We all enjoy appreciation for a job well done. But as we mature, we want our motives to be deeper than a desire for temporary applause from the crowd.
In our memory verses this week (Matthew 6:17-18), we see again this same repetitive message from Jesus:
Don’t be a righteous show-off.
Instead of emphasizing to others how much we suffer, what if we showed them our joy instead? Even in our suffering. Because even as we fast, we are being rewarded, if not now, for sure later.
Jesus didn’t say to live a deprived life but rather an anointed life.
This requirement that our fasting be done in secret is a tough one when you live in a houseful of eaters. My kids are used to me sipping tea at meals if I’m trying to fast, but I’ve never found a way to talk about fasting that feels comfortable. Anyone have suggestions? Input on how you’ve handled it in the past?
I’m curious too to know how others handle this. I’ve found it hard as well to keep it totally private if someone asks me to meet them for lunch, for example, when I’m fasting. What I do is just mention is casually and then move on, not dwelling on it. I’ve never done an extended fast though, so I often can plan my fast for times when I know I won’t be as involved socially. But for those who fast for longer periods?