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What are you trusting in? {Memory Classics}

August 12, 2013 by Lisa Burgess 4 Comments

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Think about what consumed you last week: what did you talk most about, obsess about getting (physical or emotional), spend time worrying over?

Might that reveal what you’re actually trusting in?

It’s one thing to say we trust in the Lord.
It’s another thing to do it.

One way to grow more trust is to acknowledge Him more often. Remember: He’s the one in ultimate control of your daily situations, your next breath, your very life.

And His being in control is a good thing.

This week we’re memorizing Proverbs 3:5-6:

  • to put more confidence in the Lord
  • to rely less on our own abilities
  • to recognize He is the one who clears a path for us.

Won’t you join us? It’s our next to last week of memorizing classics!

What do you worry most about?
What does that say about where you place your hope?
What is one way you can more consciously depend on the Lord this week?

Please tell us what you think.

5 Tips for Praying with Your Spouse (or Friend)

August 8, 2013 by Lisa Burgess 13 Comments

Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.
James 5:16

Talking with God is as important as talking with earthly companions. So connecting all together can be a double blessing—praying to God with those we love.

Yet we often neglect to pray aloud with our spouse or friends. Why?

Here are 5 common roadblocks to praying together and how to overcome them:

1. I don’t know how
I didn’t grow up with parents who prayed. I don’t know where to begin. What words should I say?

Start small; there’s no right or wrong
If you can talk to another person, you can pray with another person. God doesn’t expect a special vocabulary or seminary degree for conversations with Him.

Ask your spouse or friend to spend a few minutes thanking God with you. Each of you share a couple things and be done. Or take turns asking guidance over a  child or about a personal struggle.

Set boundaries to keep it manageable: limit your topics to three per session or agree to 30 days of praying for your marriage.

2. We can’t find time
My husband works late and I travel a lot. When we are both home, we’re busy putting the kids to bed. We can’t schedule a time to pray together.

Be flexible; think creatively
Is there a 5 minute window after dinner? Or before you get out of bed in the morning? Pray with a friend over the phone or in an online chat—God is fully connected everywhere.

Perhaps three times a week would work, or maybe only on Saturdays/Sundays. Don’t make it all-or-nothing. A few minutes is better than none, and only once a week still adds up to 52 times a year.

3. It’s too awkward
I stumble over my words when I pray aloud. I forget what I want to say. I’m afraid to be so vulnerable to someone else.

Write it down; do it afraid
If you wait until you’re comfortable, you may never start. Acknowledge the risk; admit in your prayer that you’re scared.

Try writing down what you want to pray about. Or read a prayer from a prayer book, Psalm 23, or the Lord’s Prayer. Keep your own words informal. Laugh out loud if something’s funny; cry if it’s sad. Don’t give up; the awkwardness will pass the more you do it.

4. My spouse won’t pray with me
My spouse and I aren’t on common spiritual ground. I don’t like having to ask for it. My friends are too busy or not interested.

Share silence together; make a new friend
Gently suggest prayer but never push it on your spouse. Perhaps try a few minutes of praying silently side by side. Or maybe your spouse would just hold your hand while you pray aloud. Agree to take turns initiating—he prays on odd-numbered days; you pray on even-numbered days.

If there’s absolutely no interest, seek out a same-sex friend to pray with. An older (or younger!) lady in your church might appreciate you visiting once a week to pray together. Or perhaps take a few minutes at the end of your small group meeting to pray together.

5. I just don’t want to
I’m too tired, angry, confused, depressed, doubting, or sick to pray with someone else. God hears me just as well when I pray alone. Why bother others?

Use it to heal; give community a chance
True, God listens as closely to one voice as one thousand. But He also delights in community (Father, Son, Spirit). Praying with others tightens our spiritual bonds with Him as well as with each other. You often learn more about a person through their prayers than any other way.

Use the reasons you don’t want to pray as the very things a friend can pray about for you. Grace and understanding often break through among a group of two or three gathered in His name.

Praying with others is a spiritual practice of relationship. It’s more than asking for our circumstances to change; it’s about being changed ourselves.

As any parent would, our Father longs for children who communicate. What a beautiful way to honor Him by gathering for conversations together.

If you pray with your spouse or a friend, what works for you?
If you don’t, what problems get in your way?
Who could you ask to pray with you for 21 days in August or for some other specified period?

Please share your thoughts below.

 

What Prayer is to the Soul {Corrie ten Boom}

August 6, 2013 by Patti Brown Leave a Comment

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Talk to yourself {Memory Classics}

August 5, 2013 by Lisa Burgess 3 Comments

What words do you hear yourself say most often?

Jesus said we can be defiled by what comes out of our mouth (Matthew 15:11). David prayed that the words from his mouth would please the Lord (Psalm 19:14). Psychological studies show we grow to believe what we say.

What might happen if we said the following words aloud to ourselves this week?

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
1 Corinthians 13:6-7

Would it remind us to . . .

  • Be happier when we see truth win over evil
  • Not give up on others
  • Trust more often
  • Look for the best
  • Keep going to the end?

Let’s find out. Print these verses and place them somewhere you’ll notice. Pray through them daily. It’s not a magic formula but it is an opportunity to see how God will work!

This is Week 10 of Hiding Classics in My Heart. We’re memorizing 1 Corinthians 13:6-7. Will you join us?

Which aspect of love in these verses do you need to practice most this week?

Please leave a comment below with your thoughts.

Cultivating Prayer

August 1, 2013 by Patti Brown 1 Comment

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Is prayer a significant part of your daily life? As believers, we are each called into intimate communication with God on an ongoing basis, indeed unceasingly!

This month we will dig a little into the soil of our faith and talk about cultivating prayer in our lives.

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God’s Word has plenty to say on the matter of prayer:

Who? All believers should pray.

“(Pray) at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints,” Ephesians 6:18

What? There are many kinds of prayers.

“First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people,” 1 Timothy 2:1

When? Pray constantly.

“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Where? Pray anywhere, but don’t make a show of it.

“But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.” Matthew 6:6

Why? We pray because Jesus set the example for us. Not to mention, we are commanded to!

“In these days he went out to the mountain to pray, and all night he continued in prayer to God.” Luke 6:12

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” Philippians 4:6

Cultivate prayer in your life

We hope you’ll join us as we pour water our hearts with God’s Word, and cultivate the habit of prayer in our lives. Check back this month for more posts on cultivating prayer.

Do you struggle with prayer? Is there anything related to prayer you have questions about or would like to know more about? Please leave us a comment.

Beautiful, Bountiful Harvest – “Fruit of the Spirit” Lesson 5

July 30, 2013 by Kathy Howard Leave a Comment

Fruit of the Spirit, Galatians 5

Fruit of the Spirit, Galatians 5This is the 5th – and last – lesson in a month-long series on “The Fruit of the Spirit.” You can also download today’s lesson as a PDF. You can access previous lessons here: First, Second, Third, and Fourth.

When we began this study, I mentioned my lemon tree. How it budded and bloomed. How the little lemons began to grow. Six weeks later the lemons aren’t ready to harvest. The fruit is still growing; the lemons still green. Fruit production takes time. But I will drink lemonade!

Like physical fruit needs time to grow, the fruit of the Spirit will not ripen in our lives overnight. We must work consistently to crucify the old nature. We must continually refuse to give in to our fleshly desires and yield our will to the Spirit’s. We can say “no” to our sinful nature, accept the “way out” God provides, and follow the Holy Spirit’s leading.

As we grow, the characteristics of Christ – fruit of the Spirit – will be manifested in our lives. As the Spirit transforms us more and more into the image of Christ, we will produce a beautiful, bountiful fruit harvest!

Plant: Knowing the Fruit

In Week Two, we discussed the meaning of “fruit.” The Greek word “karpos” refers to the natural product of the Holy Spirit, who lives inside every believer. The word is singular, signifying that “fruit” is a unified whole. The Expositor’s Bible Commentary suggests we think of the fruit as a “bunch of grapes instead of separate pieces of fruit.” As we grow in Christ-likeness we will produce all the characteristics of His nature.

Read Galatians 5:22-23. List the 9 characteristics of the Spirit’s fruit.

 

Let’s consider the meaning of each characteristic. Place the letter of a definition in the blank before the correct characteristic. (To double-check, the answer key is at the end of the lesson!)

___1. Love                       a. Enduring circumstances & other people, even when tried 

___2. Joy                    

                              b. Generosity springing from kindness; can include “sterner” good acts

___3. Peace                   c. Attitude expressing itself in loving ways & seeks others’ welfare

___4. Patience                  d. Trustworthiness; describes someone willing to die for Christ

___5. Kindness                  e. Strength to control sinful desires, to say “no” to the flesh    

___ 6. Goodness              

                               f.  “Happiness” that doesn’t depend on physical circumstances

___ 7. Faithfulness            g. Acting in a good and gentle way toward another

___8. Gentleness/Meekness 

                                           h. Tranquility; harmony with people & God; rest, contentment

___9. Self-Control            i. Linked to humility; not weakness; opposite of self-interest

Cultivate: Find out More

Let’s take a quick look at an example of each characteristic in action. Read the following Scripture passages. Make observations on the operation of these characteristics.

Galatians 5:13-14 (love):

John 16:22 (joy):

Romans 5:1 (peace):

2 Timothy 4:2 (patience):

Titus 3:4 (kindness):

Romans 15:14 (goodness):

2 Thessalonians 1:4 (faithfulness/faith):

2 Timothy 2:24-25 (gentleness/gentle):

2 Peter 1:5-6 (self-control):

Grow: Ready for a Harvest

We’ve talked facts and definitions. Now, let’s get personal. It’s time to do a fruit check. This is between each of us and God. Spend some quiet time with Him now and reflect on each characteristic of the fruit of the Spirit.

Ask God to show you the quality of the Spirit’s fruit in your life. Think about some recent circumstances. In the space below, jot down times you feel the Spirit’s character was manifested and times you allowed your natural, sinful character to take over.

 

Although we will battle our fleshly nature for the rest of our lives, we become more sensitive to the Spirit’s leading as we mature and learn to recognize His voice. As we end our study together, I pray God will encourage, strengthen, and grow you in the days ahead!

Let’s talk: What did you learn in this study that has encouraged or challenged you the most?

 

Fruit of the Spirit definition answer key. 1c, 2f, 3h, 4a, 5g, 6b, 7d, 8i, 9e

What is love? What is it not? {Memory Classics}

July 29, 2013 by Lisa Burgess 4 Comments

Love is this.

  • Patient
  • Kind

Love is not this.

  • Envious
  • Boastful
  • Proud
  • Rude
  • Self-seeking
  • Easily-angered
  • Keeper of wrongs

I’m not sure which list is harder.

But this I know: I can become neither list on my own. Without Jesus in me, it’s hopeless.

Once again, as with other verses we’re soaking in this summer (Ephesians 2:8-9, Romans 8:28, John 3:16, etc.), 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 reveal how desperately we depend on Christ’s empowering grace within us to live a transformed life.

We’re memorizing four verses from the famous “Love Chapter” (1 Corinthians 13) this week and next. As we walk these out, let’s encourage each other to look to Jesus–He is the perfect example of Love incarnate.

Jesus is patient, Jesus is kind. Jesus does not envy, He does not boast, He is not proud. . . .

Do you show love easier by doing good things or by not doing bad things?
Who in the flesh has most recently demonstrated Christ’s love to you?
Who most needs to see your love this week?

Please share your thoughts with us.

Resisting Temptation: Jesus’ Example

July 25, 2013 by Patti Brown Leave a Comment

Resisting Temptation: Jesus' Example

Resisting Temptation: Jesus' Example

Every day, every single day, I face the reality that I am a sinner.

Whether it is the temptation to eat yet another cookie, or the temptation to lash out in frustration at someone, the lures to act in a selfish way are as many as the minutes on the clock. And more.

“…faith is much easier to live in my quiet time than it is to walk out in the messiness of real life.” read more

How thankful I am that the Lord Jesus Himself set the example for how I should respond to temptation! Today I am meditating on this, and rereading this post on resisting temptation.

“He knew that the scriptures held all that He needed to respond to temptation.” read more

Do you use specific scriptures to battle temptation in your life?
Share them in the comments!

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The Walking Dead – “Fruit of the Spirit” Lesson 4

July 23, 2013 by Kathy Howard Leave a Comment

Fruit of the Spirit, Galatians 5

Fruit of the Spirit, Galatians 5This is the fourth lesson in a month-long series on “The Fruit of the Spirit. Download the PDF version of today’s lesson. See previous lessons: first, second, third.

I know what you’re thinking. Images of horror movies and the undead have probably crept into your mind. Just for fun, I Googled “The Walking Dead,” the title of today’s lesson. Did you know there’s a TV series with the same name? This drama on AMC tells the story of a post-apocalyptic world ravaged by a zombie epidemic.

Thankfully, our fourth lesson in the “Fruit of the Spirit” has nothing to do with zombies. But we do need to talk about death – our own, in fact.

Here’s the truth of it: We cannot produce the fruit of the Spirit. We cannot – with any consistency – live a life characterized by love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, or self-control.

Plant: We Can’t Do it!

You may be able to muster up a loving act now and again. I might work up enough will-power to control my fleshly desires in one instance today. But our lives will never abundantly exhibit the characteristics of Christ by our own strength and works. In today’s lesson we will explore how a life full of the Spirit’s fruit is possible.

Read Galatians 5:22-25. Are we told to produce the Fruit of the Spirit? (Circle one)  Yes   No

In lesson two, “What is Fruit?” we learned that “fruit” is the natural by-product of the Holy Spirit. Only the Spirit can produce these characteristics in our lives. As we allow Him to take control, His life will be manifested in ours.

Identify two things in the passage we should be doing.

 

Cultivate: Die to Self

Paul used the “active” voice in verse 24 when he wrote “have crucified the sinful nature.” This signifies an act that a believer has done and must continue to do to herself.

What do you think “crucifying our sinful nature” looks like in everyday life?

Remember, this is something we can do. We can choose to turn away from our sinful desires. Because of the presence of the Holy Spirit, we have the power to resist temptation and choose the way out God provides (1 Corinthians 10:13).

Before we take a closer look at the second thing we should be doing, read Romans 8:11-14. According to this passage, what “obligation” do we have as believers? Check all that apply.

___ To  follow our sinful nature and submit to its desires

___ To turn away from the deeds of our sinful nature

___ To submit to the leading of the Holy Spirit

 

According to Romans 8:11, why do we have this obligation?

 

Grow: Follow the Holy Spirit

Paul reinforces this reasoning in Galatians 5:25. Since the Holy Spirit has given new life to our sin-dead souls, we are obligated to follow His lead. This is the second thing we should be doing. Depending on your translation, you may read “keep in step with,” “follow the Spirit’s leading,” or “let us walk by.” Here’s how Strong’s Greek and Hebrew Dictionary defines the Greek word  stoicheo, that is translated in these various ways:

  1. To proceed in a row as the march of a soldier, go in order; metaph. to go on prosperously, to turn out well
  2. To walk; to direct one’s life, to live

Considering the definition of “walk,” what does it mean to “walk by” or “keep in step with” the Spirit?

 

Read Galatians 2:20 below from the New Living Translation:

My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.

How does this verse help us understand what it means to “walk by the Spirit.”

 

On my own, I would produce nothing but sinful works. Even my “good fruit” would be rotten. My flesh is too weak and sinful and to produce the characteristics of Christ. Kathy must “die.” I have to get out of the way and let the Holy Spirit live Christ’s life through me. It’s the appropriate response to the One who saved my life. And my eternal hope.

Let’s talk: What is the hardest thing for you about following the Spirit? What helps you submit to His leadership?

 

Too good to be true? Ephesians 2:8-9 {Memory Classics}

July 22, 2013 by Lisa Burgess 3 Comments

8  For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God,
9  not a result of works, so that no one may boast.
Ephesians 2:8-9 (ESV)

I’m sorry to say these verses didn’t mean much to me until years after I’d already been walking with Christ. Maybe that’s why they’re still hard for me to grasp. My salvation is nothing of my doing? Purely a gift? Really, God?

It’s almost too good to be true. But I know it IS true. I thank God for this lavish gift of salvation that we don’t deserve or have to earn.

What I couldn’t understand as a child, I’m appreciating immeasurably as an adult. That’s one reason I want these truths in my memory and not just on page 1,175 of my Bible.

This week we’re memorizing them together in our Hiding Classics in My Heart. We’d love for you to join us here and on Facebook.

Is there a scripture you had to grow into?
Is there one now that you can’t fully grasp but want to?
Do you already have Ephesians 2:8-9 memorized or would like to?

Please share your thoughts with us.

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