Last month, my husband Lee and I celebrated the ten year anniversary of the first day we met. I had driven from Dallas, Texas to Wake Forest, NC to start seminary and teach English at a Christian school. The administrator of the school had given Lee my new address and asked told him to show up and help the new teacher unload her U-Haul. He showed up, and the rest, as they say, is history.
But I would not say everything in our lives from that day ten years ago until now has been perfect. It hasn’t all been easy. We’ve had many “plan B” situations—times when our plan and God’s plan didn’t match. We have a child with autism. We have been in the long process of adoption for over two years now. Our house only has one bathroom. (Just keeping it real. Wouldn’t everyone’s “Plan A” include a house with more than one bathroom?) And even though I wouldn’t have chosen each delay, diagnosis, or drawback, I can honestly say God’s plan for our lives is perfect.
When God’s plan interrupts my life and my plans, I have to turn to Scripture to remember who is really in charge. I need encouragement to face Plan B. Thankfully, His Word is full of Plan B situations, and reassurance for those of us going down different roads than we had planned.
- One of the first (and one of my favorite) Plan B situations in Scripture is in Genesis, describing the long road Joseph was forced down so he could ultimately save his family and the Hebrew people. In 50:20, Joseph told his brothers, “As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today.”
- The Book of Psalms includes every emotion humans experience. One verse I cling to when the Plan B road looks long and lonely is 126:5, “Those who sow in tears shall reap with shouts of joy.”
- The prophet Isaiah spoke truth to a “deaf and blind” generation who had forgotten God. He spoke words of conviction, but he also spoke words of hope, including 55:8-9, “‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are my ways your ways,’ declares the Lord. ‘For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts.'”
- Although Christ Himself was Plan A for our salvation, He knew we would experience times of struggle. He told us, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light,” (Matthew 11:28-29).
- And in the letter from James, writing encouragement to the early church and first generation Christians, he tells us, “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above . . .” (1:17). If it is from God, we can trust is it good and perfect. Even if it is our Plan B.
Elizabeth says
Exactly what I needed this morning … A huge plan B … Lost another baby to miscarriage… And my husband no longer wants to try any more…I’ve instantly lost about 5 years of my life (with everything in between erased) …. To say it’s left me reeling is an understatement…. Thank you for your scriptures (and your post)
Sandra says
Oh, Elizabeth, I’m so sorry for your loss. I am lifting you and your husband up in prayer now. Asking the God of comfort to strengthen you today.
Elizabeth says
Thank you, appreciate you words and prayers
Jennifer says
Elizabeth, what a hard place you are in. I will pray for you too. And for your husband, that God would minister to his broken heart and bring it back in line with yours…
Pamela Fowler says
great reminder! I thought for sure you were going to use “Jonah” in your plan B Bible examples :)
Sandra says
Jonah is a great Plan B example! :)
Jennifer says
Thank you. I keep telling myself these truths but it is so much more encouraging to hear them from someone else. My “Plan B” seems to be having an only child instead of the 3 or 4 that I had hoped for. I don’t know how people get through the various “Plan B” situations in their lives if they don’t trust in a good God who loves them and holds them in His sovereign hand. I love the scriptures you quoted and also the reminder that this IS still God’s “Plan A” for my life. Blessings to you :)
Linda says
“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden…….”
I knew it! God knows me better than I will ever know myself, and I think I’ve just realised! why God has allowed so many of my challenges? He knew, better than me, that I would drift away if I didn’t have circumstances that would make me talk to Him? What a relief! I honestly have always felt a little guilty that I am joyful – as though people are looking at me thinking I am enjoying the pain and suffering for the attention it elicits me? As if I have to look serious all the time?
Well, there it is – written in Jesus’ blood – “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden…..”. Isn’t He wonderful?