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“The Love Chapter” in Context

May 21, 2012 by Kathy Howard 8 Comments

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Could you find my car by looking at the photo? You might guess that it’s in a parking garage, but you would struggle to find it until you had some additional direction. You would need to know the city and the facility. It could be at a hospital, mall, or office building.

Biblical Context

You would never head off to find my car without those facts. Yet sometimes believers attempt to understand Scripture without adequate information. When we fail to take the original context into account we end up misunderstanding, misusing, and misapplying Scripture. As we start our study of First Corinthians 13, let’s dig into the context.

In a previous post, I talked about four areas of context that helps us understand a passage. (Read that post “Context is King.”) Let’s briefly consider each one for First Corinthians 13.

Literary Genre of the book

First Corinthians is an “occasional letter.” It was written to a specific people for a specific purpose. Therefore, we cannot completely and correctly understand the content without knowing to whom it was originally written and why. We cannot separate the application to our lives from the original intent.

Context of the book

The Apostle Paul wrote this letter to the believers in Corinth from Ephesus roughly 5 years after he first established the church in 50ad. We know from internal evidence (1 Corinthians 5:9) this was probably Paul’s second letter to the church. He addresses specific theological and practical problems in the church. Paul had received reports from one of the member’s house (“from Chloe’s household, 1:11) and possibly from a delegation sent by the church (16:17). He wrote to correct serious doctrinal errors, heal division, call them to turn away from moral sins, and to exhort them to proper community life.

Historical/Cultural Background

  • Corinth was a wealthy commercial center. Pagan temples filled the city, including one to Aphrodite with 1,000 cult prostitutes. Since the Greek mindset dominated Corinth, the believers would have distrusted authority, accepted immorality as the norm, and struggled with individualism, making it difficult to unconditionally love and unselfishly serve their fellow believers.
  • For background on Paul’s first visit to Corinth and the establishment of the church read Acts 18.
  • The recipients of Paul’s letter were mostly Gentiles (12:2) though the church also had a small Jewish minority.

Immediate literary Context

First Corinthians 13 cannot be properly understood outside the larger section of the letter of which it is a part. In chapters 12-14, Paul apparently answers a specific question about spiritual gifts (12:1). Arguing and jealousy over spiritual gifts prompted Paul to discuss how God distributes the gifts and why. Chapter 13, “The Love Chapter,” provides the framework for their use.

1 Corinthians 13 for us

Agape love is more important and eternal than all the spiritual gifts. In fact, love should both guide and motive the use of our spiritual gifts. Otherwise, we accomplish nothing more than a disruption. Without love, our spiritual gifts are worthless. Let’s choose the “most excellent way” and serve in the body of Christ with love. Let’s love our fellow Christians like Jesus loves us.


Now what does this kind of love look like?

What did you learn in your own searching this week?


Here I Raise my Ebenezer: Take a Leap of Faith and Find Him Faithful

May 17, 2012 by Heather 8 Comments

Reviewing my Ebenezer stories (yes there are LOTS!) one theme struck me. Whenever I took a leap of faith, God was faithful to provide above and beyond what I could ask or imagine.

“And those who know your name put their trust in you, for you, O Lord, have not forsaken those who seek you.” Psalm 9:10

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No job. No friends. No church.

We had just moved to San Francisco. My plan had been to attend graduate school for Speech-Language Pathology. Despite the 3.98 undergrad GPA, I was not accepted into the program. Moving to a new city… I had no friends. No job. No church home. My husband travelled. It was me & God making our way through the hills and valleys of downtown San Francisco.

One day I decided to volunteer at the hospital down the street (the LEAP!). During orientation I learned of opportunities to volunteer in the Speech-Language Pathology Department. Seriously!

On my first day volunteering I was offered a part-time job as an assistant. Then a call from the local university letting me know I could attend a full load of Speech-Language Pathology classes as an extension student. Amazing!

Instead of sitting in my apartment feeling sorry for myself I took a risk. I followed God’s “nudge” to pursue volunteering at a hospital…which I had never done before. He provided amazing opportunities that I could not have orchestrated on my own.

Too much. Over-committed. Running a race.

Then the other extreme…9 years after my San Francisco miracle I found myself on the Dallas mom “treadmill of crazy.” My third child was born when my oldest was still 3 years old. That fall my eldest son attended a preschool five mornings a week.

Unfortunately, getting all the kids in the car to get him to school everyday was exhausting. By Christmas time I was completely beat down. Someone asked me at a Christmas party how it was having 3 boys and I broke down in tears. At that same party another mom of 3 boys (whom I’m convinced God perfectly placed there), told me she felt the same way. She had boldly pulled her oldest son out of school.

What? You can do that? I felt so empowered! That night I began to do my research checking out other school options.  I wrote in my journal my ideal situation: my oldest two boys in a mother’s day out program 2 days a week. I sent some emails and waited.

“Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him, and he will act.” Psalm 37:5

The first day after Christmas break I called a local church preschool program I had emailed. The sweet lady who answered the phone immediately knew who I was…“Oh is this Heather! I was just emailing you back.” Amazing (that responsiveness doesn’t happen in Dallas).

She went on to say that they would have classes in the fall for all 3 of my boys. And if I was interested the older two boys could attend two days a week immediately. WHAT? Had she read my journal?

God was faithful once again. Even though I didn’t know how it would all work out. He took the unrest I felt in my current situation and replaced it with peace. He sent wise women to provide insight and experience. Once I took the step of faith, He was faithful. 

Another fun detail…this school is in high demand. The popularity requires parents to camp out over night hoping for the chance to register their children. What a nice treat for God to not only give me the desire of my heart, but present it on a silver platter! Not just any school, but a wonderful Christ-centered school.

If you are in a place where you feel no peace, pray for clarity on how to change the situation. Trust Him to provide an answer.

“You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.” Isaiah 26:3

Which season are you in? Lonely and Lost? Busy and overwhelmed? Take that leap of faith and find Him Faithful!

Here I Raise My Ebenezer: Share Your Story! {Link-Up}

May 16, 2012 by Patti Brown 3 Comments

We have been sharing stories of God’s faithfulness this month… in the big and little events of our lives… in joy and suffering.

I hope you’ve had a chance to read some of the amazing stories that have been weaving a tapestry of His goodness here at Do Not Depart.

  • Caroline wrote about Little Victories in a Big War that her family is facing with a medical issue.
  • Teri Lynne shared how she reminded herself that God is THE rock when her husband was in the ICU in Hitting Rock Bottom and Finding the Rock.
  • Kathy looks back on past acts of faithfulness and into the Word to give her courage for the future, and keeps her Ebenezer at the Ready.
  • Lisa wrote of her tiny daughter’s premature birth and death, and how even When God’s Timing Seems Off it isn’t.
  • I shared a little story about two young women who needed to meet, and did so far from home because God is in the Details.
  • Julie wrote the incredible story of God’s provision of prayer warriors for her newborn daughter before she even knew she needed them in He Sees Me.

And now, friend, it is your turn!

Won’t you share a story of how God has moved in your life? Raise your Ebenezer, your stone of help, and commend His works to us!



Here I Raise My Ebenezer: He sees me

May 15, 2012 by Julie 4 Comments

Some events are festivals of God’s provisions, providing enough Ebenezer stones to build a monument. For women who experience the carrying and bearing a life, birth is often such an event. From the monument of our first child’s coming that looms large in our family story, I want to draw out one small stone. It’s in the choosing, studying, and holding of a single stone that we remember the divine nature of the details.

No one will ever accuse me of being “medically minded;” I read little of What to Expect When You’re Expecting. After all, women have done this for millenia; what could be new? When early morning pangs were followed by a reddish gush, we nervously called the doctor, I took a quick shower, and we headed into zero degree darkness to the hospital. Empty, silent roads calmed our excitement and nagging questions. Waddling past the curb, a nurse met us at the doors and invited me to plop into a wheelchair.

Automatic doors ushered us in to the room where only one couple waited. Friends from church! What emergency brought them there in the middle of the night? Without insurance, their little one had an ear infection, forcing them to the ER. They were just leaving as we entered. Since she was a nurse and knew my due date, Cheryl peppered us with quick questions. Our naive, inexperienced answers landed heavily on her medical ears; she hid her fears as she squeezed my hand and told me they would be praying and waiting for news. We had no idea that we were in need of extraordinary prayers.

As they elevator doors closed, the couple hurried to a phone to call our sleeping pastor. Everything moved so fast … the wheelchair, the doctor, the cold iodine over my stomach, and Jeff’s face fading from my sight amidst shouts and orders. There had been no time to call anyone or to let our family members hours away know that the first grandchild was struggling for life.

God put the right person .. at the right place … at the right time … to know our need before we even knew.

El Roi, the God who sees, was not caught by surprise. He had not missed the events. We were caught unprepared by the urgency, our loneliness, and our ignorance. But He was already ahead of us, fulfilling His promise through His people.

“When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you” (Isaiah 43:2).

He did not leave us or forsake us in our darkest valley; He sent His people on ahead in the guise of a child’s ear infection, so that an informed woman of faith was at the doors to greet us and know our need before we knew it. God provided for an army of prayer warriors to be engaged when we had no knowledge or time to enlist one for ourselves.

It’s a single stone in a monument of God’s great work in the life of our daughter, and it deserves to be lifted out, studied, and held with gratitude. I could show the other stones in this monument we remember when we say “JoHanna,” but I don’t want any others to overshadow this single stone of remembering God’s tender provision.

God put the right person at the right place at the right time to know our need before we even knew it.

Dear Lord,

Thank you for seeing what’s before us and for providing what we needed, even when we didn’t know. I’m so grateful for how YOU enlisted the prayers of Your people on our behalf. We are truly never alone, never out of Your sight, never passing through the waters without You there. Here I raise this Ebenezer to remember Your tender lovingkindness.

The Love Like Him study starts TODAY!

May 14, 2012 by Katie Orr 3 Comments

It’s not too late to join in. We are looking at the context of 1 Corinthians 13 this week. Today is the LAST DAY to get the Love Like Him and the Focused15 study for free! Head over to Inspired to Action for more information about each Bible study. 

While you’re there, check out the HelloMornings challenge and join in if you can. Registration ends today! You do not have to be a part of the HelloMornings challenge to join the study, and all are welcome to download a copy and start with us today!

We’ll be here every Monday to discuss all we’ve learned the week before.

Great Online Bible Study Sites

Understanding the context of a passage of Scripture is very important. Many good study Bibles (the The ESV Study Bible is my favorite!) have a great introduction to each book, which gives us helpful information to understand the “why” behind the book’s writing.

Now, if you don’t have a study Bible, or if you still want to do some digging, there are loads of great sites online that can help you in your search!

  • eBible.com and biblegateway.com are two great sites in which you can easily switch translations, for day 1. (eBible also has an AWESOME iPad app.)
  • Bible.org typically has great introductions and outlines available for each book.
  • I will often just do a Google search for what I am looking for, in this case “context of 1 Corinthians”, then I will browse several of the results from familiar sites.

There are many other great Bible study sites to browse through, if you are looking for more! You may even find something to use on your iPhone or Android devices.

We are blessed to live in this age of technology, with an incredible amount of information literally at our fingertips!

We’re praying for you this summer, that God would continue to do a great work in each of us as we dive into His word and learn to love like Him!

See you next Monday, when we will chat about what we learned this week about the context of 1 Corinthians 13. If you are on Twitter, you can join in the conversation all week, using the hashtag #LoveLikeHim. Or, come and share what you are learning on the Do Not Depart Facebook page!

Have you done this type of study before? Is this intimidating to you? Exciting? What are you looking forward to in this Love Like Him study? Let us know in the comments!

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Love Like Him Study is ready!

May 12, 2012 by Katie Orr Leave a Comment

Our Summer Bible study series starts next week!

 

If you haven’t grabbed your copy, now’s the time to do it! The Love Like Him study is now available as a free PDF download through Monday the 14th.

The free offer has expired, but you can still download the Love Like Him study for $2.99 at the Savoring Living Water website.

You can download the Love Like Him Study by clicking here.

There is also an “intermediate” option for those wanting to dig a bit deeper, the Focused15 1 Corinthians 13 study, which you can download for free by clicking here. This PDF will also be available for free through Monday the 14th.

This free offer has expired, but you can download the Focused15: 1 Corinthians 13 Bible study for $3.99 at the Focused15 website.

Which study do I choose?

  • Love Like Him is more of a “beginners” study.
  • Focused15 is an “intermediate” approach to studying your Bible.
  • Each of the studies “match” in that everyone will study the same passages each week, just at a different levels.

Everyone will need a copy of the Love Like Him study. Focused15 will take you through the first 4 weeks of the summer challenge and then you will finish up with the rest of the group with weeks 5-8 of the Love Like Him study.

Both of these studies are also available on Kindle, and will be on sale for 99 cents through next Tuesday.

Get Love Like Him for Kindle. Get Focused 15 for Kindle.

The studies start on Monday, May 14th, see you then!

 

Here I Raise My Ebenezer: God Is in the Details

May 11, 2012 by Patti Brown 5 Comments

Back in February, fellow DND author Heather MacFadyen and I had the opportunity to visit at the MomHeart conference in Irving. It was during a conversation in which I shared the story you are about to read that we hit on the “Here I Raise My Ebenezer” idea.

We were both so encouraged by this story, and by other stories of God’s work in regular people’s lives, that we wanted to hear more! More stories! We wondered… what if we all shared our Ebenezer stories? Wouldn’t we all be so encouraged?

But first let me share with you the story that inspired us…

It was the first morning of the MomHeart conference and I did not want to be late. I had signed up for the morning tea, and even though my roommates weren’t quite ready yet I said, “I’ll just head down and grab us a spot.”

I rushed to the tea room, certain I was late as usual, and was surprised to see few women there. It soon became clear that I had gotten the time wrong and was 30 minutes early. Me? Early?

I sat down at an empty table decorated with chocolates and teapots and started fiddling with my phone while I waited for my roommates.

“Excuse me? Are you here alone too?”

I looked up to see a smiling young woman taking a seat across the table. Kimberly introduced herself, and we moved our chairs closer to get acquainted while we waited.

A young mom with a soon-to-be kindergartener and two younger children, Kimberly was eager to homeschool but had no support. She had come to the MomHeart conference hoping to find encouragement, and to ask Sally some questions.

When the tea was over, I invited Kimberly to join our group for lunch, and got to know her a little better. Not only was she making a big decision about homeschooling, she was also about to pack up her family and move to a new town. She was a woman who was heading into some big transitions.

After lunch we went to our rooms and agreed to meet up again to sit together during the conference. When I arrived at the conference room before the first session, I discovered that many of the tables had been reserved. I finally found a table that would fit our group. There were several chairs reserved, but only one woman sitting there.

I introduced myself and asked if we could join her group. “Actually I’m here alone,” she smiled. Just then, Kimberly walked up.

Introductions were made all around, and when our new friend Mica told us the town she was from, Kimberly smiled wide and said, “I’m going to move there in two weeks!”

In a few short moments (as goosebumps prickled my arms), these two young women, who were several hours from home, discovered that not only were they about to live in the same town, but that both had children the same age, were homeschooling, and had unknowingly been at the same church one Sunday. On top of it all, Kimberly’s husband was working in the same place as Mica’s brother!

It was awesome.

I just stood there smiling like a fool. God at work. At work in every detail (including me being early twice – miraculous!), and meeting needs in such a specific way.

Coincidence? No way.

It was totally an Ebenezer moment.

 

 

And here is where “more stories” come in. We want to hear about God’s work in your life! From dramatic conversion stories to “little coincidences” that aren’t… we want to hear it. Raise your Ebenezer and encourage the world!

We will host a link-up here at Do Not Depart that goes live on Wednesday May 16, so start writing!

 

Postscript: I’ve kept in touch with Kimberly and Mica since February. Kimberly and her family moved to Mica’s town two weeks after the conference. After meeting Kimberly’s husband, Mica realized that she had met him once before, when visiting her brother at work. And just this week Kimberly wrote to tell me that both families have been attending the same church for the past month and a half, and are almost finished going through the book “Mission of Motherhood” together.  As Kimberly said, “The story just gets better and better!”

Here I Raise My Ebenezer: When God’s Timing Seems Off

May 10, 2012 by Lisa Burgess 21 Comments

Sharing the faithfulness of God

Time runs out

She came too early. And left too soon. And where was God?

A difficult pregnancy left me sleepless and aching and worried. I wanted my baby girl to stay inside me as long as she could because she was safe there. But time would soon run out.

Sooner than I knew. I went into premature labor with Kali at 32 weeks. Outside of my body, she only lived 1 hour and 17 minutes.

Even though I knew she lived on, I wondered how I would. All I had of her was a clipping of her soft black hair, a copy of her handprints and footprints, and a few pictures that a nurse had taken after she died.

Pictures of a face that my memory would fade into the past.
Pictures of a body that would never see the future.

God says now

I received the pictures a few days after her death. I was afraid to look. Her body had retained so much fluid during the pregnancy that I knew it would be distorted. But who wouldn’t find her own baby beautiful, regardless of the disfigurements?

So I looked. And I saw beauty. But I was still afraid to share her picture with others. What would they think? Would they be repulsed? My mother instinct said protect her, don’t share. Lord, help me.

A week went by. And another. And another. The time still wasn’t right. But with December 25th around the corner, God pointed at the calendar. It was time. Give the gift of trust. Have faith that family would love Kali regardless of how she looked.

So on Christmas Eve, packaged with tears, I nestled a picture of Kali in a Christmas card for each of my siblings, parents, and in-laws. It was an act of faith, a gift of love, a mercy of God’s timing.

I watched as they opened. Everyone was grateful. Including this mom.

Perfect timing

God had shown me He’d walk with me one step at a time, with just the right stride. Never too slow (even when I lunge forward to speed Him up), and never too fast (even when I fight to hold Him back).

His pace is perfect. I can trust Him not only with the situation itself, but also with the timing around it.

Nineteen years later, I can still walk into my mother-in-law’s bedroom and see a picture of Kali on her nightstand. I can pull out a card my mom had given me saying she often sat and looked at Kali’s picture. I now display Kali’s picture on my living room wall, eager to share her story with anybody curious enough to ask.

And when I begin to doubt God’s timing of help in a new circumstance, I can look at Kali’s face and remember how the Lord always has, and always will, bring all things together at just the right time.

May you also trust His mercy to encircle you behind and ahead, and trust His grace to show up exactly when you need it.

Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace,
that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
Hebrews 4:16

Do you struggle with God’s timing, too? Do you wish he’d speed up or slow down? Leave a comment or prayer request and we’ll talk to Him about it together.

If you know of a family losing a little one, gently point them toward Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep, a ministry of professional photographers who donate their time to preserve precious memories.Sharing the faithfulness of God

Ebenezer at the Ready

May 8, 2012 by Kathy Howard 7 Comments

A long line of Ebenezer stones stands behind me. I know because I placed them there. With thanksgiving for God’s unfailing love and mighty deeds in past days, I raised each stone as a memorial to God’s faithfulness.

For comfort in loss. For encouragement in disappointment. For friends’ salvation. For divine protection. Each act deserving of a rock of remembrance.

Trials of Life

But today, grief clouds my eyes with tears and the stones blur. God’s past mercies dim with the intensity of present trials. The weight of new worry distracts me from the truth I know.

Will God move in my present like He did in my past? Does He see? Does He care?

Sometimes my emotions take me hostage and I question God. But then He gently reminds me of His promises:

  • Where are You?  “I will never leave you or forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5).
  • Are You able? “I can do immeasurably more than you can ask or imagine” (Ephesians 3:20).
  • Do You love me? “I love you so much I died for you” (1 John 4:7-12).
  • Do You see? “I know your every need. Look to Me and do not worry.” (Matthew 6:25-34).
  • Don’t You care? “With compassion, I will comfort you in all your troubles” (2 Corinthians 1:3-4).
  • How can I go on? “I will ease your weariness and renew your strength” (Isaiah 40:27-31).

God is Faithful

So once again, I will choose to place my hope in the God of my salvation. I will cling to truth in the midst of questions. I will wait on Him to act in my present circumstances. And I will have an Ebenezer stone at the ready.

 

Hitting Rock Bottom and Finding THE Rock

May 3, 2012 by Teri Lynne Underwood 7 Comments

As the wife of a worship pastor, I’ve heard the explanation of  “Here I raise mine Ebenezer” more than a few times.  But there are moments when all we’ve heard transforms into all we know.

In 2007, my husband spent ten days in ICU.  Seven of those days he was on life support.  I needed a stone of help like never before in my life.   You see, for me, my husband has always been the rock, the steady one, the person who helps me.  In those moments when the only sounds were the rhythm of the ventilator and the melody of beeping from the symphony of machines keeping him alive, I hit the bottom, rock bottom, so to speak.

I was drained.  Empty.  Helpless.

These are the words God spoke to me through His living Word:

For God alone, O my soul, wait in silence, for my hope is from him. He only is my rock and my salvation, my fortress; I shall not be shaken. On God rests my salvation and my glory; my mighty rock, my refuge is God. Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out your heart before him; God is a refuge for us. Selah Psalm 62:5-8, emphasis added

He reminded me, gently and tenderly, as He is wont to do that He ONLY is my rock, my mighty rock.   

I sat there, alone, yet not alone.  Surrounded by the heavy presence of the Most High God who beckoned me softly to trust Him.  Even now, even with this.

Tears streaming down my face, blurring the words on the pages of my Bible, I cried out like the man who longed for healing for his child, “I believe, help my unbelief.”   And this God, this Rock, this Refuge, He met me where I was.  He accepted my fears, my doubts, even my anger and my hurt.

There in an ICU room in a hospital in south Georgia, I laid down me and I raised my Ebenezer.  I chose to walk in faith that the road ahead would not leave me alone, for He would be with me.  I chose to trust in Him.  And He has been my refuge.

My husband has on his desk at the church a set of prayer rocks with various words for prompting prayers.  A few years ago my daughter made sets of prayer rocks for her great-grandmother and her great-aunt.  I have a little rock myself.  A piece of gravel from the driveway of our home in south Georgia.  I picked it up one morning after Scott was home from the hospital and doing much better.  Because I wanted something to remind me … not a prompt to pray for my husband but an Ebenezer, a rock of help, to remind me of the God who is my Rock.

How has Scripture been an Ebenezer in your life?  Are there passages that refocus you, remind you of the faithfulness of God in your life?  Would you share them with us in the comments today?

 

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