:13).

We’ve all seen good dads. A new father holding his precious child for the first time is a beautiful sight to see.

And if we know this is beautiful?

How much more lovely is the view of God holding us in His hands!

If you think an earthly father can be good, wait until you know God as Father! Memorize Matthew 7:11 with us.

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How you seen exceptional parents? Have you overcome being raised by bad parents? How do you experience God as Father? Share your thoughts in the comments.

Is It Safe to Ask? {Matthew 7:9-10}

October 19, 2020 by Lisa Burgess Leave a Comment

When We’d Rather Give

We’re so reluctant to ask.

My husband Jeff had shoulder surgery last Friday. His right arm will remain in a sling for a few days. For now, he can’t do all the things he once did.

He needs help. But he doesn’t like asking for it.

Isn’t that the way we all are?

We’re more comfortable being the givers than the takers.

  • Maybe we don’t want to become indebted to a giver.
  • Or we don’t think we’ll receive what we want.
  • Or it hurts our pride to be on the receiving end.

But it’s safe to ask.

Know Who to Ask

Jesus kept driving home this point in the Sermon on the Mount. We resume memorizing Matthew 7 this week.

This week’s verses are:

“Or which one of you, if his son asks him for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent?”
Matthew 7:9-10

Jesus is reminding us how the process works.

When children have needs, they ask their parents for help. The parents in turn want to meet those needs however possible.

When we, too, know who to ask, we also will receive.

And when we know to ask God? We’ll receive exactly what we need.

Remember: It’s safe to ask.

It’s Important to Ask

When Jeff asks me for help putting on his socks, I’m not going to step on his toes instead. Or when he needs a lift to physical therapy, I’m not going to give him a bicycle.

Next week we’ll hear this more firmly from Jesus in Matthew 7:11.

But this week, let’s remember to ask for what we need. It’s important to ask. Go to the Father. With confidence and courage. He wants us to.

Jesus says so: it’s safe to ask.

Is it safe for others to ask us for help? Is it safe for us to ask God? #Matthew7

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Choose Your Direction—Go Wide or Go Deep {Personal Bible Study Resources}

October 15, 2020 by Lisa Burgess 31 Comments

Is your goal to become more familiar with God’s story as a whole? Go wide in your study.

Is your goal to personally connect with God through one passage? Go deep.

But with either direction, go directly to the source.

Choose Your Direction for Bible Study

Sometimes we make it sound so simple. But knowing how to study our Bibles can feel complicated. The Bible is a collection of 66 different books, written in different styles by possibly 40 different authors over a time span of approximately 1,500 years.

Add to that complexity, your own personal time crunch, waxing and waning interest, and occasional lack of focus. It’s no wonder that studying our Bibles gets shoved further down our to-do lists.

But it doesn’t have to be that way.

Here are two different ways to approach Bible study to help you stay motivated. And resources to equip you for it. Not just to learn scriptures, but most importantly, to find life in Jesus through them.

“You search the Scriptures because you think that in them you have eternal life; and it is they that bear witness about me, yet you refuse to come to me that you may have life.”
John 5:39-40

As I said here about why we read it again and again, the more we read the Bible, the more we see God. And the more we see God, the more we love God.

We can never get too much Love.

1. Go Wide

Because the Bible has a long reach and is full of details, keep the overall picture in mind.

At its most basic, the Bible is a love story of God’s encounters with people. Becoming familiar with these stories leads us to become familiar with God. That’s the goal: knowing God, not just the stories.

ONE LINE EACH

Here are two sites to help you see the complete picture in one place, with one line for each of the 66 books.

  1. All 66 Books of the Bible in One-Sentence Summaries – OverviewBible.com
  2. A Summary of Each Bible Book – Blue Letter Bible

Overview Bible

READ IT ALL

To go wide, I like to read through the entire Bible every two or three years. It takes me that long because (a) I don’t like to rush through it, and (b) I don’t want to overtask myself with very long readings each day.

Here is a 2-year Bible reading plan that I’ve used for several years.

2 Year Bible Reading Plan

It’s not dated so you can start anytime. It’s 5 days a week; no weekends. It alternates with two weeks of readings in the Old Testament and one week in the New Testament so you never get too bogged down in long stories about wars or genealogies, for example.

The plan is a chronological reading, not a straight line from Genesis to Revelation. When you’re reading from the Gospels, for example, you’ll read Luke’s version of Jesus’s birth in Luke 1 and 2 on Monday and Tuesday, then read the same story written by Matthew in Matthew 1-2 on Wednesday.

Another tip: use a different translation each time you read through the Bible. It keeps the words fresh. Otherwise we can become so familiar with the story that we miss details. But with different wording, our attention stays fresh.

Don’t rush through your Bible, but do keep moving to get the whole story. There are numerous great reading plans available. Find one that works for you.

2. Go Deep

But we don’t need only to skim through the stories. Save some time to dig deep, one verse at a time. And sometimes one word at a time.

When I memorize scripture for our Bible Memory Challenges, I appreciate having weeks to sit with the same verses again and again.

Here’s my daily plan for studying one verse a week. I’d love to hear in the comments how you approach in-depth studies.

1. ORIGINAL LANGUAGES

First, I take a couple of minutes to look at each word in the verse in its original language. But I don’t know Greek or Hebrew, so I use E-Sword.net.

E-Sword is a digital tool that makes it very easy to see original meanings, adding much nuance to understanding. E-Sword is a downloadable app that is free for your PC or for a small fee for Mac or smart phone. The tools it provides are endless.

It’s my one-stop resource for original languages, commentaries, study notes, Bible translations, concordances, and more.

Download a Word Study Sheet here.

e-Sword verses

2. READ COMMENTARIES

The next day, I read various commentaries about the verse. When we listen to what others think, it broadens our own understanding. Be discerning with what you read, but also be open. Just as practicing our religion isn’t a solitary activity, neither is our Bible study. Learn from others. Spend as little or as much time as you want to. I use the free commentaries I downloaded on E-Sword, but you can use commentaries or study Bibles or even other online resources, such as:

  • Blue Letter Bible
  • Bible Gateway

3. GET CREATIVE

On the third day, I diagram the verse and listen to songs about it. It allows the message to sink into my heart through different avenues (see Jaime’s post on scribbles and doodles). The Spirit works in mysterious ways, not only through written words.

I am currently listening to songs on Matthew 7 for our memorization challenge on the Fighter Verses app.

4. JOURNAL ABOUT IT

On the fourth day, I journal and pray through the verse. Interacting with God’s truths sometimes requires a wrestling. It is personal. God is active in the process. It’s not just a head exercise but a heart practice.

5. SHARE IT

Then the fifth day, I recite the words to someone else (or at least out loud to myself). Again, God’s message isn’t static on a page; it is alive and needs to be practiced to be fully transformative.

Do I do this every week with every verse? Certainly not. I fail more than I succeed.

But it helps me to work a plan, even for only a few minutes a day. Without a plan, I’d accomplish even less.

Engage Scripture to Find Christ

So how should YOU study the Bible? That’s for you and God to decide.

Your relationship with the Lord is as unique as you are. Let’s not pass judgment on each other for our styles.

But rather let’s encourage each other to value time spent with God through scripture, through experiences with Him, and through discussions with each other about Him, however that looks.

Keep the ultimate goal in mind: Engage scripture to find Christ. Allow it to transform you to love God more and love others more (Matthew 22:37-39), not to become a scholar or a Bible know-it-all, (after all, even Satan could quote scripture). As Paul warned us, knowledge puffs up, but love builds up (1 Corinthians 8:1).

May your Bible study fill you up in God’s love, both wide and deep.

Want to go wide? Or go deep? Choose your direction of Bible study. Resources here for both. #SnapShotsofBibleStudy

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Here’s a printable with the tools mentioned.

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See all of the posts in our Lifelong Learners series here. We’ll be adding more posts throughout the month of October.

  • Are you a daily Bible reader?
  • Do you have a favorite Bible study tool?

Please share in the comments.

It’s a Door, Not a Wall—Knock on It {Matthew 7:7-8}

October 5, 2020 by Lisa Burgess 1 Comment

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Don’t tear down walls to get through; just knock on the door. God will open it.

Study and memorize Matthew 7:7-8 with us this week.

[NOTE: Next week, Oct 11-17, is our planned 1-week break from Matthew 7.]

“Ask with confidence and humility.
Seek with care and application.
Knock with earnestness and perseverance.”

– Adam Clarke

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Walls Stop Us

Has your home ever been flooded? If you live in a flood-prone area or along the coast when a hurricane strikes, you’re likely familiar with the problems of flooding.

When our local disaster relief group PAR cleans up homes after hurricanes, they often have to tear down walls that have severe water damage so they can be rebuilt. It’s hard work and if not done properly, can cause additional damage to the structure of the home.

In our everyday lives, we often try to tear down walls, too, perhaps creating even more damage along the way and using up our emotional and relational energy.

  • We judge what’s not ours to judge (Matthew 7:1).
  • We try to extract specks from others when we have logs in our eyes (Matthew 7:3).
  • We throw holy things to dogs and give pearls to pigs (Matthew 7:6).

Trying to barge through a wall is too hard. It stops us.

And it’s unnecessary.

Doors Are the Better Way

Here are this week’s memory verses.

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.
For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened.”
Matthew 7:7-8

In these verses we discover there is a better way to get to the other side than ripping out walls.

1. LOOK FOR THE DOOR

We don’t have to try to go through a wall. There is a door instead. Go to the source; go to God.

Charles Spurgeon said,

“His doors are meant to open: they were made on purpose for entrance; and so the blessed gospel of God is made on purpose for you to enter into life and peace. It would be of no use to knock at a wall, but you may wisely knock at a door, for it is arranged for opening.”

Don’t try to go through a wall. It’s not an opening.

2. KNOCK ON THE DOOR

Try the door instead. Knock on it. Again and again. Don’t leave too soon if you don’t get an answer right away.

Be persistent in your knocking (Luke 18:1-8). In the original language, “ask, seek, knock” are in the present imperative tense. That means they imply continuous action, not one-time events: Ask and keep asking. Seek and keep seeking. Knock and keep knocking.

3. TRUST GOD TO OPEN THE DOOR

Anybody can knock on a door. It takes no special skills, no special tools. Trust God to open when you knock (don’t try to kick it in), and then take what He gives you. Let God be in control. He’s the One who holds all good gifts. He wants to give them to us when we ask Him (James 1:5-6).

Rewards on the Other Side of the Door

And then? Jesus said everyone who asks, receives. The one who seeks, finds. To the one who knocks, it will be opened.

  • You’ll receive exactly what you need, not just what you think you need.
  • You’ll find the One you’re looking for who can help you in everything.
  • You can walk through doors that God opens for you.

We don’t want to live in homes with ripped-out walls. No one wants to crawl through sledge-hammered holes to get from one room to the next.

God gives us a better option: Just knock. He’ll open the door.

No need to tear down walls. Just knock on the door. God will open it. #Matthew7 #HideHisWord

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Has God opened a door for you that you couldn’t have entered otherwise? Testify to His goodness. Share in the comments.

Don’t Be a Pearl Pusher {Matthew 7:6}

September 28, 2020 by Lisa Burgess 2 Comments

Can our gifts hurt more than they help? How do we decide what to give and to whom?

Memorize and study Matthew 7:6 with us this week.

Extravagant Gift-Giving

Maria was about 10 years old. We had become friends the week we were in El Salvador.

On the Sunday morning our group was packing up to leave, Maria ran home to get something. She returned with a box. It contained a giraffe cup and saucer.

She handed it to me. It was a parting gift. I didn’t want to accept it. It was likely a prized possession.

Should I, the American woman from a wealthy country, take this present from the Salvadorian child who had much less to give?

What Did Jesus Mean?

When we read this week’s memory verse, we wonder what Jesus meant.

“Do not give dogs what is holy, and do not throw your pearls before pigs, lest they trample them underfoot and turn to attack you.”
Matthew 7:6

It can be taken two ways. Jesus might have been meant:

(1) Don’t give a valuable gift to the undeserving. They won’t take care of it.

But Jesus wouldn’t say some people are too worthless or undeserving of His love. He values everybody, wanting all to know Him and be saved.

Perhaps he meant this?

(2) Don’t push people into accepting what they’re not ready for. It won’t help them.

The difference is subtle. But the difference is real.

In Divine Conspiracy, Dallas Willard has a name for those who give pearls to pigs: “pearl pushers.”

Willard gives this illustration. Parents who push religion on kids often cause them to rebel. Trying to “manipulate or impress others into rightness and goodness with our condemning and our ‘pearls’ or holy things” can backfire.

They are pearl pushers.

Give Helpful Gifts

Sometimes people just aren’t ready yet for the gifts we try to give them. Our gifts wouldn’t be helpful at this point. It would like shoving pearls into pigs. Pigs can’t digest pearls.

Willard says,

“The point is not the waste of the ‘pearl’ but that the person given the pearl is not helped.”

We often want to give extravagantly. We can become overeager to share the good news with friends, ready or not. Or we want to give unsolicited advice that helped us.

But giving unwanted gifts can turn people against us. They become suspicious, wondering what we want in return. They don’t want to feel indebted to us, so they resent the gift. We lose their trust.

Just as teenagers don’t want our religion shoved down their throat, or butterflies don’t want their cocoons stripped off them too soon, our premature gifts or inappropriate gifts can be more harmful than helpful.

Instead, we can try to discern the recipient’s need and ability to receive our gift before we give it. Be judicious about pulling out our holy things. Get to know the person first before we shower them with pearls they won’t wear.

God does this with us. He sometimes waits to give us the right gift until we’re ready to use it properly. We’re not always ready for certain blessings because we’re too immature to handle them, just as we don’t give expensive jewelry to a toddler.

What Are Your Pearls?

When my young friend Maria tried to give me the cup and saucer, I first said no. I couldn’t take this! It was too much, too expensive from her.

But when I saw how much it meant to her, I couldn’t not take it. I received her gift, her pearls, as pearls, with excitement, and with love.

Perhaps the cup and saucer has come to mean even more to me than it could to her. For the past 9 years, I’ve kept it front and center on my bedroom shelf. It reminds me of unselfish giving. Of quick love. Of tender hearts.

I showed it recently to my 2-year-old granddaughter. She immediately wanted to play with it. I pulled it down from the shelf. She’s still too young to be given free rein with it, but we sat together with it on the carpet and examined it. I want her to understand it is special.

It’s one of my pearls.

When can unwanted gifts hurt more than help? Don’t be a pearl pusher. #Matthew7 #HideHisWord

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What is a pearl you can give to someone this week? Who is ready to receive a holy thing from you and who is not?

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Blurry Vision Leads to Extra Problems {Matthew 7:5}

September 21, 2020 by Lisa Burgess Leave a Comment

Blurry vision leads to extra problems. Take the log out of your eye so you can see clearer.

Study and memorize Matthew 7:5 with us this week.

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I thought I’d be the exception. I wouldn’t need glasses. My vision would stay 20/20 despite my age. I would will it to happen.

But, no surprise, you can’t just will yourself to see clearly.

I had my yearly eye exam last Thursday. It’s the only doctor I look forward to visiting because so much depends on it. If I went to keep reading books, keep seeing my granddaughters’ faces up close, keep threading a needle, I need my vision.

Jesus was giving more than optometry advice when He spoke to His listeners on the mountainside. Listen to our memory verse for this week:

You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.
Matthew 7:5

If we want to see clearly, we first have to realize when there’s a problem. And be willing to correct it.

Otherwise, we just create more problems. For ourselves and for others.

I don’t know what your logs are. I have plenty of my own to wrestle with.

But whatever each of our weaknesses are, we need to take care of them before we can adequately help other people.

If we don’t? We’re hypocrites. Just pretenders. Acting as if we’re capable, when we’re not.

My eye doctor said my vision had not worsened since my last visit. That was good news. But I still need glasses to see up close. Maybe I’ll use them to take out a log or two along the way….

Blurry vision leads to extra problems. Ditch the log. Memorize Matthew 7:5 with us this week. #HideHisWord

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When Our Gifts Hurt More Than They Help {Matthew 7:3-4}

September 14, 2020 by Lisa Burgess 2 Comments

Unwanted Gifts

In between the births of our 2nd and 3rd children, we switched churches. As my due date approached for our 3rd daughter, the ladies in my new small group I attended wanted to host a baby shower for me.

But I didn’t need a baby shower. I actually didn’t want another baby shower. I had all the baby things already. And I was still a relative newcomer; I didn’t want extra attention drawn to myself.

They kept insisting. I felt awkward. It seemed rude to keep declining their offer, yet it seemed worse to agree to gifts I didn’t need.

We’ve all received gifts we didn’t want. Maybe a sweater we’d never wear or a knick-knack we’d never set out or food we’d never eat.

I’ve given my share of useless gifts too.

But sometimes? Gifts are not only useless, they may be hurtful.

Actually, I was afraid to get another baby shower. Our 2nd baby had died right after birth. To receive a baby shower for this 3rd child felt too risky.

When Our Giving Hurts More Than Helps

Our giving hurts more than helps when we give unsolicited advice. Unwanted help. Critical suggestions. It’s what Jesus was saying in this week’s memory verses:

3 Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?
4 Or how can you say to your brother, “Let me take the speck out of your eye,” when there is the log in your own eye?
Matthew 7:3-4

What do our logs look like?

  • When we offer to help but we have bad motives, we have a log in our eye.
  • When we give to get something for ourselves in return, we have a log in our eye.
  • When we criticize a friend to make ourselves feel better, we have a log in our eye.

We’d do well to take the psalmist’s advice first:

Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts!
And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting!
Psalm 139:23-24

Self-awareness isn’t the same as self-absorption. Self-awareness is part of being kind. It’s taking a look in the mirror to straighten ourselves up before we give offensive advice to others on how to clean themselves up.

A Better Gift

With better vision, we’re then able to give better gifts (such as, understanding, compassion, encouragement, prayer). We can actually be helpful if someone needs a hand getting a speck out of their eye instead of poking our dirty logs of condemnation and judgment into their tender eyes. We may even be asked to help more often as we grow and become blessings to others.

The ladies offering to give me a baby shower finally convinced me to say yes when they offered a time of celebration instead of a time of gift-giving. They blessed me with words of encouragement and camaraderie. I felt loved by their gift of prayer and presence.

I appreciated and needed those gifts.

Jesus wasn’t telling His listeners that day on the mountain to not help a brother out. But He was saying to check yourself first for logs and beams before you help others with specks and motes.

Some gifts hurt more than they help. Check yourself first for logs before you help others with specks. #Matthew7

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When God Sends YOU to Be the Minister

September 10, 2020 by Lisa Burgess 8 Comments

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Don’t leave everything to the professionals. Every believer is called to be a minister.

One of your areas of ministry? The Reconciliation Department.

When Plans Change

They met in college. He was a pre-med student. He had plans to be a medical doctor, to heal people, to make a difference. She was attracted to him and his vision.

But then he met Jesus.

And he felt a different pull. To a different direction. To become a full-time pastor of a church. To heal in a different way.

It wrecked her plans. She didn’t want to be a pastor’s wife. Now what?

Leave It to the Professionals?

There are many things we leave to the professionals: cutting out our appendix; flying our airplane; plumbing our house.

And sometimes? Making peace with others. We’d rather the professionals handle it: the counselors and psychologists and pastors.

And often we DO need their help. Thank God they’re available.

But there is a ministry of peace-making that each believer is called to do: the Ministry of Reconciliation.

We may not feel qualified to reconcile conflicts and bring harmony in our world. There are many difficult relationships that need reconciliation every day (including racial reconciliations; read Be the Bridge: Pursuing God’s Heart for Racial Reconciliation).

You’re Qualified

But we each have the credentials to be a minister of reconciliation.

Because God reconciled us to Himself through the death of Jesus, clearing away our sins, He has equipped us to reconcile others to Him and to each other.

“All this is from God, who through Christ reconciled us to himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation that is, in Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting to us the message of reconciliation.”
2 Corinthians 5:18-19

That’s not to say it’s easy to be a Minister of Reconciliation. But it’s possible. God sends us to the work.

4 Suggestions for Ministers of Reconciliation

Here are a few suggestions as we do reconciling work.

1. BE AWARE

Before we can minister to others, we need to know others. We need to be aware of their hurts, their strengths, their relationship with God. And be aware of our own hurts, strengths, and relationship with God.

We can’t aid in reconciling what we don’t know. But neither are we responsible for knowing it all before we try (because we never can know it all). Let’s remain alert to pains around us.

2. BE HUMBLE

As the ultimate reconciler, God had to reach down to reconcile us to Him. We couldn’t heal ourselves. We had to be humble enough to reach up to Him, to Christ on the cross. In our work as ministers of reconciliation, we can continue to demonstrate humility to help others reach up to God as well.

And in our relationships with each other? Humility is also needed. Whether we’re the hurt party or the party who has done the hurting, reconciliation work requires us to be respectful, to be unpretentious, and to remain God-centered, not self-centered.

3. BE VULNERABLE

Reconciliation also requires a certain daring. It takes courage to both (1) confess our wrongs and to (2) release the wrongs others have done to us. But if Jesus has entrusted this tender work to us, He also will give us the strength to open our hearts to each other.

4. BE LED

We don’t need to walk into this calling alone. We are led to it through the guidance of Jesus. First, in the reconnecting work He does between us and Him, and secondly, in the reconnecting work He longs to do between Himself and others, including our interpersonal relationships.

We Are All Ministers Here

There will be times we won’t succeed in bringing reconciliation.

Whether healing breaches in our own relationships or in helping others return to God, this work requires all hands on deck, and often not everyone is ready when we are (and sometimes we’re not ready ourselves.)

But a beautiful quality of ministry is this: planting seeds is considered valuable work in itself. Perhaps we’ll see the fruits of the harvest; perhaps not. It’s up to God to add HIs miraculous touches for the buds to bloom in ways we can’t imagine.

My friend decided that love for her boyfriend outweighed her distaste of being a pastor’s wife. So she married him. Along their journey, she discovered many ministries of her own as a result. God’s callings often multiply in many directions.

As we continue forward in our series of #MissionalLiving this month, remember that the mission to be reconcilers is something each of us can participate in.

We all are sent.

We all are ministers here.

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Are Christians Too Judgmental? {Matthew 7:1-2}

September 7, 2020 by Lisa Burgess 5 Comments

Are Christians too judgmental? Most polls say yes.

Memorize Matthew 7:1-2 with us this week: “Judge not, that you be not judged.”

The  Billboard

The same billboard catches my eye every time. As I drive back and forth on Highway 280, the words loom large. They preach: “STOP JUDGING.”

I always wonder, “Who paid for this? And why?” Is it a progressive organization responding to a harsh church? Is it a Christian group striving to protect its reputation? Is it a political group making a point?

Last week I decided to find out. I made a note to look up the website when I got home: stopjudging.org.

It wasn’t what I expected.

Do You Judge?

This week we’re studying and memorizing Matthew 7:1-2 (you can join our memory challenge here).

Jesus said these words: “Judge not, that you be not judged”. It sounds so simple: Don’t judge. Don’t draw definitive conclusions about someone else’s opinions or behaviors as right or wrong.

We read similar thoughts from Paul and James:

“Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand.”
Romans 14:4

“There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor?”
James 4:12

Yet, we do it anyway. We judge.

  • Sometimes we judge based on political party or favored candidate.
  • We judge if someone isn’t wearing a mask or if they are.
  • We judge others based on accents, on clothing, on causes supported or not supported on social media.
  • We judge by church attendance, by doctrinal stances, by worship styles.

We assume our way is the right way. So if others don’t agree with us, they must be wrong. And too often, we let them know.

We frame it as “speaking the truth in love,” but others perceive it as obnoxiously spouting our opinions.

Don’t Judge

Yet Jesus is clearly saying here: “Judge not, that you be not judged.”

That doesn’t mean we can’t hold opinions and form beliefs. Jesus wants us to hold onto His teachings, to properly discern right and wrong. And to help others do likewise.

But there’s a line we aren’t to cross. Don’t pass judgment on a fellow human. We don’t know enough to do so. Only God sees what is in a person’s heart. He alone can properly read motives.

And when we refuse to stop judging? When we remain judgmental?

We reap what we sow: the world judges us back. Unfavorably. It reflects bad on us. It reflects bad on Jesus.

Our judgmental attitudes need to go.

Love More

When I arrived home last week, I looked up the website from the billboard, stopjudging.org.

It discovered it is a statewide campaign launched by the Alabama Department of Public Health and the Alabama Department of Mental Health. The goal? Stop judging those with mental illness and substance disorders. Stop piling on shame and ridicule. Start healing instead.

The site gives a list of resources. It gives a list of vocabulary we can use to change the way we talk, to change the way we’re perceived, and to change the way others feel perceived by us.

I think they’re on to something. They’re encouraging conversations of kindness and understanding, to help free people from unwanted behaviors, to promote healing for illnesses.

I think it’s what Jesus was saying, too.

Jesus didn’t need a billboard to say it. He said it in a sermon on a mountain.

But maybe He also is using this billboard to remind us of His message: Stop judging.

We have many opportunities every day to practice this. We’ll improve our reputation (and by default, His reputation) by loving more, judging less.

That’s how people will know we are His: by our love, not our judgments.

Are Christians too judgmental? Let’s love more, judge less. Opportunities abound for practice. #Matthew7

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We’ll Read, Memorize, Study—Sign Up Today for 10 Weeks in Matthew 7

September 4, 2020 by Lisa Burgess Leave a Comment

Want to sign up to memorize Matthew 7, but haven’t yet?

Today is your moment. You’ve got nothing to lose!

When you register, you’ll get links to our resources and a weekly email for 10 weeks.

Memorize with us every week. Or just read and study alongside us.

Quick signup here:

 

Spend 10 weeks in Matthew 7:1-14. We’ll read; memorize; study. Sign up today! We start September 6. #HideHisWord

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How to Be Consistent in Memorizing Scripture—Sign Up Here!

August 31, 2020 by Lisa Burgess 14 Comments

How to Be Consistent

We took an unofficial poll in our scripture memory group, Hide His Word. How would you fill in the blank?

“The hardest thing for me about memorizing scripture is _____.”

The #1 difficultly we had with memorizing scripture? Being consistent.

Beginning September 6, 2020, we’ll start a 10-week challenge to memorize Matthew 7:1-14. We’ll finish the week before Thanksgiving.

How can we be consistent from week to week to transfer these words from paper to our heart?

How to Be Consistent in Memorizing Scripture

4 Ways to Be More Consistent in Memorizing Scripture

Here are 4 ways to be consistent in memorizing scripture.

1. TAKE BABY STEPS

Set small but specific goals. Keep them reasonable.

Our challenge is to learn 1-2 verses a week. That’s all. Set aside 5 minutes a day. Simply say the verses to yourself 3-5 times a day, looking at them when necessary, looking up when you can.

Some people prefer learning one phrase per day. Others use 1st letter prompts. Or practice the verses by typing them. (We’ll send you lots of resources and links to help you when you sign up to learn Matthew 7.)

Whatever your preferred method, keep it quick. You’ll be more apt to do it.

2. ELIMINATE OBSTACLES

Make it easy. Make it obvious.

If you have to dig out your Bible or chase down your 3×5 memory cards every time you want to memorize, you’re less likely to do it. Place copies of the text now in several places. Where are you most likely to see them each day? Perhaps on the bathroom mirror, on the refrigerator door, by the remote control.

If you’re a morning person, recite in the morning before tiredness becomes an obstacle. If time is a problem, listen to the text on audio during your daily commute or while you’re making your coffee.

Think ahead about excuses you’ll use. Then defeat the excuses before they defeat you.

3. SET REMINDERS

Often we just forget to memorize. How can you remind yourself?

First, create a schedule. We’ve created a schedule here for Matthew 7:1-14.

Then, try these suggestions. Maybe an accountability partner can help you remember. Make a weekly date to recite to each other. Or set a daily timer on your phone to spend 5 minutes with your verses. Create an item on your digital task list to recite the verses.

We’ll also be here to remind you. We’ll send you a weekly email with the current verses and first letters. We’ll post a Monday morning devotional here at the blog. We’ll ask you on Facebook each Monday about the verses you’re choosing to learn that week. And check in with you on Fridays about your progress.

4. FOCUS ON THE GOAL

Why do you want to memorize anyway? Memorizing is great exercise for your brain. But higher goals are (1) to grow closer to God, and (2) to love others better.

Spending time with Jesus in His words is a great way to connect with Him, not only in the minutes you’re actually memorizing, but deep in the night when you wake up or when you’re seeking wisdom in the middle of the day.

Study the context. Read the surrounding chapters of the Sermon on the Mount. Use a YouVersion reading plan to stay connected (we suggest this 10-day plan).

Talk to God in your prayers about these words. Let it be material for conversations with Him as well as for conversations with others about Him.

Is It Time to Try?

Don’t think you’ll memorize perfectly. No one can.

But an imperfect attempt to memorize is better than a perfect failure to try.

Only by the grace of God can any of us memorize scripture and allow the Spirit to use His truths for our transformation.

If scripture memorization is something you’ve wanted to improve on, this can be your time. 

Get more details here.

Then sign up here with your email address. It’s easy.

It’s a baby step but a step in a positive direction toward spiritual growth!

We’ll be here with you every step of the way.

Want to be more consistent in memorizing scripture? Here are tips. Then practice with us in Matthew 7. Sign up today.

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Sign Up to Memorize the Red Letters {Matthew 7:1-14}

August 24, 2020 by Lisa Burgess 6 Comments

Matthew 7 Invite

What’s Your Source?

Where do you get your news? What’s your source? We hear a lot these days about minding our sources.

For our next memory challenge, we’re going straight to the original source.

We’ll be memorizing red letter words, the words spoken directly by Jesus as recorded by the writers of the New Testament.

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Matthew 7 Invitation to Memorize

Memorize Matthew 7:1-14

In the past, we’ve memorized portions of Matthew 5 and Matthew 6.

In this challenge, we’ll memorize Matthew 7:1-14, to complete our journey through sections of all three chapters of the Sermon on the Mount. (Here are resources for Matthew 5 and resources for Matthew 6.)

Whether this will be your first time memorizing scripture or if you’ve memorized a lot, this is a great portion of scripture to learn.

We’ve discovered it’s much easier to memorize in community than on our own.

We go at a comfortable pace (or you can create your own schedule). We’ll memorize 1 to 2 verses per week for 10 weeks between Labor Day and Thanksgiving, with a one-week break halfway.

Matthew 7 include verses such as,

1 Judge not, that you be not judged.

7 Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.

11 If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!

Sign Up Today

If you want to go straight to the source too, sign up today and memorize with us.

Here are the details.

•  Schedule
Memorizing begins September 6, 2020, and ends November 21.

•  Reminders
We’ll send you an email each Monday morning with memory tips for that week’s verses. We’ll also post a short devotional on each verse here at the blog on Monday mornings. Our Facebook community, Hide His Word, participates actively as well, strengthening each other with friendship, insights, and prayers.

•  Resources
We provide several resources you can print. After signing up, you’ll receive an email with links to 3×5 cards you can print, 1st letters page, journal pages, etc. (All our resources are in ESV, but you can memorize in any version you prefer.)

Click here to see the full schedule.

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I am memorizing Matthew 7

Memorize words straight from the mouth of Jesus. Join us online to memorize #Matthew7 this fall! Sign up here. #hidehisword

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It’s easy to join. Just sign up with your email address and we’ll add you to the list.

We’ll send you the words to memorize each week, not from our mouths, but from Jesus’s. His are words you can trust!

Questions? Will you be memorizing with us? Please share in the comments.

Want to Memorize More Scripture Together?

August 17, 2020 by Lisa Burgess Leave a Comment

New Bible memory challenge

Want to get a chunk of healthy, encouraging, Jesus words deep into your head and heart?

We’re touching up our final notes for the next memory challenge for Fall 2020!

Next week we’ll share the details.

You’ll have the opportunity then to register to memorize another chapter of the Bible together as a group.

This time we’ll be in the New Testament, back in the red letters.

Check back on Monday, August 24, to sign up.

New Bible memory challenge coming

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