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God has transformed Patti from a frightened young woman into a truly joyful mama. She is passionate about encouraging women to seek hard after Jesus and receive freedom to enjoy the life they have been given. Patti writes at Joyful Mama and with her daughter at Blossoms and Posies..

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Intentional Growth in God’s Word

January 28, 2020 by Patti Brown 1 Comment

Do you want to grow in the habit of reading the Bible? Try one of our tips in this installment of the "Intentional Spiritual Growth" series from Do Not Depart.

Do you want to grow in the habit of reading the Bible? Try one of our tips in this installment of the "Intentional Spiritual Growth" series from Do Not Depart.

I am looking at my calendar today and see February staring back at me already… right there at the end of the week. How is this possible?

It is a whirlwind season of life here with our amazing teens, and I know some day I will look back at it it with such fondness. My current reality is racing from one activity to the next, even one state to the next, as my homeschooled kids fill their schedules with classes, theater, piano, dance, hockey, and college visits. Full disclosure: I still have Christmas decorations needing to be put in the garage!

So trust me when I tell you, if I don’t make a plan for things that are important to me, they just don’t happen. That’s what this month is all about, right? Being intentional.

And crazy as it may sound, I HAVE to be intentional about spending time in God’s Word. How hard is it really? It’s just sitting down and reading the Bible, right? With a life chock full of distractions, without being intentional it can be surprisingly hard!

The tyranny of the urgent can crowd out this important piece of my day. It falls into the “important but not urgent” category of Eisenhower’s principal. When I let the urgent rule my days (and that is so easy!) all those non-urgent, but important, things fall aside. I can’t let that happen.

Why Time in the Bible?

Why should we read the Bible itself? Why not just read scholars’ understanding, or listen to Christian podcasts?

While learning through the perspective of teachers has great value, because God’s Word is personal it is important to read and understand it for yourself as well.

“For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” Hebrews 4:12

When you are intentional about spending time reading Scripture, you will come to know who God is better. You will also see yourself more clearly. You will find guidance for real life situations that face you today.

“All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.” 2 Timothy 3: 16-17

Understanding Yourself

When life is super busy but you want to grow, you have to be honest. Being truthful with yourself about how you tick, what your learning style is, and what the rhythms of your day look like, is critical to creating a plan that you will follow.

What is your learning style?

  • Visual – Reading may be your best choice
  • Auditory – An audio Bible might be better retained
  • Kinesthetic – You may benefit from being active, maybe walking or jogging, while you listen to an audio Bible

When do you have time?

  • Early morning – Can you get up 10 minutes earlier and have some quiet time to yourself?
  • During your commute – Using travel time for listening to the Bible (or reading if you take public transportation) can be a simple way to fit it in.
  • While doing chores – Listening to God’s Word while I mop makes the time fly by!
  • When you climb in bed at night – If you have the habit of reading in bed before sleeping, how about you pick up your Bible for a few minutes before that novel you are itching to read?

There is no scenario in which you can’t find find a way to fit some time in the Word into your day. You may just have to get creative!

What Does That Time Look Like?

There are many ways to grow with God through His Word. None is better than the other, and all are valuable to explore at some point in your journey.

  • Read straight through the Bible from beginning to end – I use the Bible app to help me keep track of where I am.
  • Study a topic – Is there a topic God is impressing on you? Look up all the verses pertaining to that topic. You can use a concordance, or even the Internet!
  • Study a section/chapter/book in depth – Hanging out in one place in the Bible for an extended period of time can help you plumb the depths of a passage in a way that a quick reading can’t. You can do this on your own or using a formal Bible study guide.
  • Use different versions – Every time I start at the beginning of the Bible again, I change the version I am reading. I find this helps the text stay fresh and sometimes highlights things I might not have noticed in other versions. My caveat to this is that some versions are less textually reliable. When I am reading a version that is more interpretation-heavy I will cross-reference with a more reliable version when I come to an unexpected passage, so I am sure I am understanding it correctly.

If You Are Struggling

Try as you might, you just can’t develop the habit? Here are some suggestions:

  • Try something different – A different time, a different version of the Bible, a different study, a different way of consuming (switch from reading to audio or vice versa).
  • Find a mentor – Look for someone further along the journey who can help guide you.
  • Find accountability – Do you have a friend who wants to develop a habit? Help each other with accountability.
  • Find a group – Look for a Bible study group. Sometimes knowing you will be meeting with people gives you a deadline that helps motivate you.

God Wants YOU

Friends, this is not about following rules, or about checking off a to-do list. No legalism please! Time in God’s Word is about growing in a relationship.

“I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.” John‬ ‭15:5‬

You start where you are. I did not expect my wild-child two year old to sit with me for thirty minutes and have a theological discussion. Now, at thirteen, he will happily sit for hours and discuss important topics with me. Your heavenly Father knows where you are in your journey. He loves you and wants to spend time with you where you are today.

There are no standards on how to do it “right.” Find a way to be intentional about spending time with God in His Word, in a way that works for your personality and your time. The fruit of your faithfulness will be joy!

“If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love. These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.” John‬ ‭15:10-11‬

The Whole Armor of God – Pray at All Times

September 29, 2019 by Patti Brown Leave a Comment

All throughout the month of September, we have been looking at the Spiritual armor, found in Ephesians 6:10-18.

This portion of Paul’s letter to the Ephesians reminds us that:

  • Our true battle is not against other people, and our strength comes from God.
  • When we fasten on the belt of truth, we are setting truth as the foundation of our protection in Christ.
  • The breastplate of righteousness reminds us that our hearts are meant to be aligned with God.
  • We are to be ready to bring peace to others.
  • Our shield of faith not only protects, but reminds us that we are never alone.
  • The helmet of salvation guards our thoughts and reminds us of what Jesus has done for us.
  • The sword of the Spirit, God’s Word, is the only “weapon” we need.

It is appropriate that Paul concludes his discussion of the Spiritual armor with a call to prayer.

“…praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end, keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints,” (Ephesians 6:18)

When we abide in Christ, when we keep in constant communication with Him (“praying at all times in the Spirit”) we are well fitted indeed, with righteousness, peace, salvation, faith, and so on. Prayer is the conversation with God that helps us remain in His presence and in His armor.

And God want us to pray not only for ourselves but also for others (supplication). Just as Roman soldiers were known for their formations that created a unified defense, we Believers are to be unified in our defense against our common enemy. Prayer for and with one another protects and strengthens us, as we walk with Christ and face an unseen enemy.

Gird yourself, dear child of God, with the gift of His protection and grace. Pray at all times in the Spirit and remember that each piece of the Spiritual armor has a beautiful meaning for your daily walk. You are deeply loved!

The Sword of the Spirit

September 23, 2019 by Patti Brown Leave a Comment

We are nearing the end of our tour through the parts of the spiritual armor that Paul laid out in Ephesians 6:10-18. Did you notice that everything we have discussed so far is a defensive piece of the armor? The belt, breastplate, helmet, shoes, and shield are all protective. God is our defender!

But today’s piece of armor is not defensive. The sword of the Spirit is the one offensive piece of armor that Paul discusses.

Because we know that Paul, a Roman citizen, was well aware of what soldiers in his day would be using, it’s worth taking a minute to discuss the physical weapon referred to in this passage, to help us better understand the spiritual metaphor Paul is making.

The Greek word Paul uses is μάχαιραν (machaira), and would be more accurately translated as “dagger”. This was a small, short weapon, intended for a fast jabbing action and retreat – not extended sword-fighting.

Keeping this in mind, as we look at Ephesians 6:17b, “the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God,” we can see clearly that God intends any actual facing off with the enemy to be short, and to consist simply of His word.

Jesus set the example for us when He was tempted in the desert (Matthew 4:1-11). Three times Satan taunted and tempted Him, and three times Jesus responded with Scripture (all from Deuteronomy). No long conversation, no attempt to convince. He simply, and powerfully, spoke Scripture (jab!).

When I am deep in a battle, it doesn’t make sense to me that the solution could be as simple as God’s Word, but my feelings don’t get a say in reality – the truth is, God’s Word is powerful.

When I wrestle with the enemy like a war-weary swordsman, I am making a grave mistake. God is the victor; I am merely a foot soldier who has been issued protective gear and a small but effective dagger – His Scriptures. When I follow my marching orders, He provides the results, and I rest. Isn’t that amazing?

We really don’t want to be fumbling around for our dagger in the moment of need, though, do we? This is one reason why memorizing Scripture is so beneficial.

I have made it a point to memorize Scriptures related to specific areas of struggle in my life. Fear has always been a stumbling block for me, and long ago I memorized passages about fear so that when I feel anxiety rising, I can speak truth (jab!). When I get tired of serving, I can speak verses about not growing weary (jab!). When I am filled with self-doubt, I can speak verses about who I am in Christ (jab!).

God’s Word has a power that is inexplicable. Hebrews 4:12 tells us that…

“the word of God is living and active and sharper than any two-edged sword, and piercing as far as the division of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart.”

Knowing that His Word not only blesses and refines is, but also protects us, is comforting, and inspiring! What verses do you need to memorize so that you are ready to “jab” when the battle comes?

The Whole Armor of God

September 3, 2019 by Patti Brown 5 Comments

The printer doesn’t work. The car gets a flat tire. You get sick. Your phone lights up with complaints.

If you have ever been involved in ministry, whether as a volunteer, or for your job, you know – there are obstacles everywhere you turn. Your heart is to serve, but you find in the midst of your ministering that many things are difficult, and your patience is a little shorter than you thought. The twists and turns and tests prove to be more rigorous that you anticipated.

I see this all the time, both in my own work, and listening to others in ministry. The path can be very challenging.

Most often the challenges come in the form of humans. Conflicts and complaints are steady when you are in leadership. You might feel discouraged, embattled.

And guess what? You are in a battle! But not with people.

The Battle is Not Against Flesh and Blood

Ephesians 6:12 tells that our real battle is not against other humans.

For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. – Ephesians 6:12

We may live on earth, but as Believers, we have one foot in God’s heavenly kingdom as well. The battles we face here have an eternal component that you and I must remain mindful of.

Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. 1 Peter 5:8

It is easy to be distracted by the joys and challenges of our day to day lives, but everything we do also has eternal significance. I have experienced times of great discouragement in ministry, times when I am exhausted and it seems like the problems will never end. I forget in those moments that my true battle is not against the people and the problems, but is rather a profound spiritual battle.

When we remember that the battle is against the enemy, it realigns us with God’s view. We can remember to stand in His strength, because obviously you and I can not fight an enemy of that magnitude alone!

Therefore Take Up the Whole Armor of God

Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. (Ephesians 6:13)

Explore theological and practical aspects of the spiritual armor (Ephesians 6:10-18).

Our true strength is found in God, and God alone!

…apart from me you can do nothing (John 15:5b)

I can do all things through him who strengthens me. (Philippians 4:13)

The only way we can stand is in the strength of His might. (Ephesians 6:10)

And how do we do that on a practical level? We put on the whole armor of God!

As spiritual warriors, we adorn ourselves with the one offensive and five defensive pieces of our God-given armor:

  1. Belt of truth (Ephesians 6:14a)
  2.  Breastplate of righteousness (Ephesians 6:14b)
  3. Shoes of readiness/peace (Ephesians 6:15)
  4. Shield of faith (Ephesians 6:16)
  5. Helmet of salvation (Ephesians 6:17a)
  6. Sword of the Spirit (Ephesians 6:17b)

Throughout the month of September we will take a closer look at the whole armor of God, and how you can apply the concepts of the spiritual armor to your daily life.

We pray that you will grow deeper in understanding of the protection and strength that God has provided for you!

Take a closer look with us at the spiritual armor this month! #ArmorofGod #Ephesians6

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Draw Near, Hold Fast, and Take Care (Hebrews 10:19-25)

July 31, 2019 by Patti Brown Leave a Comment

Draw Near, Hold Tight, and Take Care - a look at Hebrews 10:19-25

Today we come to our final verses in the passage from Hebrews 10 we have been studying all month. And boy are these verses packed!

We start with a little look back over our shoulders at what Jesus has done for us, then we move on to the future – how ought we to respond as followers of Christ who have been blessed so abundantly?

Therefore, brothers, since we have confidence to enter the holy places by the blood of Jesus, by the new and living way that he opened for us through the curtain, that is, through his flesh, and since we have a great priest over the house of God, let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, with our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water. Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful. And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near. – Hebrews 10:19-25

Draw Near, Hold Tight, and Take Care - a look at Hebrews 10:19-25

Since We Have…

The beginning of Hebrews 10:19-25 reflects back on the themes the author of Hebrews has already been addressing in chapter 10. It’s as if he is saying, “Hey guys, remember we discussed that we have…”

  1. Confidence to face God! Jesus’ death on the cross allows us to no longer need a human intermediary offering sacrifices, but instead we can go straight to God Himself.
  2.  A great high priest! The Greek word used in this verse is sightly different from the word used for high priest in most passages. This word might even be translated “kingly priest.” Jesus is the ultimate high priest, the Lord of all the high priests, the fulfillment of all priestly roles.

We have received these precious gifts, now the question is, how shall we respond? The author of Hebrews gives the answer using three “let us” verses.

Let Us Draw Near

Unlike Old Testament times, God’s people no longer need to keep their distance from Him! We are called to draw near…

  1. … with a true heart in full assurance of faith – A true heart is a sincere heart, nothing put on for show. John said “true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth” (John 4:21). This is the kind of sincerity God is looking for. We can be sincere because we are confident in God, like a little child who is confident her father can help her with anything she asks.
  2. … with our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience – Like the sprinkling of blood on Levitical priests to purify them (Exodus 29:21), we have had our hearts “sprinkled” with the purifying blood of Jesus Christ. Our consciences can be clear. “How much more will the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered himself without blemish to God, purify our conscience from dead works to serve the living God.” (Hebrews 9:14)
  3. … and our bodies washed with pure water – There are multiple levels to this: an allusion to the ritual washings of Old Testament law, and to baptism, but on a visceral level I think we can understand this easily. We have been refreshed and cleansed, inside and out, by the power of Jesus’ sacrifice. We have been purified, and offered a new life!

Let Us Hold Fast

“hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful.” – Hebrews 10:23

Hope is a funny thing – it can be easy to lose can’t it? Perhaps that’s why the author of Hebrews gets descriptive for us. We are to hold fast, and not waver in our hope. I picture myself holding on white-knuckled, because indeed, that has been my reality in certain seasons. The world, and people in my life, have sought to disrupt my hope. But God has been abundantly faithful to me. He has never disappointed me, and my hope in Him has never yet been shown to be misplaced.

As W. Robertson Nicoll says, “The promises of God are necessarily the ground of hope (Hebrews 6:12.) These promises cannot fail, because God cannot lie. (Hebrews 6:18.)”

Let Us Stir Up One Another

We draw close into God (draw near), we hold on tight (hold fast), and finally we are asked to remember and encourage each other.

  1. “let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works” – God uses brothers and sisters in Christ to grow one another. Some versions translate “stir up” as “provoke” and I am sure we can all recall a time when we felt provoked in church! But passion does not have to come from negativity. As Believers we can’t just look to meet our needs by drawing close to God, we must also look outward, loving and serving those around us, and helping each other persevere in service.
  2. “not neglecting to meet together” – We were created to be a family, children of the living God. It is part of our personal growth, and our call to love and serve, that we must continue to fellowship with other Believers regularly
  3. “encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.” – Everyone needs encouragement. It is our responsibility to be the source of that encouragement for our brothers and sisters in Christ. Knowing that Jesus will return is not the reason we do it, it is merely a reminder that we may not be complacent in this!

As we conclude our study of Hebrews 10 this month, today’s passage provides us a lovely and simple thought to meditate upon: Draw near to God, hold tight, and take care of those around you. It is our drawing near that gives us the strength to care for others.

And it is only because of Jesus’ once for all sacrifice that we can even begin. Without His gift to us, we could not draw near to God, and none of the rest would matter. Praise His holy name!

Draw near to God, hold tight, and take care. That’s Hebrews 10:19-25 in a nutshell. #OnceForAll

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The Marriage Metaphor: The Adulterous Bride

June 26, 2019 by Patti Brown Leave a Comment

How are Believers adulterous? God uses marriage as a metaphor for His relationship with His people throughout Scripture. In the book of Homer He uses adultery as a metaphor for idolatry. DoNotDepart.com

All this month on the blog, we’ll be exploring the marriage metaphor found in Scripture. Check out previous posts in this series.


 

How are Believers adulterous? God uses marriage as a metaphor for His relationship with His people throughout Scripture. In the book of Homer He uses adultery as a metaphor for idolatry. DoNotDepart.com
The wedding march plays, the flower petals are thrown, the bride walks up the aisle… most weddings begin with joyful expectation, just as most marriages do. The bride and groom and those who love them are filled with hope for a bright future, for a loving relationship that lasts, for a family.

Rare is the marriage that starts as bleakly as Hosea’s did, with this command from God:

“Go, take to yourself a wife of whoredom and have children of whoredom, for the land commits great whoredom by forsaking the Lord.” Hosea 1:2

It is a startling command, and sets the tone for an uncomfortable book, just two verses in. Gomer later bears Hosea’s children, who are named Jezreel, No Mercy, and Not My People. Ouch.

The Adulterous Bride

God wants us to be uncomfortable with the story of Hosea and Gomer! As we have seen, God’s use of the marriage metaphor for His covenant relationship with us has powerful implications… and the possibility of adultery is one of them.

God uses adultery as a metaphor for idolatry, the violation of one of the ten commandments:

“You shall have no other gods before me.” Exodus 20:2

As the Bride of Christ, we are called to have eyes only for the Lord.

Looking for Satisfaction Elsewhere

When a married person looks for satisfaction outside of their marriage, they commit adultery. Love doesn’t have to be the motivator – a choice to break the covenant of marriage is adultery, no matter the reason. Often lust is the primary motivator for adulterous behavior.

How often do we turn away from God, lusting after things of the world? When we look for satisfaction apart from God, it is like looking for satisfaction outside of our marriages.

God Knows Our Tendencies

God knew idolatry was coming. He told Moses:

For when I have brought them into the land flowing with milk and honey, which I swore to give to their fathers, and they have eaten and are full and grown fat, they will turn to other gods and serve them, and despise me and break my covenant. Deuteronomy 31:20

How painful it is to know that our natural tendencies are toward lust, both in earthly relationships, and in our relationship with God!

God’s Love Redeems

But God in His mercy loves us ever so much more than we deserve. In Hosea 3, God commands Hosea to redeem his unfaithful wife:

And the Lord said to me, “Go again, love a woman who is loved by another man and is an adulteress, even as the Lord loves the children of Israel, though they turn to other gods and love cakes of raisins.” So I bought her for fifteen shekels of silver and a homer and a lethech of barley. And I said to her, “You must dwell as mine for many days. You shall not play the whore, or belong to another man; so will I also be to you.” Hosea 3:1-3

Despite our sin and our constantly wavering gaze, God adores His people.

My heart recoils within me;
my compassion grows warm and tender.
I will not execute my burning anger;
I will not again destroy Ephraim;
for I am God and not a man,
the Holy One in your midst,
and I will not come in wrath.
Hosea 11:9-10

When we are unfaithful to our Holy God, we deserve the ultimate punishment. Instead He says “I will have mercy,” and “You are my people.”

And I will betroth you to me forever. I will betroth you to me in righteousness and in justice, in steadfast love and in mercy. I will betroth you to me in faithfulness. And you shall know the Lord… And I will have mercy on No Mercy, and I will say to Not My People, ‘You are my people’; and he shall say, ‘You are my God.’” Hosea 2:19-20,23

When God sent His son Jesus Christ for us, He redeemed us. He loves us so deeply, that despite our wandering ways He has made a straight path back to His arms!

In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace Ephesians 1:7

Prone to Wander

I will leave you with my favorite verse from the hymn Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing.

Oh, to grace how great a debtor
Daily I’m constrained to be
Let that goodness like a fetter
Bind my wandering heart to Thee
Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it
Prone to leave the God I love
Here’s my heart, oh, take and seal it
Seal it for Thy courts above
– Robert Robinson

Are you prone to wander? Ask God to help you to shift your gaze back to Him when your eyes begin to stray.

Are you prone to wander? God redeems His adulterous people. #TheMarriageMetaphor

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Does the story of Hosea and Gomer make you uncomfortable? It is supposed to! #TheMarriageMetaphor

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The Fruit of the Spirit – Wrap Up

May 31, 2019 by Patti Brown 1 Comment

Join us for a 9 part series on the fruit of the Spirit at DoNotDepart.com

As followers of Jesus Christ, we can expect to be changed. Jesus works on us from the inside out, and that transformation can be seen in the fruit our lives bear.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.

Galatians 5:22-23
Join us for a 9 part series on the fruit of the Spirit at DoNotDepart.com

We have spent this month taking a deeper look at the Fruit of the Spirit described in Galatians 5. Here are all of the posts:

Love – In Ali’s post on love, she wrote, “If I follow only my feelings, those same feelings that lead me to loving well can lead me into not loving at all. Instead of following only feelings, I need to choose to follow God.”

Joy – I shared that “Happiness is not a fruit of the Spirit. So how is joy different from happiness? Joy does not depend on the circumstances around us.”

Peace – In her post about four ways to find peace, Lisa wrote, “Whether or not you are feeling at peace today, thank God anyway that peace has been planted deep inside you.”

Patience – Jaime shared, “Exercising patience, accepting trouble without getting angry, can only be done when we let go of control.”

Kindness – In her post on kindness, Jaime wrote, “The kindness developed through our time with the Spirit has the power to ease pain, heal wounds, bridge gaps, and restore relationships.”

Goodness – Cheli wrote, “God wants His goodness to be born in us, so others might see and experience Him.”

Faithfulness – Cheli explained that “Faithfulness, as a Fruit of the Spirit, is found in someone who steadfastly holds to the truth about God and acts on it, always pointing others to the same truth.”

Gentleness – Ali gave us a definition of Biblical gentleness. “Gentleness: mildness with strength. A powerful humility that has a divine origin and can only operate through faith. It starts and finishes by God’s direction and empowerment”

Self-Control – Cheli reminded us that “In a world that sees self-control as shackles, God’s purpose for self-control is life-giving freedom.“

As we cling to Jesus Christ, our heavenly gardener, He will bring this fruit to maturity in our lives!

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The Joy of the Lord is Your Strength

May 9, 2019 by Patti Brown Leave a Comment

The Joy of the Lord is Your Strength - how God gives us joy even int eh most difficult circumstances

The Joy of the Lord is Your Strength - how God gives us joy even int eh most difficult circumstances

Seventeen years ago I decided to start a small business selling baby slings. When it was time to set up a website, I had to choose a name. What came to me was a surprise, because it wasn’t really me: The Joyful Mama.

There was something in this name that seemed right, but it sure didn’t describe me. I had a five year old and a toddler, and my husband traveled every week… and even some weekends. I was tired, depressed, and grouchy. Our marriage was struggling. My kids made me feel happy sometimes, but joy was elusive.

I remember thinking, “Well, this name is just going to have to be prophetic, because it sure seems right.” We bought the domain and set up the website.

God is faithful! He did indeed take that exhausted young mother and transformed her into a joyful mama from the inside out. (You can read a little more about that journey here and here.)

You see, there is just no way to make yourself joyful. You can’t fake your way to joy. God, through His Word, steadily showed me how to change my thinking, how to change my priorities, how to abide with Him.

Joy is not Circumstantial

Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. James 1:24

Happiness is not a fruit of the Spirit. So how is joy different from happiness? Joy does not depend on the circumstances around us.

I have a dear friend with a debilitating chronic illness. She spends much of her time in pain. Yet she is one of the most joyful people I know. She has seen the fruit of joy come out of allowing Jesus into her suffering.

Is she ever grumpy? You bet. But those are passing moments, not a permanent state. She sees her life with eyes that have been refined by holy fire (Malachi 3:1-3), and those eyes have been trained to see blessing and gift in every moment, even the struggles.

Joy does not depend on your circumstances. #FruitOfTheSpirit

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Joy Comes From Him

So also you have sorrow now, but I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you. John 16:22

Joy which is everlasting comes only from the Lord. No one can take His joy from you!

Read that again, friend: no one and nothing can take the joy of the Lord from you. It is a gift to you from Him. I promise you the world will try. But you are His, and you have received His joy!

No one can take the joy of the Lord from you! #FruitOfTheSpirit

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Joy Is Strength

do not be grieved, for the joy of the LORD is your strength.” Nehemiah 8:10b

There is a power that comes with the joy that the Lord gives. It is a strength that allows His children to stand firm with confidence. Our hearts have seen and known Him, and the joy of a life lived with Him gives us resilience in the face of challenge.

The joy of the Lord gives strength to stand firm with confidence. #FruitOfTheSpirit

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Jesus Fills Us With Joy

Until now you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full. John 16:24

These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full. John 15:11

Jesus doesn’t promise a tiny bit of joy, no, He promises fullness of joy! Ask and receive! There is no way to keep that joy from spilling out of you and blessing all those around you. That is Jesus in you!

May you feel the fruit of joy in a powerful and new way today!

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Fruit of the Spirit

May 2, 2019 by Patti Brown Leave a Comment

Join us for a 9 part series on the fruit of the Spirit at DoNotDepart.com

Spring has sprung in my yard! The grass is green, the flowers are blooming, and the weeds are continuing their epic struggle to dominate the world. I spend every spare moment I can playing in the dirt.

 

I find gardening so rewarding! As I clip away dead branches and pull weeds, new life gets that extra surge and my yard grows even more beautiful.

My gardening life has not always been so lovely, though. I currently live in a house in a neighborhood. I have one little yard to tend, with landscaped beds and an in-ground sprinkler system.

But a year ago I was living on a farm, with 48 acres to worry about. The soil was less than optimal, and the sheer volume of insects was the stuff of nightmares. Not to mention scorching heat, drought, goats who break through fences and eat E-VE-RY-THING. Ugh!

I all but gave up on gardening. When you don’t see the fruit of your labor, you become disheartened. I had difficult conditions to work with, and my plants struggled.

You don’t get a good flower or veggie crop by painting flowers and vegetables on your plants! The only way to save the problem of lack of fruit is to improve the plant itself. The right amount of water and sun, good nutrients from the soil or supplements, wise pruning and regular cultivation of weeds… all of these are required to strengthen the integrity of the plant itself. Only then can it bear a healthy crop.

In the same way, the spiritual fruit you and I are able to bear is directly a result of Jesus’ work in us. When Jesus Christ lives in you, your transformation begins inside. Jesus is not in the business of whitewashing your outsides to look good! He changes you from the inside out. The fruit of the Spirit is the evidence of that work within.

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This month we are going to take a slow and detailed look at these two “spiritual fruit” verses from Galatians 5:

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. – Galatians 5:22-23

Sometimes in our hurry to be “good Christians” we focus on making fruit appear: “I am going to be more patient! I am determined to have more self-control!” If we could be more patient by sheer force of effort, we wouldn’t need Jesus, would we? The remarkable blessing of belonging to Him is that the closer we stick to Him, the more deeply we abide in Him, the more He makes these things true of us.

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Our Gracious God Hears – Days 29-31

April 10, 2019 by Patti Brown 1 Comment

Our Gracious God Hears - 40 Days With the Storyteller, Days 29-31

Our Gracious God Hears - 40 Days With the Storyteller, Days 29-31

Laborers in the Vineyard – Limitless Grace

Day 29 – Matt 20:1-16 

“”For the kingdom of heaven is like a master of a house who went out early in the morning to hire laborers for his vineyard. After agreeing with the laborers for a denarius a day, he sent them into his vineyard. And going out about the third hour he saw others standing idle in the marketplace, and to them he said, ‘You go into the vineyard too, and whatever is right I will give you.’ So they went. Going out again about the sixth hour and the ninth hour, he did the same. And about the eleventh hour he went out and found others standing. And he said to them, ‘Why do you stand here idle all day?’ They said to him, ‘Because no one has hired us.’ He said to them, ‘You go into the vineyard too.’ And when evening came, the owner of the vineyard said to his foreman, ‘Call the laborers and pay them their wages, beginning with the last, up to the first.’ And when those hired about the eleventh hour came, each of them received a denarius. Now when those hired first came, they thought they would receive more, but each of them also received a denarius. And on receiving it they grumbled at the master of the house, saying, ‘These last worked only one hour, and you have made them equal to us who have borne the burden of the day and the scorching heat.’ But he replied to one of them, ‘Friend, I am doing you no wrong. Did you not agree with me for a denarius? Take what belongs to you and go. I choose to give to this last worker as I give to you. Am I not allowed to do what I choose with what belongs to me? Or do you begrudge my generosity?’ So the last will be first, and the first last.”” – Matthew 20:1-16 ESV

It is human nature to want to be treated fairly, and a first reading of the parable of the laborers of the vineyard seems to tell the story of a great unfairness. Why should those who work one hour be paid as much as those who work twelve? Yet our spiritual reality is that if God treated us fairly NONE of us would go to heaven! I am so thankful He does not operate by human standards of “fair!”

“There is great proneness in us to think that we have too little, and others too much of the tokens of God’s favour; and that we do too much, and others too little in the work of God. But if God gives grace to others, it is kindness to them, and no injustice to us… God punishes none more than they deserve, and recompenses every service done for him; he therefore does no wrong to any, by showing extraordinary grace to some… Let us never envy or grudge, but rejoice and praise God for his mercy to others as well as to ourselves.” – Matthew Henry

FOCUS: God’s grace looks different for each person.

QUESTION: How has God treated you “unfairly” and given what you do not deserve? Think in very detailed terms about your daily life and journal about the grace God has given you.


The Persistent Widow – Perseverant Faith

Day 30 – Luke 18:1-8 

“And he told them a parable to the effect that they ought always to pray and not lose heart. He said, “In a certain city there was a judge who neither feared God nor respected man. And there was a widow in that city who kept coming to him and saying, ‘Give me justice against my adversary.’ For a while he refused, but afterward he said to himself, ‘Though I neither fear God nor respect man, yet because this widow keeps bothering me, I will give her justice, so that she will not beat me down by her continual coming.'” And the Lord said, “Hear what the unrighteous judge says. And will not God give justice to his elect, who cry to him day and night? Will he delay long over them? I tell you, he will give justice to them speedily. Nevertheless, when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on earth?”” Luke 18:1-8 ESV

Despite living thousand of miles from each other, my friend Sandy and I have been praying together weekly for almost a decade. I have filled journals with our prayer requests. I can look back and read requests that were repeated week after week, that have now been answered. I believe that some day the unanswered requests I wrote down this week will also be answered, I just don’t know when!

Because we are stuck in time here on earth, we see things in a linear fashion, and when answers seem slow by our timetable, we can fall into thinking that God is ignoring us. We have no way of seeing the big picture. But the parable of the persistent widow reminds us that God does see us, and He never stops listening. 

It can be hard to persist in prayer though, can’t it? I find it so comforting that Jesus understands our weakness, and he knows that we have a tendency to lose heart. This is why he starts out this passage with an encouragement!

Perseverance in prayer demonstrates our faith in our Heavenly Father, and trust in His goodness and sovereignty.

FOCUS: We can persist in prayer because God is trustworthy

QUESTION: What are you persisting in prayer for right now? Is there something you stopped praying for because you “lost heart”? Pick that prayer request up again this week and offer it to the Lord.


The Pharisee and The Tax Collector – Pride/Humility

Day 31 – Luke 18:9-14 

“He also told this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and treated others with contempt: “Two men went up into the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee, standing by himself, prayed thus: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week; I give tithes of all that I get.’ But the tax collector, standing far off, would not even lift up his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, a sinner!’ I tell you, this man went down to his house justified, rather than the other. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”” – Luke 18:9-14 ESV

The ways of the world tell us that those in power, and those most noticed, are clearly the most important. But God’s Kingdom operates with a reverse structure – the weakest and most humble are exalted!

Proverbs 11:2 says “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with the humble is wisdom.” It is wise to humble yourself before God, because His might is greater than all the accolades and power of this world.

And this mighty God cares about your humble prayer. He hears every word, and cares about your every need

“With this example of prayer favourably heard, there is surely no sin-burthened soul on earth who may not take courage in seeking God’s face. One great object of this parable, we may believe, was to suggest some such thoughts, to embolden sorrowful, heart-broken sinners simply to go to God, trusting in his great pitying love.” – The Pulpit Commentary

FOCUS:  God hears His children’s humble petitions.

QUESTION: Do you struggle with pride? Ask God to show you an area of pride in your life and invite Him to do a humbling work in you. 

Parables of the Kingdom {40 Days With the Storyteller}

March 20, 2019 by Patti Brown Leave a Comment

Days 11-14 of our Lenten reading plan "40 Days with the Storyteller" look at parables about God's Kingdom. From the nature of this kingdom, to its value, and even to the day of reckoning when some will be cast out, explore the parables Jesus told to help His people understand His kingdom.

Days 11-14 of our Lenten reading plan "40 Days with the Storyteller" look at parables about God's Kingdom. From the nature of this kingdom, to its value, and even to the day of reckoning when some will be cast out, explore the parables Jesus told to help His people understand His kingdom.

What is the Kingdom of Heaven?

As we continue with our Lenten reading plan, 40 Days With the Storyteller, you may have noticed that days 11-14 all refer to the Kingdom of Heaven. But what exactly does that mean?

John MacArthur writes:

“Although the precise phrase is not found there, the kingdom of heaven is basically an Old Testament concept. David declares that ‘the Lord is King forever and ever’ (Psalm 10:16), that His kingdom is everlasting, and that His dominion ‘endures throughout all generations’ (Psalm 145:13). Daniel speaks of ‘the God of heaven [who] will set up a kingdom which will never be destroyed’ (Daniel 2:44), a ‘kingdom [that] is an everlasting kingdom’ (Daniel 4:3). The God of heaven is the King of heaven, and the heavenly kingdom is God’s kingdom.”

The Kingdom of Heaven is not just the place we go when we die, it is the spiritual reign and dominion of God, now and for eternity. The Kingdom of Heaven is here on Earth in the hearts of His people.

Let’s take a look at some of the parables for this week that refer to this kingdom.

The Growing Seed

Day 11 – Mark 4:26-29

And he said, “The kingdom of God is as if a man should scatter seed on the ground. He sleeps and rises night and day, and the seed sprouts and grows; he knows not how. The earth produces by itself, first the blade, then the ear, then the full grain in the ear. But when the grain is ripe, at once he puts in the sickle, because the harvest has come.” – Mark 4:26-29

There is hidden, dormant life in a seed. God has created the conditions of the human heart, like the conditions of the earth, for the seed of His Kingdom to sprout and grow, and ultimately bear fruit.

While cultivating the ground can help plants to grow, we do not control the sky and the rain, or even the original conditions of the soil – only God does. By its very nature the earth has the nutrients the seed needs to grow, and while we in this day have corrupted the soil (much like we as sinners corrupt our hearts) there remains still the inherent purpose of creation – a place where good growth is possible. We may labor in the fields, but God through His Holy Spirt brings the harvest!

Praise God that He has prepared our hearts to receive Him!

FOCUS: God has prepared the conditions for growth
QUESTION: Think about an area in which God wants you to grow in in your life. In what ways has God already prepared you or your circumstances to support this growth?

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The Mustard Seed and the Leaven

Day 12 – Matthew 13:31-33

He put another parable before them, saying, “The kingdom of heaven is like a grain of mustard seed that a man took and sowed in his field. It is the smallest of all seeds, but when it has grown it is larger than all the garden plants and becomes a tree, so that the birds of the air come and make nests in its branches.”
He told them another parable. “The kingdom of heaven is like leaven that a woman took and hid in three measures of flour, till it was all leavened.” – Matthew 13:31-33

Do not despise small beginnings! Most Kingdom growth is one on one – one person loving and serving another, and planting the seeds of truth and hope. It is not glamorous, and it may take a long time to see an impact.

Yet these small beginnings can, as the mustard seed of Israel, grow into something mighty and strong, or as yeast (leaven), spread all throughout and affect every aspect of someone.

“The scope of the parable of the seed sown, is to show that the beginnings of the gospel would be small, but its latter end would greatly increase; in this way the work of grace in the heart, the kingdom of God within us, would be carried on.” – Matthew Henry

FOCUS: What may seem small and inconsequential has mighty power when it comes from God.
QUESTION: What is something small in your life that has great power? Have you ever seen a big impact from a small decision/action?

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Treasure and Judgement

Day 13 – Matthew 13: 44-50

“The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field, which a man found and covered up. Then in his joy he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field. “Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant in search of fine pearls, who, on finding one pearl of great value, went and sold all that he had and bought it. “Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a net that was thrown into the sea and gathered fish of every kind. When it was full, men drew it ashore and sat down and sorted the good into containers but threw away the bad. So it will be at the end of the age. The angels will come out and separate the evil from the righteous and throw them into the fiery furnace. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. – Matthew 13: 44-50

The parables of the treasure and pearl shift focus from the nature of the kingdom to its value. There is nothing of greater value than choosing God! Everything else is as dust compared to Him. The Israelites of Jesus’ day would have understood the buried treasure and the pearl as we understand a bank account – a place where you store your earthly gains.

“You may say that the treasure is the blessing that comes from Christianity, or the inward wealth of a submissive heart, or may use various modes of expression, but below them all lies this one great thought, that it is laid on my heart, dear brethren, to try and lay on yours now, that, when all is said and done, the only possession that makes us rich is–is what? God Himself. For that is the deepest meaning of the treasure.” – Alexander MacLaren

The parable of the net is a stern reminder that there will some day be an accounting. We must choose where our true treasure is, and invest in it!

FOCUS: Being part of God’s eternal kingdom is our greatest treasure.
QUESTION: How do you understand the treasure in today’s parables? Did anything especially grab your attention in today’s reading?

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New and Old Treasures

Day 14 – Matthew 13:51-52 

“Have you understood all these things?” They said to Him, “Yes.”  And Jesus said to them, “Therefore every scribe who has become a disciple of the kingdom of heaven is like a head of a household, who brings out of his treasure things new and old.” – Matthew 13:51-52 

Treasure is treasure – whether it was acquired twenty years ago or yesterday. God will continue to give you treasure in His Word every day of your life. He is so faithful to give us what we need, by the power of His Holy Spirit, in the moment we need it!

“A skillful, faithful minister of the gospel, is a scribe, well versed in the things of the gospel, and able to teach them. Christ compares him to a good householder, who brings forth fruits of last year’s growth and this year’s gathering, abundance and variety, to entertain his friends. Old experiences and new observations, all have their use. Our place is at Christ’s feet, and we must daily learn old lessons over again, and new ones also.” – Matthew Henry

FOCUS: God continues to give His children treasure throughout their lives.
QUESTION: What new treasure have you recently acquired through God’s Word?

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New Creations {Wrap-Up}

January 31, 2019 by Patti Brown 1 Comment

Hope in ourselves is often misplaced, but hope in Jesus never disappoints! Read all the posts in our series about men and women in the Bible whose lives were transformed by their faith in Jesus Christ.

 

Hope in ourselves is often misplaced, but hope in Jesus never disappoints! Read all the posts in our series about men and women in the Bible whose lives were transformed by their faith in Jesus Christ.
 

This month, in our series “New Creations”, we peeked into the lives of a few of the men and women in the Bible who were transformed when they accepted Jesus.

Beyond the well-known stories of Peter changing from a prideful, impulsive man to a humble, eloquent speaker, and Paul making a 180° life turn from violent anti-Christian crusader to Christian missionary, we find smaller, yet just as significant, caterpillar-to-butterfly stories that inspire.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” – 2 Corinthians 5:17

Stories like that of Jairus’ daughter, who was literally brought back from the dead to a new life. “When there seems no way possible, Jesus steps in and creates newness. He reaches out to us, His beloved children, and says to us, ‘Child, arise!'”

We can follow the example of Lois and Eunice, whom God used to nurture faith, disciple believers, and spur others on as they followed God’s call.

Nicodemus was humble enough to learn new lessons and accept fresh revelations, even though he was an established Pharisee leader, and most of his peers opposed Jesus.

Just like in Lydia, the transforming work of Jesus Christ in our lives grows in us open hearts, open ears, and open hands.

And Martha, who when she took her feelings about her birther and sister to Jesus, encountered the Truth of who Jesus is, and it changed her heart.

“And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.” – Philippians 1:6

As a follower of Christ, you don’t have to rely on your own strength to make changes in your life. God is faithful and loves you, and He will see His work to completion! You, beloved child of God, are a new creation!

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An Open Heart – Lydia Made New

January 27, 2019 by Patti Brown 1 Comment

In this post, part of our series on men and women of the New Testament who were made into new creations by their faith in Jesus Christ, we take a look at Lydia, the open-hearted woman Paul encountered on a missionary trip. Like Lydia, we are called to have open hearts, open ears, and open hands.

As we continue to look at men and women of the New Testament who were made into new creations by their faith in Jesus Christ, today we turn our gaze on Lydia, the open-hearted woman Paul encountered on a missionary trip.

In this post, part of our series on men and women of the New Testament who were made into new creations by their faith in Jesus Christ, we take a look at Lydia, the open-hearted woman Paul encountered on a missionary trip. Like Lydia, we are called to have open hearts, open ears, and open hands.

Who Was Lydia?

One who heard us was a woman named Lydia, from the city of Thyatira, a seller of purple goods, who was a worshiper of God. The Lord opened her heart to pay attention to what was said by Paul. (Acts 16:14)

Paul met Lydia in Philippi (Acts 16:12), located in what is now modern Greece. Based on Scriptural records, this appears to have been the first place Paul preached in Europe. Lydia was from Thyatira, a city in what is now Turkey. This city was known for its dyeing industry, famed especially for the purple goods it produced.

Lydia evidently learned the trade in her hometown and brought her expertise to Philippi, as we are told in Acts 16:14 that she was “a seller of purple goods.” We don’t learn much about Lydia; a husband is never mentioned, which is somewhat unusual. She clearly was a businesswoman, and probably a woman of means, as she had her own home (Acts 16:15)

“The expression σεβ. τὸν Θεόν shows that she was “a proselyte of the gate”; she could easily have gained her knowledge of the Jewish religion as she was πόλεως Θυατείρων where a Jewish colony had been planted, and there is reason to believe that the Jews were specially devoted to the dyeing industry for which Thyatira and the Lydian land in general were noted. Thus the inscriptions make it certain that there was a guild of dyers οἱ βαφεῖςat Thyatira, “  Expositors Greek Testament

Lydia is considered the first convert to Christianity in Europe. What can Lydia show us about what a new creation looks like?

An Open Heart

“And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.” – Ezekiel 36:26

God opened Lydia’s heart to receive the truth about Jesus: “The Lord opened her heart to pay attention to what was said by Paul” (Acts 16:14). Once God opens your heart to Him it is never the same!

A softened heart is more compassionate, more able to see others as God sees them. Those who truly abide in Christ can’t help but reach out toward the needy as He did.

Open hearts are more ready to “love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength” and “love your neighbor as yourself.” (Mark 12:30 and 31)

“Heart, in Scripture sense, signifies both the understanding and the will: thus, ‘With the heart man believeth unto righteousness’ (Romans 10:10). [Lydia’s] understanding was enlightened, her heart changed; she now loved what she before hated, and hated what before she loved. “ Mathew Poole

Open Ears

“So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.” Romans 10:17

When God makes us new, we become more attentive! We begin to hear His Word in a new way. We recognize His presence and His influence on our lives.

“Luke recognises the attentive interest, which Lydia with her heart unclosed directed to the word, as produced by the influence of the exalted Christ (ὁ Κύριος) working for the promotion of His kingdom” – Heinrich Meyer

Lydia didn’t just listen one time. The Greek word ἤκουεν is in the imperfect tense, indicating an ongoing hearing. Like Lydia, you and I have had our ears opened for an ongoing conversation with God that will last for eternity!

Open Hands

One of the first things we are told that Lydia does after being baptized is invite Paul and his companions to her home, not just to visit, but to stay. Later, after Paul and Silas were released from prison, they went back and saw Lydia again. The text indicated there may have been many at the house:

“So they went out of the prison and visited Lydia. And when they had seen the brothers, they encouraged them and departed.” – Acts 16:40

Lydia had open hands, and generously gave of what she had. Being transformed by Jesus helps us see that material goods are not only fleeting, but a gift from God, and meant to be shared.

Now the full number of those who believed were of one heart and soul, and no one said that any of the things that belonged to him was his own, but they had everything in common. – Acts 4:32

Scripture also tells us that Lydia was baptized along with her whole household (Acts 16:15). She did not keep the good news to herself, but generously shared with those whom she loved and was responsible for. The truth about Jesus Chris was the best gift she could give!

New Creation

Like Lydia, the transforming work of Jesus Christ in our lives grows in us open hearts, open ears, and open hands.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” – 2 Corinthians 5:17

Though life may seem the same around you and difficulties still arise, inside you have been made new, and through Christ you have the strength to joyfully live open hearted!

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New Creations – Beginning the New Year With True Hope

January 3, 2019 by Patti Brown 3 Comments

Hope in ourselves is often misplaced, but hope in Jesus never disappoints! In this series we dig into the lives of men and women in the Bible whose lives were transformed by their faith in Jesus Christ.

Hope in ourselves is often misplaced, but hope in Jesus never disappoints! In this series we dig into the lives of men and women in the Bible whose lives were transformed by their faith in Jesus Christ.

It happens like clockwork. Every December my inbox sees a sudden shift from LAST DAY! and BUY NOW! subject lines to GET ORGANIZED! and LOSE WEIGHT! As soon as December 26 hits, the cultural conversation shifts from “Buy lots of stuff!” to “Fix your life.”

It’s easy to get caught up in that isn’t it? We all want to feel well and have a productive life. I’ll admit, I have already watched almost every episode of Marie Kondo’s new Netflix series on decluttering, and my browser history shows that I am determined to get my jumbled pantry under control (who knew there were so many options for storing canned goods and baking supplies?)

There is nothing wrong with being good stewards of our bodies and our homes. The problems come when we leave Jesus out of the equation.

I think it’s safe to say that if you dig a little deeper on the surface things you want to get under control, you will find a spiritual root. Having weight issues? Perhaps you learned at a young age to turn to food for comfort. House out of control? Maybe you think if it can’t be perfect, why bother. There are many reasons why we develop habits that work against ourselves – your underlying reasons will be unique to you.

Life is hard. Painful events will happen to you, and you will need comfort. Perfection is unattainable, and we all know that homes are the most obvious example of entropy in the universe!

Pulling yourself up by your bootstraps is not going to transform your life. Yes, you can make significant changes, but if you are looking for transformation, only One can make that happen. And He absolutely will, if you let Him.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” – 2 Corinthians 5:17

The Bible is filled with examples of this. Peter, Paul, and Mary… yes a sixties folk band, but more significantly, three of the people in the Bible who were radically transformed by Jesus. Jesus turned a foot-in-his-mouth fisherman, an anti-Christian zealot, and a mentally ill woman into people whose life purpose was to walk in love and spread the Gospel.

This month, we will be taking a deeper look at the stories of men and women in the Bible who were made new creations when they accepted Jesus. We pray that you will find inspiration to lean even more on Him, and trust Him to transform you. Hope in ourselves is often misplaced, but hope in Jesus never disappoints!

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Welcoming 2019 with Trust and Hope

January 1, 2019 by Patti Brown Leave a Comment

From all of us to each of you… may this year be one of greater trust in and love for God, as you choose each day to walk in His ways!

 

Sing Together! Why You Should Sing at Christmas

December 21, 2018 by Patti Brown 1 Comment

Why sing at Christmas? Scripturally, socially, and even neurologically, singing just makes sense! Gather family and friends and sing! Includes a printable lyric sheet of beloved Christmas carols.

The house hummed with the sound of talking and laughter, while dishes clanked in the sink, and my little nephew and niece chased each other around my parents’ oversized dining room table. It was a typical loud Christmas evening.

Suddenly a sound broke through the din. Five loud chords on my brother’s guitar could mean only one thing—the “Pie Song” was starting, and that meant dessert was next! Created in a moment of food-induced musical inspiration at one of our family Christmas celebrations, this song has been the harbinger of sugary treats at holiday gatherings for years.

It takes just five chords (less than two seconds of sound!) and everything stops. Kids come running, we all sing along. But why? What is it about music that communicates so quickly and so powerfully?

Why sing at Christmas? Scripturally, socially, and even neurologically, singing just makes sense! Gather family and friends and sing! Includes a printable lyric sheet of beloved Christmas carols.

Created for Music

The neuroscience of music is fascinating. Just about every part of your brain is activated when you engage with music, which explains why it can have a profound impact on both a newborn and an Alzheimers patient.

God designed humans to be uniquely capable of enjoying music. According to a ScienceLine article quoting Tufts University psychologist Aniruddh Patel, only humans “can recognize melodies regardless of pitch and predict musical patterns… Not even birds can recognize a song at a different pitch, and apes can’t predict a melody. Human infants can do both at as early as six months old.”

Singing for the Lord

God designed us to enjoy music because He wants us to sing!

Make a joyful noise to the Lord, all the earth!
Serve the Lord with gladness!
Come into his presence with singing!
– Psalm 100:1-2

We sing to praise Him…

Sing to him, sing praises to him; tell of all his wondrous works! – Psalm 105:2

We sing to one another…

Addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart – Ephesians 5:19

We sing because Scriptural and theologically sound songs help root God’s Word deep in our hearts…

Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. – Colossians 3:16

As Believers, we have such a great hope that we can sing even in the most difficult circumstances! Paul and Silas sang while imprisoned. (Acts 16:25) Voice of the Martyrs tells of a pastor in a Communist country imprisoned for his belief in Christ. The man shared:

“When we were in prison we sang almost every day because Christ was alive in us. The Communists were very nice to us. They knew we liked to praise God with musical instruments, so they gave every Christian in prison a musical instrument. However, they did not give us violins or mandolins—these were too expensive. Instead, they put chains on our hands and feet. They chained us to add to our grief. Yet we discovered that chains are splendid musical instruments! When we clanged them together in rhythm, we could sing, ‘This is the day (clink, clank), this is the day (clink, clank), which the Lord has made (clink, clank), which the Lord has made (clink, clank).’”

We sing for joy, we sing in sorrow, we sing out of obedience. And we sing a lot at Christmas!

Singing at Christmas

Even in popular culture, Christmas carols are as much a harbinger of the season as twinkly lights. Everywhere you go songs about Jesus’ birth can be heard.

Like our family, you probably sing Christmas carols at church, and possibly at other events throughout the month of December. But have you ever considered making a time for singing Christmas carols together as part of your family celebration on Christmas Day?

Resources for Singing Carols Together

Our family enjoys singing together all year, but Christmas is extra special because we share it with extended family and friends. Some years on Christmas Day we have given performances for each other, other times sung together with sweet harmonies while reading the music, but probably the most frequent way we sing together is completely off the cuff – one person just starts singing and we all join in!

One of my favorite Christmas caroling memories was hiking on Christmas Day with my brother and husband, while eight months pregnant with our first child, singing Christmas harmonies in the snowy woods overlooking the Grand Canyon. Totally unplanned, and a precious memory!

Impromptu singing can be fun, but when you have many people at your Christmas gatherings, which we often do, they may not know all the words to the songs. Being intentional about singing together brings everyone into the joy of Christmas carols.

There are many resources for singing carols together. Here are two of the online resources that I like to refer to:

  • Hymnary.org is remarkable website, an online hymn database that includes sheet music, song variations, audio samples, author/composer bios, and more, from over 5000 hymnals. That adds up to more than a million hymns!
  • To help our church worship team learn parts (soprano/alto/tenor/bass) my husband created a “de-parter” which breaks down well known hymns into sections. Many are Christmas carols. You can listen to just your part, or listen to them all together. When I am learning a new alto part, I will turn down the volume on all but the alto section so that it is isolated. Once I feel comfortable with it, I will bring up the other parts and turn off alto so I can practice the way it will actually be when we are all together. This is an especially valuable tool for those who can’t sight read music. If the carol you need is not in the de-parter, email Stephen and he will add it if he can.

A Little Something for Your Christmas Celebration

Want to start a new tradition this Christmas that is simple and costs nothing? Sing together!

We have made it easy for you – just print copies of our simple lyric sheets with six beloved Christmas carols, so everyone can sing along at your Christmas celebration this year!


Songs included:

  • Silent Night (celebrating its 200th anniversary this year!)
  • O Little Town of Bethlehem
  • O Come All Ye Faithful
  • Angels We Have Heard on High
  • What Child is This
  • Joy to the World

Here’s to making a joyful noise this Christmas!

What is YOUR favorite Christmas carol?

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