More Themes in Proverbs {Proverbs 27-29}

January 29, 2018 by Patti Brown Leave a Comment

Many themes emerge in the book of Proverbs. As we have discussed, this book of the Bible is a collection of sayings which has not been assembled in a discernible order – topics such as family relationships, wisdom, work ethic, leadership, and so much more are scattered amongst each of the chapters.

We have now read through Proverbs 29 together (just two more chapters to go!) Here are a few more themes that show up in Proverbs:

Physical Senses

This theme is more about style than content. While God is concerned with our hearts and our actions, He appeals to us through some of the Proverbs by means of our senses. We can not escape that we are physical beings, and He wouldn’t have us do that anyway, for we are fearfully and wonderfully made by Him (Psalm 139:14)!

Taste: “One who is full loathes honey, but to one who is hungry everything bitter is sweet.” Proverbs 27:7
Smell: “Oil and perfume make the heart glad, and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel.” Proverbs 27:9
Hearing: “Whoever blesses his neighbor with a loud voice, rising early in the morning, will be counted as cursing.” Proverbs 27:14
Sight: “As in water face reflects face, so the heart of man reflects the man.” Proverbs 27:19

We honor God with all that we are – heart, soul, mind, and body!

Stewardship, Demonstrated Through Farming

After moving to rural Texas to homestead, references in Scripture to the pastoral life took on new significance – I could understand them from my own experience. The Old Testament in particular is filled with agricultural references and Proverbs is no exception. The most dominant theme of these farming verses is good stewardship – the wise management of resources.

“Know well the condition of your flocks, and give attention to your herds, for riches do not last forever; and does a crown endure to all generations?” Proverbs 27: 23-24

“When the grass is gone and the new growth appears and the vegetation of the mountains is gathered, the lambs will provide your clothing, and the goats the price of a field. There will be enough goats’ milk for your food, for the food of your household and maintenance for your girls.” Proverbs 27:25-27

“Whoever works his land will have plenty of bread, but he who follows worthless pursuits will have plenty of poverty.” Proverbs 28:19

Diligence is key here. If you don’t constantly pay attention to the state of the things for which you are responsible, you may find yourself with little to show. The harvest will not only provide for you, but also for those for whom you are responsible. We can apply this concept to more than just the physical – spiritual diligence will reap rewards for you and your loved ones!

Compassion for the Poor

Proverbs views compassionate care toward the poor as a positive trait, one that may even bring a harvest for those who give.

“Whoever gives to the poor will not want, but he who hides his eyes will get many a curse.” Proverbs 28:27

“A righteous man knows the rights of the poor; a wicked man does not understand such knowledge.” Proverbs 29:7

Not only are we called to be generous to the poor with our resources, but also with our time, and care about their rights. This compassion is found throughout the Old and New Testament:

In Deuteronomy God commands, “For there will never cease to be poor in the land. Therefore I command you, ‘You shall open wide your hand to your brother, to the needy and to the poor, in your land.’” (Deuteronomy 15:11)

And Jesus said “But when you give a feast, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed, because they cannot repay you. For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the just.” (Luke 14:13-14)

Obeying God’s command to love includes compassion for the poor!

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Proverbs to Memorize

January 27, 2018 by Patti Brown Leave a Comment

Have you been reading through the book of Proverbs with us? In addition to being chock full of wisdom and practical advice for daily living, these Word nuggets are ideal for memorization for kids and grown ups alike.

There are many easy to understand verses in Proverbs, and plenty to choose from for memorizing. Children learn quickly, and can easily tuck these verses in their hearts.

We have put together a list of verses from Proverbs for children to memorize. You can also use the list for your own memorization plan! These are all simple or well known verses, covering a variety of topics. Print them out and tape them in a place they can be seen every day for review.

Spend time in discussion with your kids about the meaning of each verse you memorize, and look for real life examples of the truths you are learning to point out throughout the day.

For ideas on helping children memorize Bible verses, check out our Top 10 Scripture Memorization Tips for Kids.

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The Source of True Wisdom: Proverbs 24-26

January 26, 2018 by Alyssa Howard 1 Comment

Have you ever said or done something you knew would come back to haunt you? We all make mistakes, and we all wished we had the wisdom to make the right choice in every circumstance. But true wisdom comes from God alone. Because when push comes to shove, not everything in life is black or white. Sometimes we have to make decisions that don’t have a clear answer. It’s in these instances where we need God’s true wisdom to guide our lives.

In today’s post, we will be examining chapters 24-26 of Proverbs. Much like the rest of the book, they contain verses and sayings that are practical in nature. Some involve issues of integrity while others deal with work ethic. As I read these chapters, I can’t help but feel a bit overwhelmed. Each verse makes sense. I find myself saying, “Yes, that’s so true!” But putting every single verse to practice… that’s a daunting task, to say the least. How does one live wisely in every area of life in every circumstance? And what about the grey areas where there isn’t a clear right or wrong answer?

Like a lame man’s legs, which hang useless, is a proverb in the mouth of fools. – Proverbs 26:7 (ESV)

This verse from chapter 26 says it all. Knowing truth isn’t enough. I can memorize every verse in the book of Proverbs, apply them to my life, and still be a foolish person. Have you noticed yet that motives play a vital role in living wisely? A pure heart makes all the difference. I can be “wise” by the world’s standards, but the wisdom of this world is no match for God’s wisdom. And the only way to live in God’s wisdom to live by the Spirit of God.

My son, eat honey, for it is good, and the drippings of the honeycomb are sweet to your taste. Know that wisdom is such to your soul; if you find it, there will be a future, and your hope will not be cut off. – Proverbs 24:13-14 (ESV)

True wisdom from God gives us a future and a hope that can’t be taken away.

So how do we become truly wise? 1 Kings 3:1-15 tells the story of Solomon gaining His wisdom. God came to him in a dream and asked him what he would like to receive. Instead of wealth and riches or a long life, Solomon asked God for wisdom. We are given the same opportunity today.

If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. – James 1:5 (ESV)

So as I read through the book of Proverbs and find myself overwhelmed by all of the advice and guidance, I must remember that this wisdom didn’t come from years of experience or training. Solomon was given his wisdom by God. It wasn’t forced, but rather it was natural.

In the same way, we can ask God for wisdom, and He will be faithful to give it to us.

But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere. And a harvest of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace. – James 3:17-18 (ESV)

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Four Life Lessons for Kids of All Ages: Proverbs 20-23

January 23, 2018 by Lisa Burgess 24 Comments

Solomon wrote the book of Proverbs so his son could hear good teachings. But it’s not just for Solomon’s kids.

Like most wise sayings, the sayings in Proverbs are as applicable for 2018 as they were for 1000 BC. They apply to our children as much as they did for Solomon’s.

And this wisdom is not just for kids. It is for God’s children of all ages, including us.

As we dive into Proverbs 20-23 this week, pick out a few themes that resonate with you. Here are four themes I’ve chosen. They weave in and out of the whole book, but in particular these four chapters.

1. Follow good advice

We often tell our children, “Don’t just follow your peer’s advice; listen to those who are older and wiser!” So it should be with us, too.

“Be sure you have sound advice before making plans or starting a war.”
Proverbs 20:18 (CEV)

We also saw this in Proverbs 15:22, “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed.”

Are you making a decision? Forming plans? Weighing options? Don’t just use your own judgment. Follow Solomon’s advice and seek out many trusted advisers.

2. Avoid faulty shortcuts

A parent can usually tell when their child has taken a shortcut to finish a job: the dishes aren’t really clean, the bed isn’t completely made, the elbows are still dirty.

As adults, we’re also prone to taking shortcuts. And while some shortcuts are healthy and wholesome, others can lead us into shortened blessings as well.

We hear advice several times in Proverbs 21 to be diligent and patient, not lazy and hasty.

“If you plan and work hard, you will have plenty; if you get in a hurry, you will end up poor.”
Proverbs 21:5 (CEV)

Even though it takes longer and might be harder, do the right thing the right way. It will be worth it in the long run.

3. Help the poor

Proud is the parent who sees their child share with a friend. We want our kids to be generous with what they have. But are we setting the example for them?

If there’s a message that God stresses over and over in both the Old Testament and the New, it is to love other people. Give to the poor. Take care of the needy.

Here is it in Proverbs 22.

“Generous hands are blessed hands because they give bread to the poor.”
Proverbs 22:9 (MSG)

Solomon also reminds us in chapter 22 that the Lord is the maker of both the rich and poor person (v 2). He says that oppressing the poor to increase our own wealth leads to poverty (v 16) and that exploiting the poor will lead to our own plunder (v 23).

Who do we see that are poor (it doesn’t have to be financially) and how are we being generous with our blessings?

4. Know your limits

“Don’t bite off more than you can chew” is a modern-day proverb we may have heard as kids. And that we say to ourselves even as adults. We all have limits and those boundaries need to be respected.

Solomon tells us in Proverbs 23:

“Don’t wear yourself out trying to get rich; restrain yourself!”
Proverbs 23:4 (MSG)

Our desire for more, more, more can lead to disaster, both monetarily, physically, and spiritually. Living within proper boundaries isn’t always easy. We’re naturally drawn to desires of the flesh, desires of the eyes, and pride in possessions (1 John 2:16).

But these things of the world will all pass away. Whoever does the will of God lives forever (1 John 2:17).

By having the wisdom to use restraint with our desires, we can live a more abundant life both now and later.

Perhaps we didn’t really learn everything we need to know in kindergarten, but we probably learned more than enough to lead a godly life.

The key is to live it out with God’s help. The next time we are tempted to give advice to youngsters, let’s follow it first ourselves.

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Wisdom for Relationships – Proverbs 17-19

January 19, 2018 by Jaime Hilton 1 Comment

Earlier this month, as we were beginning our journey through Proverbs, my father-in-law’s health deteriorated rapidly until at last he passed away. We knew this day was coming yet somehow it took us completely by surprise. The kids and I quickly hopped a plane to Texas where my husband was already busy helping his mother and siblings make all the necessary arrangements. For the next week we gathered with family and friends to celebrate the life of our father/grandfather. Meals were delivered. The church rallied to provide whatever we needed, including things no one was thinking about like extra toilet paper and paper towels!

Grief, joy, reunion, and close quarters had everyone on edge. Battles were fought or swept under the rug, depending on the moment. Every conceivable relationship came into play as we prayed, cried, and asked for or accepted help. Perhaps this experience, still fresh in my heart as I write this, caused me to pay special attention to all the wisdom available to us as we navigate the sometimes tumultuous road of relationships that make up our lives.

Relating to Society

When it comes to the community, whether it’s your neighbor, the grocer, or a stranger on the street, Solomon recommends integrity.

He who justifies the wicked and he who condemns the righteous are both like an abomination to the Lord.

Proverbs 17:15

It is not good to be partial to the wicked or to deprive the righteous of justice.

Proverbs 18:5

When it comes to friends, we are cautioned to see beyond the superficial motives,

Wealth brings many new friends, but a poor man is deserted by his friend. Proverbs 19:4

encouraged to seek out that true friendship,

A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. Proverbs 18:24

and of course, there’s that call to integrity again!

Whoever covers an offense seeks love, but he who repeats a matter separates close friends. Proverbs 17:9

Relating to Family

Solomon has plenty to say to parents about relating to their children and for spouses relating to one another.

Grandchildren are the crown of the aged, and the glory of children is their fathers. Proverbs 17:6

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Proverbs 18:22

Discipline your son, for there is hope; do not set your heart on putting him to death. Proverbs 19:18

Relating to the Lord

Most importantly, the Proverbs give us insight into the heart of God. We see in these verses that the integrity, justice, and blessings of family and community are valuable to us because they are at the core of who God is.

Whoever mocks the poor insults his Maker;
he who is glad at calamity will not go unpunished. 17:5

The name of the Lord is a strong tower;
the righteous man runs into it and is safe. 18:10

The fear of the Lord leads to life,
and whoever has it rests satisfied; 19:23

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Give Attention to the Word and Find Good {Proverbs 13-16}

January 16, 2018 by Patti Brown 1 Comment

When I lived in Rhode Island, I would occasionally find Canadian coins mixed in with my American coins when it was time to pay for something. This happened because of our proximity to Canada and the fact that some of the coins looked fairly similar to American coins, if you weren’t looking closely. I would receive them back as change and not notice until later. We were all used to this happening, but we also understood that the Canadian money wasn’t usable in our stores.

Like my mixed-up change purse of American and Canadian coins, Proverbs is chock full of little nuggets that are applicable in particular contexts. In the Anchor Yale Bible commentary, Biblical scholar Michael Fox writes:

A proverb is like a coin, which has a “meaning” within its particular currency system and can be situated in relation to other coins in that system and translated into other currencies. Also like a coin, a proverb has a ﬁnite range of potential applications—a coin can buy some things but not everything. The coin gains its “performance-meaning” only when it is spent on something, when it is used in a particular situation to attain a certain goal. So too a proverb.

Each proverb has a unique value. Like Proverbs 16:20 says, when we give thought to these words (דָּ֭בָר or dabar) we will discover good, indeed a treasure, and the result is blessing!

One Hundred and Twenty Six Proverbs!

We are half way through the month, and half way through the book of Proverbs. Starting with chapter 10, we shifted out of the longer “lessons” and into short one-verse proverbs. Scholars have found no particular ordering system to these sayings. You won’t find all the proverbs on, say, fearing the Lord, or pride, or anger, organized in one place. Rather, the many topics addressed in Proverbs are scattered about the entirety of the book.

Today we will take a look at chapters 13 through 16, which together have a total of 126 verses – that’s 126 proverbs, each of which could be the topic of an entire post! So for the purpose of today’s discussion, I will focus on the topic in each chapter that has the most proverbs. In each case you can find proverbs in other chapters that address the same topic. And of course in each chapter you will find many other topics!

Proverbs Chapter 13

Wealth and poverty get a good bit of attention in chapter 13 (all verses quoted are in ESV):

One pretends to be rich, yet has nothing; another pretends to be poor, yet has great wealth. (Proverbs 13:7)
The ransom of a man’s life is his wealth, but a poor man hears no threat. (Proverbs 13:8)
Wealth gained hastily will dwindle, but whoever gathers little by little will increase it. (Proverbs 13:11)
Poverty and disgrace come to him who ignores instruction, but whoever heeds reproof is honored. (Proverbs 13:18)
A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children, but the sinner’s wealth is laid up for the righteous. (Proverbs 13:22)

There may be situations in which these verses can be applied to earthly wealth, but we know that financial prosperity and godliness do not always go hand in hand (see Job!)

Thanks be to God, as believers in Jesus Christ we are assured of eternal wealth (Matthew 16:19-21, Colossians 3:24) in heaven!

Proverbs Chapter 14

Six of the thirty-five verses of Proverbs 14 address the topic of righteousness and those who are upright:

Whoever walks in uprightness fears the Lord, but he who is devious in his ways despises him. (Proverbs 14:2)
Fools mock at the guilt offering, but the upright enjoy acceptance. (Proverbs 14:9)
The house of the wicked will be destroyed, but the tent of the upright will flourish. (Proverbs 14:11)
The evil bow down before the good, the wicked at the gates of the righteous. (Proverbs 14:19)
The wicked is overthrown through his evildoing, but the righteous finds refuge in his death. (Proverbs 14:32)
Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people. (Proverbs 14:34)

The upright fear the Lord, find goodwill with one another, will not experience eternal death like the wicked, will ultimately have victory, and know that after physical death is eternal life. In righteousness even an entire nation may be elevated.

Living right with God brings temporal and especially eternal blessing!

Proverbs Chapter 15

The topic of what we say – the mouth, tongue, lips, and words in general – is a frequent one throughout Proverbs. There are eight related verses in chapter 15:

A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. (Proverbs 15:1)
The tongue of the wise commends knowledge, but the mouths of fools pour out folly. (Proverbs 15:2)
A gentle tongue is a tree of life, but perverseness in it breaks the spirit. (Proverbs 15:4)
The lips of the wise spread knowledge; not so the hearts of fools. (Proverbs 15:7)
The heart of him who has understanding seeks knowledge, but the mouths of fools feed on folly. (Proverbs 15:14)
To make an apt answer is a joy to a man, and a word in season, how good it is! (Proverbs 15:23)
The thoughts of the wicked are an abomination to the Lord, but gracious words are pure. (Proverbs 15:26)
The heart of the righteous ponders how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours out evil things. (Proverbs 15:28)

Those who are wise with their words speak softly and purely, commend and spread knowledge, give life and joy to others with their words, and carefully ponder how to answer.

By contrast, fools speak harshly causing anger, break others’ spirits with their words, consume folly, and speak evil.

Many years later, James would write of taming the tongue (James 3:1-12). Our words makes a profound impact. Oh that we would be careful to “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” (Ephesians 4:29)

Proverbs Chapter 16

In Proverbs 16 we read five verses that discuss the king. These are proverbs that highlight what good leadership should look like.

An oracle is on the lips of a king; his mouth does not sin in judgment. (Proverbs 16:10)
It is an abomination to kings to do evil, for the throne is established by righteousness. (Proverbs 16:12)
Righteous lips are the delight of a king, and he loves him who speaks what is right. (Proverbs 16:13)
A king’s wrath is a messenger of death, and a wise man will appease it. (Proverbs 16:14)
In the light of a king’s face there is life, and his favor is like the clouds that bring the spring rain. (Proverbs 16:15)

A good king, or leader, should be wise, and he should speak and act righteously. He attends to the advice of those who speak rightly. Those who interact with the king would be wise not to incite his wrath, and to look for his favor.

We know that Jesus, the King of kings, embodies perfection. He is the perfect example on which all others, at any level of leadership, should model their behavior. “And on His robe and on His thigh He has a name written, “KING OF KINGS, AND LORD OF LORDS.” (Revelation 19:16)

Discerning Between God’s Way and Man’s Way

As Christians we must use caution in reading the Proverbs and not become overly legalistic. They are not a list of commandments, but rather are wise sayings gathered to help people in their daily lives. Wisdom is a valuable goal, but relying on one’s own wisdom is extremely dangerous.

A verse about this appears twice, word for word, once in chapter 14 and chapter 16:

There is a way that seems right to a man,
but its end is the way to death. Proverbs 14:12

There is a way that seems right to a man,
but its end is the way to death. Proverbs 16:25

It is pride that makes us think our own ways are wise. This is why the fear of the Lord is the beginning of true wisdom! (Proverbs 9:10) We can trust Him and His perfect ways.

What verses were especially meaningful to you in Proverbs 13-16?
Did any themes catch your attention?

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A Contrast Between Right and Wrong: Proverbs 10-12

January 12, 2018 by Alyssa Howard Leave a Comment

I love studying the book of Proverbs. It’s so… practical. No other book of the Bible contains such everyday information regarding our lives. Yet at the same time, this book is profoundly deep. I could easily spend an entire day just meditating on one solitary verse. In today’s post, we will take a look at chapters 10-12. In these verses written by Solomon, we find many contrasting images. You are either righteous or wicked, rich or poor, lazy or hardworking, wise or foolish, etc. While these chapters contain many different themes describing the difference between right and wrong, three themes, in particular, stood out to me as I studied.

Worth ethic and integrity matter… Solomon speaks often here in these chapters about the importance of hard work and integrity. Laziness is definitely not of God, and it will yield you no reward. Integrity is equally important. I love the first verse of chapter 11 where we are told that a “just weight” is God’s delight.

A slack hand causes poverty, but the hand of the diligent makes rich. – Proverbs 10:4

Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out. – Proverbs 10:9

A false balance is an abomination to the Lord, but a just weight is his delight. – Proverbs 11:1

The importance of our words… Taming the tongue is no small feat. In fact, James 3:8 tells us that “no human being can tame the tongue.” It’s a good thing we have the Holy Spirit living within us! Through His power and strength, our words can become a source of healing and encouragement to the world around us.

Whoever belittles his neighbor lacks sense, but a man of understanding remains silent. – Proverbs 11:12

There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing. – Proverbs 12:18

Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad. – Proverbs 12:25

A matter of life or death… Apart from righteousness, we are doomed to perish. But true righteousness isn’t granted because of our behavior. It is through faith alone that we are declared righteous by God. (Hebrews 11) In Christ, we are born again. And in Him, we have righteousness and eternal life.

Riches do not profit in the day of wrath, but righteousness delivers from death. – Proverbs 11:4

Whoever is steadfast in righteousness will live, but he who pursues evil will die. – Proverbs 11:19

In the path of righteousness is life, and in its pathway there is no death. – Proverbs 12:28

These verses are far more than wise sayings. They speak truth and wisdom to our everyday lives. Solomon was given his wisdom by God, and we can trust these words to be true because they were inspired by the Holy Spirit.

What I love most about these passages is that they are direct and straight to the point. They never try to sugar coat the truth. The very first verse of chapter 12 even tells us that “he who hates reproof is stupid.” (Solomon was certainly not one to be subtle!)

While a lot of these verses may seem like common sense, the truth is that living in wisdom can be difficult. Applying these verses and taking them to heart is something we must learn to do on a daily basis. But we are not on our own!

The Holy Spirit, the one God sent to comfort and to guide, lives within us. Following His lead will always lead to wise living.

What themes stood out the most to you this week as you read through chapters 10-12? Ask the Holy Spirit to help you as you apply these words of wisdom to your life.

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Wisdom Is Calling You – Proverbs Eight and Nine

January 9, 2018 by Lisa Burgess Leave a Comment

Are you hearing invitations from Wisdom through Proverbs 8 and 9?

The book of Proverbs is in the Poetry division of the Old Testament. But it is also part of the wisdom literature. It covers many topics and applies to all of us in many stages of life.

Read Proverbs 8 and 9 and see which nuggets of wisdom are meant for your life this week.

Proverbs Chapter 8

Now understanding releases her voice.
Wisdom cries out, that all men may rejoice.
Wisdom and prudence are better than gold.
Knowledge, herself, has a value untold.
– Alvy E. Ford
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I sometimes wish that lady Wisdom really was a person walking down my street (Proverbs 8:2), tapping me on the shoulder, handing out specific truths to each person she meets.

But instead, while He does still speak, God wants us to intentionally seek out His wise voice to hear Him from among the noise around us. He wants us receive the armloads of life (Proverbs 8:21) that He gives us each day. And when we do, we also receive His good pleasure (Proverbs 8:35).

Does a particular word or verse stand out to you in chapter 8? Look it up in the original Hebrew or read a commentary for more context on your verse.

This verse encourages me to wait daily on God.

“Blessed is the one who listens to me, watching daily at my gates, waiting beside my doors.”
Proverbs 8:34

Proverbs Chapter 9

Wisdom has builded; her table is spread;
Here may the simple turn in and be fed.
Clamorous woman is wicked and vain;
Here may the simple turn in and be slain.
– Alvy E. Ford

It sounds like an easy choice, yes? Choose life or choose death (Deuteronomy 30:19).

But the self-discipline to exercise wisdom doesn’t always come easily to us.

So let’s use Solomon’s words and God’s truths in Proverbs 9 as reminders that choosing blessing over curse every day is worth our efforts.

Is there a verse in this chapter that you’d like to meditate on? To memorize?

My choice is likely one of yours too:

“The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight.”
Proverbs 9:10

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Practical Warnings – Proverbs Six and Seven

January 8, 2018 by Lisa Burgess 3 Comments

What can we learn from chapters 6 and 7 of Proverbs?

Should we loan money to others?
Is napping all day worth it?
What are the 7 things that God hates?
Was my parents’ advice right?

The answer key is in Proverbs 6 and 7, more chapters written by King Solomon in the book of Proverbs.

Proverbs Chapter 6

If you have foolishly signed for a friend,
Pay off his debt, that the matter may end.
Theft, upon payment, may rightly be cleared;
But, an adulterer always is smeared.
– Alvy E. Ford
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As you read the collection of wise sayings in this chapter, zone in on one or two that speak to your current situation.

If you need encouragement against laziness, start at Proverbs 6:6.
If you need to know what repulses God, start at Proverbs 6:16.
If you wonder about your parents’ teachings, start at Proverbs 6:20.
If you’re tempted to cheat on your partner, start at Proverbs 6:25.

Which verse stands out to you? Write it down or print it out. Try memorizing it this week.

Here is one of my favorites about good teachings.

“When you walk, they will lead you; when you lie down, they will watch over you; and when you awake, they will talk with you.”
Proverbs 6:22

Proverbs Chapter 7

Comes a young man who is empty of head:
There, is enticed by adultery’s bed;
There, for one evening he enters to dwell;
There, he is snared by the forces of hell.
– Alvy E. Ford

Have you noticed how often Solomon emphasizes staying faithful to your spouse? It’s a lot. He obviously struggled with it himself. In the end, his multiple wives led him away from God to worship idols (1 Kings 11:1-13). Juggling 700 wives, princesses, and 300 concubines might do that.

But even one stray affair also breaks hearts. Read Proverbs 7 to avoid being seduced.

Is there one verse that stands out to you from chapter 7? Any verse you’d like to memorize?

I choose this one.

“Say to wisdom, ‘You are my sister,’ and call insight your intimate friend.”
Proverbs 7:4

Come back tomorrow for Proverbs 8 and 9.

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Wisdom for Today – Proverbs Chapters One and Two

January 2, 2018 by Ali Shaw 4 Comments

Don’t we all long for wisdom? Every day we’re faced with choices that need wise responses. I recently read an article that stated the average person makes about 35,000 decisions a day. Thirty-five thousand! Of course, some of those decisions (like what socks to wear) don’t necessitate much thought or discernment. But plenty do, like: What do I say in this situation? What should I do? What’s the better choice? Friends, we need wisdom! Thankfully, God has given us an instruction book. It’s His Word. And the Book of Proverbs is a great place to begin when we’re seeking wisdom.

Book of Proverbs Background

Though the Proverbs were written primarily by Solomon to both his descendants and other men of Israel, they are for everyone who seeks wisdom for daily living. (That’s us!) For the myriad of choices we face each day, the Book of Proverbs offers wisdom. It also offers us assurance of the life to come. (A beautiful combination!) Written shy of a thousand years before Christ lived, these wise words point to living as He instructed and to the eternal reward He promised for being God’s child.

Theologian Charles Ryrie explains that a proverb is a comparison and mini-parable. He also says, “…these proverbs are not so much popular sayings as they are a distillation of wisdom from those who knew the law of God.”

Are you ready for a distillation of wisdom?

Wisdom for 2018

Like you, I’m no stranger to the fact that ancient words can apply to us today. But still, it blows my mind that wisdom for the new year can be drawn from a book written roughly 3000 years ago. As I’m filling in my planner, checking my phone calendar, and watching YouTube videos about New Year’s goals, I’m also digging into Solomon’s words from so, so long ago. It’s crazy, isn’t it? But that’s God’s Word. Always relevant. Always applicable.

God’s Word: Always relevant. Always applicable. Wisdom for today in Proverbs. #31DaysInProverbs

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I stumbled upon this from Chuck Swindolll and thought you might like it as much as I did:

Proverbs accomplishes something no other biblical book does: it simply compiles numerous short instructions for living an effective life on earth. While other books articulate profound theological truths, lengthy narratives of triumph and failure, or prophetic preaching to a disobedient people, Proverbs concerns itself completely with instructing people in the path of wisdom. The writers of the book recognized the varied circumstances of a person’s life and provided principles to apply in a variety of situations rather than instructions to follow in only a few specific instances. (Emphasis, mine.)

By inspiration of the Holy Spirit, the writers of Proverbs recognized the circumstances of a person’s life and provided principles for us to follow. It gives us short instructions for living an effective life. Even today. In 2018. I think that’s miraculous!

Proverbs Chapters One and Two

So what’s in these first two chapters? If you read Chapter One yesterday for the 31 Day Challenge, you know that the beginning lists out reasons why this book was put together.

To know wisdom (v1)
To receive instruction (v2)
To give prudence (v3)
To increase the learning of the the wise (v5)
To better understand the words of the wise (v6)

Chapter One goes on to instruct us how to avoid being enticed by sin and then tells us to heed the advice of wisdom. In this section, wisdom is personified as a woman calling out to everyone to come listen, though few do.

Interestingly, today’s reading (Chapter Two), is titled in some Bibles “Avoid the Adultress” and in others, “The Value of Wisdom.” While three verses (16 through 19) do give instruction on avoiding the adultress that lures men to sin, the remainder of the the chapter highlights the value and source of wisdom.

For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding. –Proverbs 2:6

Then you will understand righteousness and justice and equity, every good path. –Proverbs 2:9

Seeking and Finding Wisdom

So what is it in these first two chapters that stands out to you? For me, it’s wisdom personified and Solomon’s words in the beginning of Chapter Two. I want to answer the call and be one who comes to the Lord for wisdom. God calls to us, invites us, and promises that if we seek wisdom through Him and through His Word, we will find it. And like we know from our DoNotDepart theme verse, it’s by thinking (meditating) on God’s wisdom (expressed in His Word) that we can begin to act on it, and then we are promised success.

This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success. — Joshua 1:8

What a promise to start the New Year with!

Please share in the comments what stands out to you in these chapters, or join the discussion in our FB community.

Blessings!
Ali

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A Recap on Wisdom for Life

September 30, 2013 by Julie Leave a Comment

We’ve been in pursuit of Wisdom for Life here this month. Our prayer is that we’ve given you some Bible study tools to know how to get the wisdom and insight you need for life as a woman, an employee, a mom, a friend, a wife, a sister, a child, a friend, a neighbor.

How much better to get wisdom than gold! To get understanding is to be chosen rather than silver. (Proverbs 16:16)

A Recap on Wisdom for Life

3 Tips to Understanding Proverbs
Wisdom for today … still calling
What the world needs now … wisdom
Using Inductive Bible Study with Kids
Where you find wisdom
Oh, Job (Learning to abide with God when you don’t understand)
Applying Wisdom with Love (Rather than legalistic law)
Wisdom from Proverbs (free printable)
Ecclesiastes: Wisdom to Understand What Matters Most

Let us know if you were helped this Wisdom for Life month. Share in the comments if this helped you to “wise up.”

Where you find wisdom

September 12, 2013 by Lisa Burgess 9 Comments

And because of him you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption.
1 Corinthians 1:30

I’m afraid of being stupid. I realized it a few years ago.

None of us wants to be dumb. We all need wisdom.

To make godly decisions
To raise children who know the Lord
To love others in helpful ways
To glorify God in word and deed

Who’s the wisest man who ever lived? Solomon? He asked God for wisdom when he could have asked for anything (1 Kings 3:9). He subsequently authored much of the wisdom literature in the Bible.

Yet someone wiser than Solomon is here: Jesus (Matthew 12:42). In the Bible we typically seek His wisdom in the gospels where we see Him teaching about wisdom and living wisely (Matthew 13:54).

But Jesus can also be found in the wisdom literature of the Old Testament (2 Timothy 3:15).

THE WISDOM OF HUMILITY (JOB)

When Job suffered greatly as an apparently innocent man, his friends tried to find a reason. He obviously hadn’t been wise about keeping a rule or two; why else would he have lost so much? Eventually Job himself demanded answers from God (Job 3:11 ff).

But here we see foreshadowing of another Man who suffered—despite total innocence. Not only did He not question God about it, He wisely chose to obey at painful costs to Himself.

His wisdom teaches us to let go of demanding the answers. Instead, we’re to throw ourselves on His mercy in humility. Even when we don’t understand. Maybe especially when we don’t understand.

THE WISDOM OF WORSHIP (PSALMS)

The authors of these songs put word to emotions, not only for themselves, but also for us. Jesus Himself often quoted the Psalms (Psalm 31:5, for example).

In these laments, confessions, and praises, we learn to choose the wisdom of worship, verbalizing our adoration of and to Wisdom Himself—the Rock we rest on, the Refuge we hide in, the Shepherd we walk behind.

THE WISDOM OF THE WAY (PROVERBS)

We learn in this series of sayings that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge. Solomon urged over and over to choose the way of wisdom over the way of foolishness.

But what we know that he didn’t is that Jesus is the Way, the truth, and the life. He is wisdom personified (Proverbs 8:17), and to be truly wise, we’ll seek Him, empowered by His Spirit in us to choose the right over wrong that Solomon was preaching about.

THE WISDOM OF HOPE (ECCLESIASTES)

This book contains questions that can haunt us still: What is life’s true meaning? What is my purpose? Is all really hopeless?

While the world’s wisdom leaves us empty of lasting answers (Ecclesiastes 1:16-18), eternal wisdom from hoping in Jesus fills us up. In Him we live and love with meaning. Instead of chasing after knowledge, we chase after Him. Only then do we find purpose renewed and hope restored.

THE WISDOM OF CONNECTION (SONG OF SOLOMON)

Whether you see this collection of poems as an analogy or as pure story, this message comes across: the intimacy of love is to be desired (Song of Solomon 1:4).

While the original audience knew about God, they lacked full knowledge about Jesus. But from our vantage point in history, we see God’s wisdom in creating a beloved bride for the perfect Bridegroom. We are wise to recognize and delight in the love of the One who makes us His spotless bride.

Study deeper in these Old Testament books to find more.

And as you do, remember: True wisdom isn’t one more piece of knowledge we learn; it’s a Person we can know.

Jesus is our wisdom (1 Corinthians 1:30), and trusting Him is the wisest thing we can ever do.

Which of the five Wisdom Books is your favorite? Why? Do you see Jesus in it?

Please share your thoughts below.

For more on Jesus in the wisdom literature, see Nancy Guthrie’s [amazon_link id=”1433526328″ target=”_blank” ]The Wisdom of God: Seeing Jesus in the Psalms & Wisdom Books[/amazon_link]

3 Tips for Understanding Proverbs

September 10, 2013 by Kathy Howard 3 Comments

Wisdom literature comes in a variety of forms, but the best know is probably the “proverb.” Proverbs are easy to remember and often fun to say. For instance, men love to quote Proverbs 21:9: “Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.” (Ladies, unfortunately this is sad, but true!)

However, believers today often misunderstand or misuse this ancient form of wisdom writing. In today’s post, we will briefly define a proverb and then consider 3 interpretive tips that will help us understand this practical advice for living.

What is a proverb?

A proverb is an observation of life stated in a memorable way. It is a “persuasive saying proven true by experience” (“Encountering the Old Testament” by Arnold and Beyer, page 314). Proverbs are not unique to the Bible. Many ancient cultures made us of this literary device.

However, for the ancient Israelite, the purpose of a proverb was to “apply the principles of Israel’s covenant faith to everyday attitudes, activities, and relationships” (“Old Testament Survey” by Lasor, Hubbard, and Bush, page 460). Biblical proverbs are also an observation of life, but they also acknowledge that true wisdom comes from God (Proverbs 1:7).

How can we understand the Proverbs?

Like the rest of Scripture, the Proverbs must be understood in light of their purpose, literary genre, context, and original meaning. Proverbs are a unique literary style and cannot be interpreted in the same way we do a historical book or an epistle.

Although the tips below are just a tip of the hermeneutical iceberg, they will get us off to a great start in understanding the Proverbs and applying their wisdom to our lives.

3 Tips to understanding Proverbs

1. Principles, Not Promises

A biblical proverb seeks to apply God’s wisdom to the situations of life. They are guidelines for living, general principles, not promises from God. While generally accurate, they do not take into account every possible scenario or individual circumstance. Therefore, they are not guarantees of a certain outcome, but rather point hearers to the best chance for success. One well-know example is Proverbs 22:6:

“Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.”

Many of us have known Christian parents who claimed this verse as a promise and then were disillusioned when a child turned away from God and never returned. This demonstrates how important it is to understand the nature of a proverb.

2. Pithy Poetry

A proverb is a saying that encapsulates a broad observation about life. Its primary goal is to state an important, simple truth about life in easy-to-remember terms. Consider Proverbs 27:6:

“Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.”

Brief and memorable, this proverb is about something much deeper than flesh wounds and kisses. True friends tell us the truth for our good, even when it hurts. “Enemies” simply tell us what we want to hear or butter us up to get something they want.

Let’s look beyond the surface and past the simple, catchy words of a proverb to find the deeper truth. Then let’s apply that godly wisdom to our lives.

3. Proper Perspective

These ancient proverbs are based on ancient standards. They usually speak of simple desires and basic needs. Yet, often we subconsciously impose our modern, Western mindset and values.

“Whoever gives heed to instruction prospers, and blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord” (Proverbs 16:20).

Just imagine how the influence of our affluent culture can affect our understanding of “prospers” and “blessed.” The typical ancient Israelite considered himself blessed if he had shelter and enough food.

We could talk a lot more about proverbs. However, if we remember these 3 tips, we will be well on our way to wise living!

Did any of these 3 surprise you? In light of these 3 tips, have been misunderstanding a particular proverb?

Wisdom for today … still calling

September 5, 2013 by Julie 6 Comments

The Bible isn’t the only book of wisdom. Around the globe, men have reached for other books claiming to be the source of wisdom, also known as “skill in godly living.” When biblical wisdom literature was recorded, scribes of parallel cultures and kingdoms also penned their words and stories. But when we talk about biblical truth, “All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work,” (2 Timothy 3:16). God’s book self identifies its content as inspired by the one true God, and that makes its wisdom unique and essential.

When we refer to biblical Wisdom Literature we include five books: Job, Psalms, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Song of Solomon. The righteous, the wicked, and the true God play the main parts in these books, revealing the limits of mankind’s wisdom and the necessity of fearing of God to prosper and find peace. In the times their words were written, voices opposing God’s ways called out from ancient streets peppered with a plethora of gods, but today voices call out from media screens, digital highways, steel framed cities and hand held gadgets. The tug of war for how we live hasn’t changed, but in many ways, the appearance of “righteous” and “wicked” has. Some may assume, then, the Bible doesn’t speak to life today, but Wisdom Literature’s concrete teaching matters as much now as when Job scraped his oozing sores.

Keys to unlock the 5 Wisdom books:

Job – This book addresses the same questions asked today: Can we trust God? Is He good? Where do we find real comfort? The relatable character’s story takes place outside of Israel. Ultimately, we can put our faith in the sovereign God.
Psalms – Not all of these songs written for public worship fit in the “wisdom” category. Divided into 5 books, the Book of Psalms likely began as personal expressions of emotion, adapted for congregations. This book gives shape to our intense feelings about life in pursuit of God. Basic Old Testament themes like the fall of man, the One God, and the covenant relationship come to life here.
Proverbs – This collection of wisdom makes it clear that to be skillful in godly living, we must fear God and walk His way in everyday life. Practical truths show what a restored life with God looks like in our behavior, producing a joyful, useful life. Wisdom is available to all, and we discover it by comparing the wise man, the foolish man, and the simple man.
Ecclesiastes – This is a book for our day; Ecclesiastes explores trusting in God while living in a messed up world. Poetic devices help organize these proverbs into clusters with a plot line about the unfolding of a quest for a good and satisfying life. This could be written in our day.
Song of Solomon – Intimacy stirs up emotion, and this book of love poetry is no exception. With a variety of opinions on its interpretation, some treat it as an allegory of God’s love for Israel and others as a picture of Christ’s love for the church. Authorship is not certain, but we agree that it’s a love story. There’s no doubt this poetic book demonstrates how God’s ways are the pathway to delight.

In the New Testament the Book of James and some of Jesus’ own teaching also qualify as “Biblical Wisdom Literature,” but these five Old Testament books form the collection commonly known as Wisdom Literature.

Today, as in days of old, “fools despise wisdom and instruction” (Prov. 1:7) but wisdom cries aloud in the street, in the market she raises her voice,” (Prov. 1:20). Wisdom asks, “How long, O simple ones, will you love being simple? How long will scoffers delight in their scoffing and fools hate knowledge?” (Prov. 1:22). It’s hard to hear the call of wisdom in today’s world, but our children, families, and world are desperate to understand and apply skill in godly living that leads to a relationship with God and His peace.

“Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance,to understand a proverb and a saying, the words of the wise and their riddles. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction.” (Prov. 1:22)

What evidence do you see that people desperately need biblical wisdom?

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What the world needs now: WISDOM

September 3, 2013 by Julie 3 Comments

I dropped off my teenager and went to look for a parking spot. The place was packed. A man sat with his bottle and bag of books on the curb, staring at the pages as if they were empty. I wormed my way inside the store and past a long line of customers who looked like they’d been out all night. A swarm of humanity pushed each other aside to rifle through video games, movies, and gadgetry as if the store would close any minute … but it was mid-afternoon. From the upper level, a child screamed and ran away from an adult yelling obscene words to recapture him, and a man walked past me displaying an equally obscene t-shirt like a billboard on a highway. A couple sat on an old couch, groping one another as they watched the parade of people, but their gender was a mystery to me. Jesus once saw a throng such as that and “When he saw the crowds, he had compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matt. 9:36)

I ducked into the first aisle to search for my son, only to find myself in “Erotic Fantasy,” just on the other side of “Children’s Fiction.” With bookshelves towering over my head across the length of the warehouse, I thought, there must surely be a book containing answers for wise living that the crowds with me so desperately need.

Today’s world thirsts for wisdom that comes from God alone.
Today’s church is malnutritioned when it comes to vital wisdom for living out our faith in an obscene world.

After navigating my way through the world, the Bibles were in the back corner of the store. God’s book of truth holds the key to wisdom we so desperately need, and it was there all the time, waiting to be opened and read and obeyed. We only need to see what’s trending, check the Facebook feed, turn on the news, or open our front door to see our world buckling under the weight of sin and begging for the underpinnings of wisdom to give us strength and structure.

This month at Do Not Depart we’re taking a look at Wisdom Literature. We’ll give you Bible study tools to understand the rich resource of wisdom God has given us. Wisdom is calling out to us, and God’s blessings await those who listen. Come with us as we explore tools for unlocking Wisdom Literature.

Are you feeling the need for wisdom in your life?

Proverbs 31 Wrap Up

October 4, 2011 by Teri Lynne Underwood Leave a Comment

We’ve reached the end of our study of Mrs. P31 … and we hope you are with us in declaring:

Over the past few weeks we’ve identified thirteen characteristics of the Proverbs 31 woman … and we hope you have been encouraged by what we’ve learned. Here is a recap of those qualities:

We have been overwhelmed by the response to this series! Thank you!! We appreciate all the comments and shares and tweets … you have truly blessed us by your involvement. We’re looking forward to kicking off our next series, The Names of God, on Monday.

Oh, and speaking of wrapping up … I realized that we never announced the winner of Savoring Living Water! Natalie, it’s you!! I’m emailing you with details and hope you enjoy the ebook.

Come back tomorrow for some important news from our team and on Friday we’ll be sharing an exciting new resource available from our own Stephanie Shott!!